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'''Gay''' is an adjective meaning "carefree", "happy", or "bright and showy"; however in modern usage, '''gay''' is a word usually used, as either a noun orfdasfsd adjective, to refer to same-sex sexual orientation — ].Sam lloyd Jones is gay | |||
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'''''Gay''''' is a term that ] to a ] person or the trait of being homosexual. The term originally meant 'carefree', 'cheerful', or 'bright and showy'.<ref>{{cite book|last1=Hobson|first1=Archie|title=The Oxford Dictionary of Difficult Words|date=2001|publisher=]|edition=1st|isbn=978-0195146738|url-access=registration|url=https://archive.org/details/oxforddictionary00arch}}</ref> | |||
"Gay", when used as an adjective, sometimes describes traits associated with both ], or ], men and women, culture or lifestyle. The term ], on the other hand, is used exclusively in a gender-specific way to describe women who prefer sexual relations with other women. | |||
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==Etymology== | |||
] from 1857 illustrating the use of "gay" as a euphemism for prostitution. One woman says to the other (who looks glum), "how long have you been gay?" The poster on the wall is for ], an opera about a courtesan.]] | |||
While scant usage referring to ] dates to the late 19th century, that meaning became increasingly common by the mid-20th century.<ref name=etymonline>{{cite web | last = Harper | first = Douglas | author-link = Douglas Harper | title = Gay | work = Online Etymology dictionary | date = 2001–2013 | url = http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?term=gay | access-date = 13 February 2006 | archive-url = https://web.archive.org/web/20060219193127/http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?term=gay | archive-date = 19 February 2006 | url-status=live }}</ref> In modern ], ''gay'' has come to be used as an ], and as a ], referring to the ], ] and ] associated with homosexuality. In the 1960s, ''gay'' became the word favored by ] to describe their ].<ref>{{cite web|title=Gay|url=https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/gay|website=]|publisher=]|access-date=13 February 2018|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180521235009/https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/definition/gay|archive-date=21 May 2018|url-status=dead}}</ref> By the end of the 20th century and beginning of the 21st century, the word ''gay'' was recommended by major ] groups and ]s to describe people attracted to members of the same sex,<ref>{{Cite web |date=2022-02-24 |title=GLAAD Media Reference Guide - LGBTQ Terms |url=https://www.glaad.org/reference/terms |access-date=2023-03-27 |website=GLAAD |language=en}}</ref><ref name=APAHeteroBiasLang>{{cite web|title=Avoiding Heterosexual Bias in Language|url=http://www.apa.org/pi/lgbt/resources/language.aspx|website=]|access-date=14 March 2015|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20150321033057/http://www.apa.org/pi/lgbt/resources/language.aspx|archive-date=21 March 2015|url-status=live}} (Reprinted from {{Webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180603155851/http://psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2F0003-066X.46.9.973 |date=3 June 2018 }})</ref> although it is more commonly used to refer specifically to men.<ref name=glaad10/> | |||
The primary meaning of the word ''gay'' has changed dramatically during the 20th century—though the change evolved from earlier usages. It derives via the ] ''gai'', probably from a ] source.<ref>. (URL accessed April 4, 2006).</ref> The word originally meant "carefree", "happy", or "bright and showy" and was very commonly used with this meaning in speech and literature. For example, the title of the 1938 ] aptly named ''Gaîté Parisienne'' ("Parisian Gaiety"), a patchwork compiled from ]'s operettas, illustrates this connotation. In more recent times, starting in the mid 20th century, the word ''gay'' cannot usually be used in this former context without the expectation that one will assume a ], or that the person using the term is out of touch with contemporary society. | |||
At about the same time, a new, ] use became prevalent in some parts of the world. Among younger speakers, the word has a meaning ranging from derision (e.g., equivalent to 'rubbish' or 'stupid') to a light-hearted mockery or ridicule (e.g., equivalent to 'weak', 'unmanly', or ']'). The extent to which these usages still retain connotations of homosexuality has been debated and harshly criticized.<ref name="Winterman">{{cite news|first=Denise|last=Winterman|title=How 'gay' became children's insult of choice|work=]|date=18 March 2008|access-date=29 May 2013|url=http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/7289390.stm|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20140202204245/http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/7289390.stm|archive-date=2 February 2014|url-status=live}}</ref><ref>{{cite web|url=http://www.gay.com/news/article.html?2006/04/26/1|archive-url=https://archive.today/20070301145035/http://www.gay.com/news/article.html?2006/04/26/1|archive-date=1 March 2007|title=Anti-gay abuse seen to pervade U.S. schools}}</ref>{{update inline|reason=These are over 10yrs old; language about sexual orientation has changed a lot in this time|date=July 2022}} | |||
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The word started to acquire sexual connotations in the late 17th century, being used with meaning "addicted to pleasures and dissipations". This was by extension from the primary meaning of "carefree": implying "uninhibited by moral constraints". By the late nineteenth century the term "gay life" was a well-established euphemism for ] and other forms of extramarital sexual behaviour that were perceived as immoral. | |||
== History == | |||
The first name ''Gay'' is still occasionally encountered, usually as a female name although the spelling is often altered to ''Gaye''. (795th most common in the United States, according to the 1990 US census). It was also used as a male first name. The first name of the popular male Irish television presenter ] was always abbreviated as "Gay", as in the title of his radio show ''The Gay Byrne Show''. It can also be used as a short form of the female name ''Gaynell'' and as a short form of the male names ''Gaylen'' and ''Gaylord''. The "Gaiety" was also a common name for places of entertainment. One of ]'s favourite venues in Dublin was the ], first appearing there in 1884. | |||
=== Overview === | |||
] in 1857 illustrating the use of "gay" as a ] ] for being a prostitute;<ref>{{cite web| title = The Great Social Evil| url = https://archive.org/stream/punch32a33lemouoft#page/390/mode/2up| access-date = 5 September 2012| archive-url = https://web.archive.org/web/20160402172518/https://archive.org/stream/punch32a33lemouoft#page/390/mode/2up| archive-date = 2 April 2016| url-status=live}} ''Punch'' magazine, Volume 33, 1857, page 390. A stand-alone editorial cartoon, no accompanying article.</ref> one woman says to the other (who looks glum), "How long have you been gay?" The poster on the wall is for '']'', an opera about a ]]] | |||
The word ''gay'' arrived in English during the 12th century from ] ''gai'', most likely deriving ultimately from a ] source.<ref name=etymonline/> | |||
===Development of modern sexualized usage=== | |||
The use of the term ''gay'', as it relates to homosexuality, arises from an extension of the sexualised connotation of "carefree and uninhibited", implying a willingness to disregard conventional or respectable sexual mores. Such usage is documented as early as the 1920s. It was initially more commonly used to imply heterosexually unconstrained lifestyles, as for example in the once-common phrase "gay Lothario",<ref></ref> or in the title of the book and film [[The Falcon (literary character)| | |||
''The Gay Falcon'']] (1941), which concerns a womanizing detective whose first name is "Gay". Well into the mid 20th century a middle-aged bachelor could be described as "gay" without ]. | |||
In English, the word's primary meaning was "joyful", "carefree", "bright and showy", and the word was very commonly used with this meaning in speech and literature. For example, the ] 1890s are still often referred to as the '']''. The title of the 1938 French ] '']'' ("Parisian Gaiety"), which became the 1941 ] movie, '']'',<ref>{{cite web|url=https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0033651/|title=The Gay Parisian (1941)|author=xoregos|date=2 December 1941|work=IMDb|access-date=1 July 2018|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20170209154804/http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0033651/|archive-date=9 February 2017|url-status=live}}</ref> also illustrates this connotation. It was apparently not until the 20th century that the word began to be used to mean specifically "homosexual", although it had earlier acquired sexual connotations.<ref name="etymonline" /> | |||
A passage from ]'s ''Miss Furr & Miss Skeene'' (1922) is possibly the first traceable published use of the word to refer to a homosexual relationship, though it is not altogether clear whether she uses the word to mean ]ism or happiness: | |||
The derived abstract noun '']'' remains largely free of sexual connotations and has, in the past, been used in the names of places of entertainment, such as the ] in Dublin. | |||
:''They were ...gay, they learned little things that are things in being gay, ... they were quite regularly gay.'' | |||
=== Sexualization === | |||
The 1929 musical '']'' by ] contains another use of the word in a context that strongly implies homosexuality. In the song "Green Carnation", four overdressed, 1890s ] sing: | |||
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The word may have started to acquire associations of sexual ] as early as the 14th century, but had certainly acquired them by the 17th.<ref name=etymonline/> By the late 17th century, it had acquired the specific meaning of "addicted to pleasures and dissipations",<ref name=oed/> an extension of its primary meaning of "carefree" implying "uninhibited by moral constraints". A ''gay woman'' was a ], a ''gay man'' a ], and a ''gay house'' a ].<ref>{{Cite web |title=Definition of gay {{!}} Dictionary.com |url=https://www.dictionary.com/browse/gayest |access-date=2022-05-07 |website=www.dictionary.com |language=en}}</ref><ref name=etymonline/> An example is a letter read to a London court in 1885 during the prosecution of brothel madam and procuress ] that had been written by a girl while enslaved inside of a French brothel: | |||
:''Pretty boys, witty boys, You may sneer'' | |||
:''At our disintegration.'' | |||
:''Haughty boys, naughty boys, | |||
:''Dear, dear, dear!'' | |||
:''Swooning with affectation...'' | |||
:''And as we are the reason'' | |||
:''For the "Nineties" being gay,'' | |||
:''We all wear a green carnation.'' | |||
{{blockquote|I write to tell you it is a gay house ... Some captains came in the other night, and the mistress wanted us to sleep with them.<ref>English Girls Decoyed To France, The Sentinel, Issue 73, May 1885, London, p415</ref>|}} | |||
The song title alludes to ], who famously wore a ] ], and whose homosexuality was well known. However, the phrase "gay nineties" was already well-established as an epithet for the decade (a film entitled ''The Gay Nineties; or, The Unfaithful Husband'' was released in the same year). The song also drew on familiar satires on Wilde and ] dating back to ]'s '']'' (1881). Because of its continuation of these public usages and conventions – in a mainstream musical – the precise connotations of the word in this context remain ambiguous. | |||
The use of ''gay'' to mean "homosexual" was often an extension of its application to prostitution: a ''gay boy'' was a young man or boy serving male clients.<ref>{{Cite book|title=Gay and Lesbian Washington, D.C.|last=Muzzy|first=Frank|publisher=Arcadia Publishing|year=2005|isbn=978-0738517537|pages=7}}</ref> | |||
Other usages at this date involve some of the same ambiguity as Coward's lyrics. ] (1938) was the first film to use the word ''gay'' in apparent reference to homosexuality. In a scene where ]'s clothes have been sent to the cleaners, he must wear a lady's feathery robe. When another character inquires about his clothes, he responds "Because I just went gay...all of a sudden!" However, since this was a mainstream film at a time when the use of the word to refer to homosexuality would still be unfamiliar to most film-goers, the line can also be interpreted to mean "I just decided to do something frivolous". While there is much debate about what Grant meant with the ad-lib (the line was not in the script), Grant's Hollywood background should leave little doubt as to what he meant--he knew the connotation of the term, even if the audience did not.{{citeneeded}} | |||
Similarly, a ''gay cat'' was a young male apprenticed to an older ] and commonly exchanging sex and other services for protection and tutelage.<ref name="etymonline" /> The application to homosexuality was also an extension of the word's sexualized connotation of "carefree and uninhibited", which implied a willingness to disregard conventional or respectable ]. Such usage, documented as early as the 1920s, was likely present before the 20th century,<ref name=etymonline/> although it was initially more commonly used to imply heterosexually unconstrained lifestyles, as in the once-common phrase "]",<ref>{{cite web |url=http://www.bartleby.com/81/10549.html |title=Dictionary of Phrase and Fable |last=Brewer |first=E. Cobham |year=1898 |access-date=8 January 2006 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20060315232314/http://www.bartleby.com/81/10549.html |archive-date=15 March 2006 |url-status=live }}</ref> or in the title of the book and film ] (1941), which concerns a womanizing detective whose first name is "Gay". Similarly, ] and ]'s ] song of the 1880s, "Charlie Dilke Upset the Milk" – "Master Dilke upset the milk, when taking it home to Chelsea; the papers say that Charlie's gay, rather a wilful wag!" – referred to Sir ]'s alleged heterosexual impropriety.<ref>John Major (2012) ''My Old Man'', page 87 and note</ref> Giving testimony in court in 1889, the prostitute ] stated: "I occasionally do odd-jobs for different gay people."<ref>{{Cite journal|url = https://muse.jhu.edu/journals/journal_of_lesbian_and_gay_studies/v005/5.3kaplan.html|title = Who's Afraid Of John Saul? Urban Culture and the Politics of Desire in Late Victorian London|last = Kaplan|first = Morris|date = 1999|journal = GLQ: A Journal of Lesbian and Gay Studies|volume = 5|issue = 3|pages = 267–314|doi = 10.1215/10642684-5-3-267|s2cid = 140452093|archive-url = https://web.archive.org/web/20151112123013/http://muse.jhu.edu/journals/journal_of_lesbian_and_gay_studies/v005/5.3kaplan.html|archive-date = 12 November 2015|url-status=live| issn = 1064-2684}}</ref> | |||
The word continued to be used with the dominant meaning of "carefree", as evidenced by the title of ] (1934), a musical film about a heterosexual couple. It was originally to be called ] after the play on which it was based, but the ] determined that while a divorcee may be gay, it would be unseemly to allow a divorce to appear so. | |||
Well into the mid 20th century a middle-aged bachelor could be described as "gay", indicating that he was unattached and therefore free, without any implication of homosexuality. This usage could apply to women too. The British comic strip '']'', first published in the 1930s, described the adventures of ''Jane Gay''. Far from implying homosexuality, it referred to her free-wheeling lifestyle with plenty of boyfriends (while also punning on ]). | |||
By the mid-century "gay" was well-established as an antonym for "straight" (respectable sexual behaviour), and to refer to the lifestyles of unmarried and or unattached people. Other connotations of frivolousness and showiness in dress ("gay attire") led to association with ] and effeminacy. This range of connotation probably affected the gradual movement of the term towards its current dominant meaning, which was at first confined to subcultures. The subcultural usage started to become mainstream in the 1960s, when ''gay'' became the term predominantly preferred by homosexual men to describe themselves. ''Gay'' was the preferred term since other terms, such as "]" were felt to be derogatory. "Homosexual" was perceived as excessively clinical: especially since homosexuality was at that time designated as a mental illness, and "homosexual" was used by the ] (DSM) to denote men affected by this "mental illness". Homosexuality was no longer classified as an illness in the DSM by 1973, but the clinical connotation of the word was already embedded in society. | |||
A passage from ]'s ''Miss Furr & Miss Skeene'' (1922) is possibly the first traceable published use of the word to refer to a homosexual relationship. According to Linda Wagner-Martin (''Favored Strangers: Gertrude Stein and her Family'', 1995) the portrait "featured the sly repetition of the word gay, used with sexual intent for one of the first times in linguistic history", and ] (1951, quoted by ] in ''Charmed Circle'', 1974) agreed.<ref>Martha E. Stone, Sept–Oct 2002. {{Webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20121025082122/http://www.thefreelibrary.com/Who+were+Miss+Furr+and+Miss+Skeene%3F+(Essay).-a090892988 |date=25 October 2012 }}, ''The Gay & Lesbian Review Worldwide''.</ref> For example: | |||
One of the many characters invented by 1950s TV comic ] was a "gay-acting" poet named ]. In one of his poems (which were always read to an imaginary off-screen character named "Bruce") he mentions the expression "gay caballero". | |||
{{blockquote|They were ... gay, they learned little things that are things in being gay, ... they were quite regularly gay.|Gertrude Stein|1922}} | |||
By 1963, the word "gay" was known well enough by the straight community to be used by ] in his book ''The Intelligent Woman's Guide to Man-Hunting''. | |||
The word continued to be used with the dominant meaning of "carefree", as evidenced by the title of '']'' (1934), a musical film about a heterosexual couple. | |||
===Parts of speech=== | |||
''Gay'' was originally used purely as an adjective ("he is a gay man" or "he is gay"). ''Gay'' can also be used as a plural noun: "Gays are opposed to that policy"; although some dislike this usage, it is common particularly in the names of various organizations such as ] (PFLAG) and ] (COLAGE). It is sometimes used as a singular noun, as in "he is a gay", such as in its use (partly to comic effect) by the '']'' comedy character Daffyd Thomas (a gay man who believes himself "the only gay in the village" despite abundant evidence to the contrary). | |||
'']'' (1938) was the first film to use the word ''gay'' in an apparent reference to homosexuality. In a scene in which ]'s character's clothes have been sent to the cleaners, he is forced to wear a woman's feather-trimmed robe. When another character asks about his robe, he responds, "Because I just went ''gay'' all of a sudden!" Since this was a mainstream film at a time, when the use of the word to refer to ] (and, by extension, homosexuality) would still be unfamiliar to most film-goers, the line can also be interpreted to mean, "I just decided to do something frivolous."<ref>{{cite web|url=http://xroads.virginia.edu/~UG03/comedy/bringingupbaby.html|title=Bringing Up Baby|access-date=24 November 2005|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20060630103200/http://xroads.virginia.edu/~UG03/comedy/bringingupbaby.html|archive-date=30 June 2006|url-status=dead}}</ref> | |||
], a popular gay village in ].]] | |||
In 1950, the earliest reference found to date for the word ''gay'' as a self-described name for homosexuals came from Alfred A. Gross, executive secretary for the George W. Henry Foundation, who said in the June 1950 issue of SIR magazine: "I have yet to meet a happy homosexual. They have a way of describing themselves as gay but the term is a misnomer. Those who are habitues of the bars frequented by others of the kind, are about the saddest people I've ever seen."<ref>"The Truth About Homosexuals", Sir, June 1950, Sara H. Carleton, New York, p. 57.</ref> | |||
===Folk etymologies=== | |||
It has been claimed that "gay" was derived as an acronym for "Good As You", but this is a ] (based on a ]). | |||
=== Shift to specifically ''homosexual'' === | |||
Another ] refers to ], a small street in the West Village of ] — a nexus of homosexual culture. The term also seems, from documentary evidence, to have existed in New York as a code word in the 1940s, where the question, "Are you gay?" would denote more than it might have seemed to outsiders. | |||
By the mid-20th century, ''gay'' was well established in reference to hedonistic and uninhibited lifestyles<ref name="oed">{{cite web|url=http://www.oed.com/view/Entry/77207?|title=gay, adj., adv., and n. (OED Third Edition)|work=]|date=June 2008}}</ref> and its antonym ''straight'', which had long had connotations of seriousness, respectability, and conventionality, had now acquired specific connotations of heterosexuality.<ref name=etymonline-straight>{{cite web | last = Harper | first = Douglas | author-link = Douglas Harper | title = Straight | work = Online Etymology dictionary | date = 2001–2013 | url = http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?term=straight | access-date = 20 December 2010 | archive-url = https://web.archive.org/web/20101228062448/http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?term=straight | archive-date = 28 December 2010 | url-status=live }}</ref> In the case of ''gay'', other connotations of frivolousness and showiness in dress ("gay apparel") led to association with ] and ]. This association no doubt helped the gradual narrowing in scope of the term towards its current dominant meaning, which was at first confined to subcultures. ''Gay'' was the preferred term since other terms, such as '']'', were felt to be derogatory.<ref>{{cite news |title=A queer use of an inoffensive little word |author=Howard, Philip |date=7 June 1976 |page=12 |newspaper=The Times] |url=https://archive.timesonline.co.uk/tol/keywordsearch.arc?queryKeywords=A+queer+use+of+an+inoffensive+little+word |location=London |ref=CS202211015 |access-date=19 October 2009 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20110501085100/http://archive.timesonline.co.uk/tol/keywordsearch.arc?queryKeywords=A+queer+use+of+an+inoffensive+little+word |archive-date=1 May 2011 |url-status=live }}{{subscription required}}</ref> '']'' is perceived as excessively clinical,<ref>{{cite web |url=http://www.glaad.org/reference/offensive |title=Media Reference Guide - Offensive Terms To Avoid |date=9 September 2011 |publisher=GLAAD |access-date=24 May 2012 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20120420141352/http://www.glaad.org/reference/offensive |archive-date=20 April 2012 |url-status=live }}</ref><ref name="thenewgay.net">{{cite web |url=http://thenewgay.net/2008/09/gay-adjectives-vs-lesbian-nouns.html |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20081024134919/http://www.thenewgay.net/2008/09/gay-adjectives-vs-lesbian-nouns.html |url-status=dead |archive-date=24 October 2008 |title=Gay Adjectives vs. Lesbian Nouns |publisher=The New Gay |date=16 September 2008 |access-date=4 August 2009 }}</ref><ref name="americamagazine.org">{{cite web |author=James Martin |date=4 November 2000 |url=http://www.americamagazine.org/content/article.cfm?article_id=2297 |title=The Church and the Homosexual Priest |publisher=America The National Catholic Weekly Magazine |access-date=4 August 2009 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20101111121139/http://www.americamagazine.org/content/article.cfm?article_id=2297 |archive-date=11 November 2010 |url-status=live }}</ref> since the sexual orientation now commonly referred to as "homosexuality" was at that time a ] ] in the ] (DSM). | |||
In mid-20th century Britain, where male homosexuality was illegal until the ], to openly identify someone as homosexual was considered very offensive and an accusation of serious criminal activity. Additionally, none of the words describing any aspect of homosexuality were considered suitable for polite society. Consequently, a number of ]s were used to hint at suspected homosexuality. Examples include "sporty" girls and "artistic" boys,<ref>{{cite journal |last1=Cocks |first1=H. A. |title='Sporty' Girls and 'Artistic' Boys: Friendship, Illicit Sex, and the British 'Companionship' Advertisement, 1913-1928 |journal=Journal of the History of Sexuality |date=2002 |volume=11 |issue=3 |pages=457–482 |doi=10.1353/sex.2003.0008|pmid=17396374 |s2cid=7018936 }}</ref> all with the stress deliberately on the otherwise completely innocent adjective. | |||
==Common usage== | |||
''Overview article: ]'' | |||
* ''Gay'' is used as an adjective to describe sexual orientation (attraction, preference, or inclination) and is usually chosen instead of homosexual as an identity-label. | |||
* ''Gay sex'' involves acts between or among people of the same sex or gender. | |||
* ''Gay'' is usually used to describe the "gay community" by both insiders and the mainstream media. | |||
* ''Gay'' is sometimes used to describe an object of particular flamboyance. | |||
* ''Gay'' can be used as a nonspecific derogatory comment towards a person or object. As a term of abuse it may be widely used by adolescents. | |||
* Other connotations can vary widely based upon speaker and situation. | |||
The 1960s marked the transition in the predominant meaning of the word ''gay'' from that of "carefree" to the current "homosexual". In the British comedy-drama film '']'' (1960), directed by ], about the antics of a British Army searchlight squad during World War II, there is a scene in the mess hut where the character played by ] proposes an after-dinner toast. He begins, "I'd like to propose..." at which point a fellow diner interjects "Who to?", implying a proposal of marriage. The Benny Hill character responds, "Not to you for start, you ain't my type". He then adds in mock doubt, "Oh, I don't know, you're rather gay on the quiet." | |||
===Sexual orientation=== | |||
], behaviour, and self-identification are not necessarily aligned in a clear-cut fashion for a given individual (''See ] for a discussion of sex and gender.'') Some people consider ''gay'' and '']'' to be synonyms. Others consider ''gay'' to be a matter of self-identification and ''homosexual'' to refer to sexual activity or to sexual attraction that is predominantly to members of the same sex. By using these definitions, a person could be gay and not homosexual, or homosexual and not gay. | |||
By 1963, a new sense of the word ''gay'' was known well enough to be used by ] in his book ''The Intelligent Woman's Guide to Man-Hunting''. Similarly, ] in his 1964 novel '']'', could write that a character "took pride in being a homosexual by feeling intellectually and esthetically superior to those (especially women) who weren't gay...."<ref>Selby Jr., Hubert "Last Exit To Brooklyn" NY: Grove Press, 1988 p. 23 copyright 1964</ref> Later examples of the original meaning of the word being used in popular culture include the theme song to the 1960–1966 animated TV series '']'', wherein viewers are assured that they will "have a gay old time." Similarly, the 1966 ] song "]", which became a Top 10 hit in the UK and a ] hit in the U.S., included the lyric "No milk today, it was not always so; ''The company was gay'', we'd turn night into day."<ref>{{cite web|url=http://www.mathematik.uni-ulm.de/paul/lyrics/hermanshermits/nomilk~1.html|title=The Lyrics Library – Herman's Hermits – No Milk Today|access-date=24 November 2008|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20081205130619/http://www.mathematik.uni-ulm.de/paul/lyrics/hermanshermits/nomilk~1.html|archive-date=5 December 2008|url-status=live}}</ref> | |||
If a person has had same-sex sexual encounters but does not self-identify as gay, terms such as ']', 'discreet', or ']' may be applied. Conversely, a person may identify as gay without engaging in homosexual sex. Possible choices include identifying as gay socially while choosing to be ] or while anticipating a first homosexual experience. Further, a ] person can also identify as "gay" but others might consider ''gay'' and ''bisexual'' to be mutually exclusive. | |||
In June 1967, the headline of the review of the Beatles' '']'' album in the British daily newspaper '']'' stated, "The Beatles revive hopes of progress in pop music with their gay new LP".<ref>{{cite news |url=http://entertainment.timesonline.co.uk/tol/arts_and_entertainment/music/article1873296.ece |title=The Beatles revive hopes of progress in pop music with their gay new LP |location=London |work=The Times |date=2 June 2007 |access-date=3 May 2010 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20100530142425/http://entertainment.timesonline.co.uk/tol/arts_and_entertainment/music/article1873296.ece |archive-date=30 May 2010 |url-status=dead }}{{subscription required}}</ref> The same year, ] recorded "]", which is about a schoolmate of Ray Davies, but is named after a homosexual concert promoter they knew, with the ambiguous line "he is so gay and fancy-free" attesting to the word's double meaning at that time.<ref>Savage, Jon "The Kinks: The Official Biography" London: Faber and Faber, 1984 pp. 94–96</ref> As late as 1970, the first episode of '']'' has the demonstrably straight ]' neighbor Phyllis breezily declaiming that Mary is still "young and gay", but in an episode about two years later, Phyllis is told that her brother is "gay", which is immediately understood to mean that he is homosexual. | |||
Some same-sex oriented persons prefer 'homosexual' as an identity over 'gay', seeing the former as describing a sexual orientation and the latter as describing a cultural or socio-political group with which they do not identify. | |||
== Homosexuality == | |||
====Self-identification==== | |||
{{Main|Homosexuality}} | |||
Self-identification of one's ] is becoming far more commonplace in areas of increased social acceptance, but many are either reluctant to self-identify publicly or even privately to themselves. The process is fairly complex, and many groups related to gay people cite ] and homophobia as leading problems for those that would otherwise self-identify. | |||
{{Sexual orientation}} | |||
] is a symbol of ]]] | |||
=== Sexual orientation, identity, behavior === | |||
====Selecting the appropriate term==== | |||
{{Main|Sexual orientation|Sexual identity|Human sexual behavior}} | |||
Some people reject the term ''homosexual'' as an identity-label because they find it too clinical-sounding. They believe it is too focused on physical acts rather than romance or attraction, or too reminiscent of the era when homosexuality was considered a mental illness. Conversely, some people find the term ''gay'' to be offensive or reject it as an identity-label because they perceive the cultural connotations to be undesirable or because of the negative connotations of the slang usage of the word. | |||
{{See also|Situational sexual behavior}} | |||
The ] defines '']'' as "an enduring pattern of emotional, romantic, and/or sexual attractions to men, women, or both sexes," ranging "along a continuum, from exclusive attraction to the other sex to exclusive attraction to the same sex."<ref name=APABrochure>{{cite web |url=http://www.apa.org/topics/sexuality/orientation.aspx |title=Understanding sexual orientation and homosexuality |date=2008 |publisher=APA |access-date=24 May 2012 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20120505172624/http://www.apa.org/topics/sexuality/orientation.aspx |archive-date=5 May 2012 |url-status=live }}</ref> Sexual orientation can also be "discussed in terms of three categories: heterosexual (having emotional, romantic, or sexual attractions to members of the other sex), gay/lesbian (having emotional, romantic, or sexual attractions to members of one's own sex), and ] (having emotional, romantic, or sexual attractions to both men and women)."<ref name=APABrochure/> | |||
According to Rosario, Schrimshaw, Hunter, Braun (2006), "the development of a lesbian, gay, or bisexual (LGB) sexual identity is a complex and often difficult process. Unlike members of other ]s (e.g., ethnic and racial minorities), most LGB individuals are not raised in a community of similar others from whom they learn about their identity and who reinforce and support that identity. Rather, LGB individuals are often raised in communities that are either ignorant of or openly hostile toward homosexuality."<ref name="Rosario et al.">{{cite journal | last1 = Rosario | first1 = M. | last2 = Schrimshaw | first2 = E. | last3 = Hunter | first3 = J. | last4 = Braun | first4 = L. | year = 2006 | title = Sexual identity development among lesbian, gay, and bisexual youths: Consistency and change over time | journal = Journal of Sex Research | volume = 43 | issue = 1| pages = 46–58 | doi=10.1080/00224490609552298| pmid = 16817067 | pmc = 3215279 }}</ref> | |||
According to the '''Safe Schools Coalition''' of Washington's ''Glossary for School Employees'': | |||
:"Homosexual: Avoid this term; it is clinical, distancing and archaic. Sometimes appropriate in referring to behaviour (although same-sex is the preferred adj.). When referring to people, as opposed to behaviour, homosexual is considered derogatory and the terms gay and lesbian are preferred, at least in the Northwest ." | |||
The British ] activist ] has argued that the term ''gay'' is merely a cultural expression which reflects the current status of homosexuality within a given society, and claiming that "Queer, gay, homosexual ... in the long view, they are all just temporary identities. One day, we will not need them at all."<ref>{{cite news |url=https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2006/nov/27/isgayjustaphase |title=Just a phase |work=The Guardian |location=London |first=Peter |last=Tatchell |date=27 November 2006 |access-date=3 May 2010 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20130830212725/http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2006/nov/27/isgayjustaphase |archive-date=30 August 2013 |url-status=live }}</ref> | |||
Sometimes the term ''gay'' is used to describe both same-sex male and same-sex female relations. More rarely, it is used as a shorthand for terms '']'' or ''gay'', ''lesbian'', ''bisexual'', etc. The term also sometimes includes ], ], and ]. Some trans and intersexed individuals find their inclusion in this larger grouping to be offensive. It is commonly used to refer specifically to gay ''men''; the precise meaning may need to be made clear from context. The term '']'', however, is exclusively female. | |||
If a person engages in sexual activity with a partner of the same sex but does not self-identify as gay, terms such as '], 'discreet', or ']' may apply. Conversely, a person may identify as gay without having had sex with a same-sex partner. Possible choices include identifying as gay socially, while choosing to be ], or while anticipating a first homosexual experience. Further, a bisexual person might also identify as "gay" but others may consider ''gay'' and ''bisexual'' to be ]. There are some who are drawn to the same sex but neither engage in sexual activity nor identify as gay; these could have the term '']'' applied, even though ''asexual'' generally can mean no attraction, or involve heterosexual attraction but no sexual activity. | |||
===Gay community=== | |||
''Main article: ]'' | |||
==== Terminology ==== | |||
The notion of the '''gay community''' is complex and slightly controversial. | |||
{{Main|Terminology of homosexuality}} | |||
Some reject the term ''homosexual'' as an identity-label because they find it too clinical-sounding;<ref name=thenewgay.net/><ref name=americamagazine.org/><ref name="usc.edu">{{cite web|url=https://www.usc.edu/schools/annenberg/asc/projects/soin/enhancingCurricula/J468%20STDT-%20KC%20STAR.pdf |title=AIDS and Gay Catholic Priests: Implications of the Kansas City Star Report |url-status=bot: unknown |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20110528031311/http://www.usc.edu/schools/annenberg/asc/projects/soin/enhancingCurricula/J468%20STDT-%20KC%20STAR.pdf |archive-date=28 May 2011 |df=dmy }}</ref> they believe it is too focused on physical acts rather than romance or attraction, or too reminiscent of the era when homosexuality was considered a mental illness. Conversely, some reject the term ''gay'' as an identity-label because they perceive the cultural connotations to be undesirable or because of the negative connotations of the slang usage of the word. | |||
Just as the word "gay" is sometimes used as shorthand for "gay, lesbian, and bisexual" and possibly also "transgender" or "transsexual" and others, so "gay community" is sometimes a synonym for "] community." In other cases, the speaker may be referring only to gay men. Some people (including many mainstream American journalists) interpret the phrase "gay community" to mean "the population of gay people". | |||
Style guides, like the following from the ], call for ''gay'' over ''homosexual'': | |||
Some LGBT people are entirely geographically or socially isolated from other LGBT people, or don't feel their social connections to their LGBT friends are different from those they have with straight friends. As a result, some analysts question the notion of sharing a "community" with people one has never actually met (whether in person or remotely). But other advocates insist that all LGBT people (and perhaps their allies), ''are'' part of a global community, in one way or another. | |||
{{blockquote|''Gay'': Used to describe men and women attracted to the same sex, though ''lesbian'' is the more common term for women. Preferred over ''homosexual'' except in clinical contexts or references to sexual activity.<ref name=glaad10>{{cite web|url=http://www.glaad.org/files/MediaReferenceGuide2010.pdf|title=GLAAD Media Reference Guide|access-date=25 September 2011|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20111112111339/http://www.glaad.org/files/MediaReferenceGuide2010.pdf|archive-date=12 November 2011|url-status=live}}</ref>}} | |||
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The term ''gay'' can also be used as an adjective to describe things related to gay people or things which are part of ]. For example, while a ] is not itself homosexual, using ''gay'' as an adjective to describe the bar indicates that the bar is either gay-oriented, caters primarily to a gay clientele, or is otherwise part of gay culture. | |||
There are those who reject the gay label for reasons other than shame or negative connotations. Writer ]<ref>{{cite news|url=https://www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-27291458|title=Alan Bennett rejected 'gay label'|work=BBC News|date=6 May 2014|access-date=22 June 2018|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180909041103/https://www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-27291458|archive-date=9 September 2018|url-status=live}}</ref> and fashion icon ]<ref>{{cite web|first=Cavan|last=Sieczkowski|url=https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/12/andre-leon-talley-gay_n_3743253.html|title=Vogue's André Leon Talley Rejects 'Gay' Label, Admits To 'Very Gay Experiences'|website=]|date=12 August 2013|access-date=18 September 2018|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20170515234813/http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/12/andre-leon-talley-gay_n_3743253.html|archive-date=15 May 2017|url-status=live}}</ref> are out and open ] men who reject being labeled gay, believing the gay label confines them. | |||
Using it to describe an object, such as an item of clothing, suggests that it is particularly flamboyant, often on the verge of being gaudy and garish. This usage pre-dates the association of the term with homosexuality, but has acquired different connotations since the modern usage developed. | |||
===Gay community vs. LGBT community=== | |||
Using the term ''gay'' as an adjective where the meaning is akin to "related to gay people, culture, or homosexuality in general" is a widely accepted use of the word. By contrast, using ''gay'' in the pejorative sense, to describe something solely as negative, can cause offence. | |||
{{Main|LGBT community}} | |||
Starting in the mid-1980s in the United States, a conscious effort was underway within what was then commonly called the ''gay community'', to add the term ''lesbian'' to the name of organizations that involved both male and female homosexuals, and to use the terminology of ''gay and lesbian'', ''lesbian/gay'', or a similar phrase when referring to that community. Accordingly, organizations such as the National Gay Task Force became the ]. For many feminist lesbians, it was also important that ''lesbian'' be named first, to avoid the implication that women were secondary to men, or an afterthought.<ref>''Lesbian Ethics'', pp. 13–21.</ref> In the 1990s, this was followed by a similar effort to include terminology specifically including bisexual, ], ], and other people, reflecting the intra-community debate about the inclusion of these other sexual minorities as part of the same movement. Consequently, the portmanteau ''les/bi/gay'' has sometimes been used, and ] such as '']'', ''LGBTQ'', ''LGBTQI'', and others have come into common use by such organizations, and most news organizations have formally adopted some such variation. | |||
==Pejorative non-sexualized usage== | |||
When used with a derisive attitude (e.g. "that was so gay"), the word ''gay'' is ]. '']'' (June 6 2006, p.3) comments that while retaining its other meanings, it has also acquired "a widespread current usage" amongst young people, to mean "]" or "rubbish". Recently, young ] have used "gay" to mean "uninteresting" or "dull" -- just the opposite of the original meaning (e.g.: "That party was so ''gay''."). This pejorative usage has its origins in the 1980s, when homosexuality was more widely seen as negative by many people. Beginning in the 1990s and especially in the 2000s, the usage as a generic insult became common among young people, who may or may not link the term to homosexuality. This practice is frowned upon in communities that seek to ensure respect for people of all sexual orientations, and is considered by some to be on par with ethnic slurs. Many defenders of the word's pejorative usage choose to spell it "ghey" to avoid any sexual connotations. Critics object to this change of spelling, often comparing it to the use of words like "knigger" for ] to evade accusations of racism. | |||
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A 2006 ] ruling by the ] over the use of the word in this context by ] on his ] show, ''"I don't want that one, it's gay"'', stated that: | |||
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: The word 'gay' ... need not be offensive... or homophobic... The governors said, however, that Moyles was simply keeping up with developments in English usage. The committee... was "familiar with hearing this word in this context." The governors believed that in describing a ring tone as 'gay', the ] was conveying that he thought it was 'rubbish', rather than 'homosexual'. The panel acknowledged however that this use... in a derogatory sense... could cause offence in some listeners, and counselled caution on its use.<ref></ref> | |||
The term ''gay'' can also be used as an adjective to describe things related to homosexual men, or things which are part of ]. For example, the term "gay bar" describes the bar which either caters primarily to a homosexual male clientele or is otherwise part of homosexual male culture. | |||
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Using it to describe an object, such as an item of clothing, suggests that it is particularly flamboyant, often on the verge of being gaudy and garish. This usage predates the association of the term with homosexuality but has acquired different connotations since the modern usage developed. | |||
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*1995. ''The Merriam-Webster New Book of Word Histories'', Merriam-Webster, 189-191. ISBN 0-87779-603-3. | |||
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The label ''gay'' was originally used purely as an ] ("he is a gay man" or "he is gay"). The term has also been in use as a ] with the meaning "homosexual man" since the 1970s, most commonly in the plural for an unspecified group, as in "gays are opposed to that policy." This usage is somewhat common in the names of organizations such as ] (PFLAG) and ] (COLAGE). It is sometimes used to refer to individuals, as in "he is a gay" or "two gays were there too," although this may be perceived as derogatory.<ref>{{cite book|title=The American Heritage Book of English Usage|date=1996|publisher=]|location=New York|isbn=978-0547563213|page=197|url=https://books.google.com/books?id=BEHFyMCdwssC&pg=PA197|access-date=30 July 2016|language=en|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20181012014626/https://books.google.de/books?id=BEHFyMCdwssC&pg=PA197&lpg=PA197|archive-date=12 October 2018|url-status=live}}</ref> It was also used for comedic effect by the '']'' character Dafydd Thomas. To avoid pejorative connotations, the adjective form can be used instead, e.g. "gay person" or "gay people". | |||
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When used with a derisive attitude (e.g., "that was so gay"), the word ''gay'' is ]. Though retaining other meanings, its use among young people as a term of ] is common; 97 percent of American LGBTQ middle and high school students reported hearing its negative use as of 2021.<ref name="Winterman"/><ref name=times>{{cite news |url=http://entertainment.timesonline.co.uk/tol/arts_and_entertainment/article671972.ece |title=Gay means rubbish, says BBC |work=The Times |location=London |date=6 June 2006 |access-date=3 May 2010 |first=Adam |last=Sherwin |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20110430115347/http://entertainment.timesonline.co.uk/tol/arts_and_entertainment/article671972.ece |archive-date=30 April 2011 |url-status=dead }}{{subscription required}}</ref><ref>Kosciw, J. G., Clark, C. M., & Menard, L. (2022). The 2021 National School Climate Survey: The experiences of LGBTQ+ youth in our nation's schools. New York: GLSEN.</ref> | |||
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This pejorative usage has its origins in the late 1970s, with the word gaining a pejorative sense by association with the previous meaning: homosexuality was seen as inferior or undesirable.<ref>{{Cite web|url=http://ns.umich.edu/new/releases/21139-many-heterosexual-college-males-say-that-s-so-gay-but-why|title=Many heterosexual college males say 'That's so gay,' but why? {{!}} University of Michigan News|website=ns.umich.edu|date=29 January 2013|language=en-gb|access-date=2017-05-23|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20160301043936/http://ns.umich.edu/new/releases/21139-many-heterosexual-college-males-say-that-s-so-gay-but-why|archive-date=1 March 2016|url-status=live}}</ref> Beginning in the 1980s, and especially in the late 1990s, the usage as a generic insult became common among young people.<ref name="Winterman" /> Use of "gay" in some circumstances continues to be considered a pejorative in present day. As recently as 2023, the American Psychological Association described language like "that's so gay" as ] and ].<ref>{{Citation |last=Nadal |first=Kevin Leo Yabut |title=An introduction to microaggressions: Understanding definitions and impact. |date=2023 |url=http://content.apa.org/books/17305-001 |work=Dismantling everyday discrimination: Microaggressions toward LGBTQ people. |pages=3–16 |access-date=2023-05-03 |place=Washington |publisher=American Psychological Association |language=en |doi=10.1037/0000335-001 |isbn=978-1-4338-4015-9}}</ref> | |||
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The pejorative usage of the word "gay" has been criticized as ]. A 2006 ] ruling by the ] over the negative use of the word by ] advises that "caution on its use"; however, it acknowledges its common use among young people to mean "rubbish" or "lame".<ref name="times"/> | |||
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The BBC's ruling was heavily criticized by the Minister for Children, ], who stated in response that "the casual use of homophobic language by mainstream radio DJs" is: | |||
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{{blockquote|"too often seen as harmless banter instead of the offensive insult that it really represents. ... To ignore this problem is to collude in it. The blind eye to casual name-calling, looking the other way because it is the easy option, is simply intolerable."<ref>{{cite news |first=Tony |last=Grew |url=http://www.pinknews.co.uk/news/articles/2005-4862.html |title=BBC's attitude to homophobic language 'damages children' |work=Pink News |location=London |access-date=4 March 2009 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20090328144625/http://www.pinknews.co.uk/news/articles/2005-4862.html |archive-date=28 March 2009 |url-status=live }}</ref>}} | |||
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Shortly after the Moyles incident, a campaign against homophobia was launched in Britain under the slogan "homophobia is gay", playing on the double meaning of the word "gay" in youth culture, as well as the popular perception that vocal homophobia is common among closeted homosexuals.<ref>{{cite news |url=http://www.pinknews.co.uk/news/articles/2005-2607.html |title=Young Liberal Democrats launch 'homophobia is gay' campaign |work=Pink News |year=2006 |access-date=5 October 2008 |archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20081012060514/http://www.pinknews.co.uk/news/articles/2005-2607.html |archive-date=12 October 2008 |url-status=live }}</ref> | |||
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The United States had its own popular campaign against the pejorative use of "gay" called ''Think B4 You Speak.'' It was created in 2008 in partnership with the Advertising Council, GLSEN, and Arnold NYC''.'' This initiative created television, radio, print and web PSAs with goals "to motivate teens to become allies in the efforts to raise awareness, stop using anti-LGBT language and safely intervene when they are present and anti-LGBT harassment and behavior occurs."<ref>{{Cite journal |title=Think B4 You Speak Educator's Guide |url=https://www.glsen.org/blog/glsen-and-ad-council-launch-think-b4-you-speak-campaign |journal= |date=14 October 2008 |publisher=GLSEN |page=5}}</ref> | |||
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Research has looked into the use and effect of the pejorative. In a 2013 article published in the '']'', ] researchers Michael Woodford, Alex Kulick and Perry Silverschanz, alongside ] professor Michael L. Howell, argued that the pejorative use of the word "gay" was a ].<ref name="thatsogayjournalofinter">{{cite journal|last1=Howell|first1=Michael L.|last2=Kulick|first2=Alex|last3=Silverschanz|first3=Perry|last4=Woodford|first4=Michael R.|title="That's so Gay" Heterosexual Male Undergraduates and the Perpetuation of Sexual Orientation Microagressions on Campus|journal=Journal of Interpersonal Violence|date=January 2013|volume=28|issue=2|pages=416–435|doi=10.1177/0886260512454719|pmid=22929342|s2cid=206562816}}</ref> They found that college-age men were more likely to repeat the word pejoratively if their friends said it, while they were less likely to say it if they had lesbian, gay or bisexual peers.<ref name="thatsogayjournalofinter" /> A 2019 study used data collected in a 2013 survey of cisgender LGBQ college students to evaluate the effects of microaggressions like "that's so gay" and "no homo."<ref name=":0" /> It found that increased exposure to the phrase "that's so gay" was significantly associated with greater developmental challenge (a measure of academic stressors).<ref name=":0">{{Cite journal |last1=Mathies |first1=Nicole |last2=Coleman |first2=Todd |last3=McKie |first3=Raymond M. |last4=Woodford |first4=Michael R. |last5=Courtice |first5=Erin Leigh |last6=Travers |first6=Robb |last7=Renn |first7=Kristen A. |date=2019-07-03 |title=Hearing "that's so gay" and "no homo" on academic outcomes for LGBQ + college students |url=https://doi.org/10.1080/19361653.2019.1571981 |journal=Journal of LGBT Youth |volume=16 |issue=3 |pages=255–277 |doi=10.1080/19361653.2019.1571981 |s2cid=151176310 |issn=1936-1653}}</ref> Research published in the '']'' in 2021 finds that use of anti-gay banter among Midwestern middle and high school students such as "that's so gay" is perceived less negatively and more humorously if the person saying it is a friend.<ref>{{Cite journal |last1=Wang |first1=Yueyao |last2=Marosi |first2=Christopher |last3=Edgin |first3=Megan |last4=Horn |first4=Stacey S. |date=2021-10-01 |title=Adolescents' Judgment of Homophobic Name-Calling: The Role of Peer/Friend Context and Emotional Response |url=https://doi.org/10.1007/s10964-021-01470-8 |journal=Journal of Youth and Adolescence |language=en |volume=50 |issue=10 |pages=1939–1951 |doi=10.1007/s10964-021-01470-8 |pmid=34245427 |s2cid=235785836 |issn=1573-6601}}</ref> | |||
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==Parallels in other languages and cultures== | |||
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* The concept of a "gay identity" and the use of the term ''gay'' may not be used or understood the same way in non-Westernised cultures, since modes of sexuality may differ from those prevalent in the West.<ref name=Bailey16>{{cite journal|last1=Bailey|first1=J. Michael|last2=Vasey|first2=Paul|last3=Diamond|first3=Lisa|author4-link=Marc Breedlove|last4=Breedlove|first4=S. Marc|last5=Vilain|first5=Eric|last6=Epprecht|first6=Marc|title=Sexual Orientation, Controversy, and Science|journal=Psychological Science in the Public Interest|date=2016|volume=17|issue=2|pages=45–101|doi=10.1177/1529100616637616|pmid=27113562|url=https://www.researchgate.net/publication/301639075|doi-access=free|access-date=7 September 2019|archive-date=11 June 2020|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20200611031054/https://www.researchgate.net/publication/301639075|url-status=live}}</ref> | |||
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* For example, ] is a term used by some ] ] and ] to describe Indigenous people in their communities who do not conform to Western expressions of gender and sexuality. It functions as a modern, ] umbrella term, much like the use of queer or LGBTQ by non-Natives. Some Indigenous people identify as both two-spirit and gay.<ref name=Estrada>{{cite journal|last1=Estrada|first1=Gabriel|title=''Two Spirits'', ''Nádleeh'', and LGBTQ2 Navajo Gaze|journal=American Indian Culture and Research Journal|date=2011|volume=35|issue=4|pages=167–190|doi=10.17953/aicr.35.4.x500172017344j30|doi-broken-date=3 November 2024 |url= | |||
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* The ] equivalent for "gay", "]", which is ] derived from "schwül" (hot, humid), also acquired the pejorative meaning within youth culture.<ref name=sedlaczek>Robert Sedlaczek, Roberta Baron: ''leet & leiwand. Das Lexikon der Jugendsprache'', Echomedia, 2006, {{ISBN|3-901761-49-7}}</ref> | |||
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Term referring to a homosexual person This article is about gay as an English-language term. For the sexual orientation, see homosexuality. For homosexual men, see gay men. For homosexual women, see lesbian. For other uses, see Gay (disambiguation).
Gay is a term that primarily refers to a homosexual person or the trait of being homosexual. The term originally meant 'carefree', 'cheerful', or 'bright and showy'.
While scant usage referring to male homosexuality dates to the late 19th century, that meaning became increasingly common by the mid-20th century. In modern English, gay has come to be used as an adjective, and as a noun, referring to the community, practices and cultures associated with homosexuality. In the 1960s, gay became the word favored by homosexual men to describe their sexual orientation. By the end of the 20th century and beginning of the 21st century, the word gay was recommended by major LGBTQ groups and style guides to describe people attracted to members of the same sex, although it is more commonly used to refer specifically to men.
At about the same time, a new, pejorative use became prevalent in some parts of the world. Among younger speakers, the word has a meaning ranging from derision (e.g., equivalent to 'rubbish' or 'stupid') to a light-hearted mockery or ridicule (e.g., equivalent to 'weak', 'unmanly', or 'lame'). The extent to which these usages still retain connotations of homosexuality has been debated and harshly criticized.
History
Overview
The word gay arrived in English during the 12th century from Old French gai, most likely deriving ultimately from a Germanic source.
In English, the word's primary meaning was "joyful", "carefree", "bright and showy", and the word was very commonly used with this meaning in speech and literature. For example, the optimistic 1890s are still often referred to as the Gay Nineties. The title of the 1938 French ballet Gaîté Parisienne ("Parisian Gaiety"), which became the 1941 Warner Brothers movie, The Gay Parisian, also illustrates this connotation. It was apparently not until the 20th century that the word began to be used to mean specifically "homosexual", although it had earlier acquired sexual connotations.
The derived abstract noun gaiety remains largely free of sexual connotations and has, in the past, been used in the names of places of entertainment, such as the Gaiety Theatre in Dublin.
Sexualization
The word may have started to acquire associations of sexual immorality as early as the 14th century, but had certainly acquired them by the 17th. By the late 17th century, it had acquired the specific meaning of "addicted to pleasures and dissipations", an extension of its primary meaning of "carefree" implying "uninhibited by moral constraints". A gay woman was a prostitute, a gay man a womanizer, and a gay house a brothel. An example is a letter read to a London court in 1885 during the prosecution of brothel madam and procuress Mary Jeffries that had been written by a girl while enslaved inside of a French brothel:
I write to tell you it is a gay house ... Some captains came in the other night, and the mistress wanted us to sleep with them.
The use of gay to mean "homosexual" was often an extension of its application to prostitution: a gay boy was a young man or boy serving male clients.
Similarly, a gay cat was a young male apprenticed to an older hobo and commonly exchanging sex and other services for protection and tutelage. The application to homosexuality was also an extension of the word's sexualized connotation of "carefree and uninhibited", which implied a willingness to disregard conventional or respectable sexual mores. Such usage, documented as early as the 1920s, was likely present before the 20th century, although it was initially more commonly used to imply heterosexually unconstrained lifestyles, as in the once-common phrase "gay Lothario", or in the title of the book and film The Gay Falcon (1941), which concerns a womanizing detective whose first name is "Gay". Similarly, Fred Gilbert and G. H. MacDermott's music hall song of the 1880s, "Charlie Dilke Upset the Milk" – "Master Dilke upset the milk, when taking it home to Chelsea; the papers say that Charlie's gay, rather a wilful wag!" – referred to Sir Charles Dilke's alleged heterosexual impropriety. Giving testimony in court in 1889, the prostitute John Saul stated: "I occasionally do odd-jobs for different gay people."
Well into the mid 20th century a middle-aged bachelor could be described as "gay", indicating that he was unattached and therefore free, without any implication of homosexuality. This usage could apply to women too. The British comic strip Jane, first published in the 1930s, described the adventures of Jane Gay. Far from implying homosexuality, it referred to her free-wheeling lifestyle with plenty of boyfriends (while also punning on Lady Jane Grey).
A passage from Gertrude Stein's Miss Furr & Miss Skeene (1922) is possibly the first traceable published use of the word to refer to a homosexual relationship. According to Linda Wagner-Martin (Favored Strangers: Gertrude Stein and her Family, 1995) the portrait "featured the sly repetition of the word gay, used with sexual intent for one of the first times in linguistic history", and Edmund Wilson (1951, quoted by James Mellow in Charmed Circle, 1974) agreed. For example:
They were ... gay, they learned little things that are things in being gay, ... they were quite regularly gay.
— Gertrude Stein, 1922
The word continued to be used with the dominant meaning of "carefree", as evidenced by the title of The Gay Divorcee (1934), a musical film about a heterosexual couple.
Bringing Up Baby (1938) was the first film to use the word gay in an apparent reference to homosexuality. In a scene in which Cary Grant's character's clothes have been sent to the cleaners, he is forced to wear a woman's feather-trimmed robe. When another character asks about his robe, he responds, "Because I just went gay all of a sudden!" Since this was a mainstream film at a time, when the use of the word to refer to cross-dressing (and, by extension, homosexuality) would still be unfamiliar to most film-goers, the line can also be interpreted to mean, "I just decided to do something frivolous."
In 1950, the earliest reference found to date for the word gay as a self-described name for homosexuals came from Alfred A. Gross, executive secretary for the George W. Henry Foundation, who said in the June 1950 issue of SIR magazine: "I have yet to meet a happy homosexual. They have a way of describing themselves as gay but the term is a misnomer. Those who are habitues of the bars frequented by others of the kind, are about the saddest people I've ever seen."
Shift to specifically homosexual
By the mid-20th century, gay was well established in reference to hedonistic and uninhibited lifestyles and its antonym straight, which had long had connotations of seriousness, respectability, and conventionality, had now acquired specific connotations of heterosexuality. In the case of gay, other connotations of frivolousness and showiness in dress ("gay apparel") led to association with camp and effeminacy. This association no doubt helped the gradual narrowing in scope of the term towards its current dominant meaning, which was at first confined to subcultures. Gay was the preferred term since other terms, such as queer, were felt to be derogatory. Homosexual is perceived as excessively clinical, since the sexual orientation now commonly referred to as "homosexuality" was at that time a mental illness diagnosis in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM).
In mid-20th century Britain, where male homosexuality was illegal until the Sexual Offences Act 1967, to openly identify someone as homosexual was considered very offensive and an accusation of serious criminal activity. Additionally, none of the words describing any aspect of homosexuality were considered suitable for polite society. Consequently, a number of euphemisms were used to hint at suspected homosexuality. Examples include "sporty" girls and "artistic" boys, all with the stress deliberately on the otherwise completely innocent adjective.
The 1960s marked the transition in the predominant meaning of the word gay from that of "carefree" to the current "homosexual". In the British comedy-drama film Light Up the Sky! (1960), directed by Lewis Gilbert, about the antics of a British Army searchlight squad during World War II, there is a scene in the mess hut where the character played by Benny Hill proposes an after-dinner toast. He begins, "I'd like to propose..." at which point a fellow diner interjects "Who to?", implying a proposal of marriage. The Benny Hill character responds, "Not to you for start, you ain't my type". He then adds in mock doubt, "Oh, I don't know, you're rather gay on the quiet."
By 1963, a new sense of the word gay was known well enough to be used by Albert Ellis in his book The Intelligent Woman's Guide to Man-Hunting. Similarly, Hubert Selby Jr. in his 1964 novel Last Exit to Brooklyn, could write that a character "took pride in being a homosexual by feeling intellectually and esthetically superior to those (especially women) who weren't gay...." Later examples of the original meaning of the word being used in popular culture include the theme song to the 1960–1966 animated TV series The Flintstones, wherein viewers are assured that they will "have a gay old time." Similarly, the 1966 Herman's Hermits song "No Milk Today", which became a Top 10 hit in the UK and a Top 40 hit in the U.S., included the lyric "No milk today, it was not always so; The company was gay, we'd turn night into day."
In June 1967, the headline of the review of the Beatles' Sgt. Pepper's Lonely Hearts Club Band album in the British daily newspaper The Times stated, "The Beatles revive hopes of progress in pop music with their gay new LP". The same year, The Kinks recorded "David Watts", which is about a schoolmate of Ray Davies, but is named after a homosexual concert promoter they knew, with the ambiguous line "he is so gay and fancy-free" attesting to the word's double meaning at that time. As late as 1970, the first episode of The Mary Tyler Moore Show has the demonstrably straight Mary Richards' neighbor Phyllis breezily declaiming that Mary is still "young and gay", but in an episode about two years later, Phyllis is told that her brother is "gay", which is immediately understood to mean that he is homosexual.
Homosexuality
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Sexual orientation, identity, behavior
Main articles: Sexual orientation, Sexual identity, and Human sexual behavior See also: Situational sexual behaviorThe American Psychological Association defines sexual orientation as "an enduring pattern of emotional, romantic, and/or sexual attractions to men, women, or both sexes," ranging "along a continuum, from exclusive attraction to the other sex to exclusive attraction to the same sex." Sexual orientation can also be "discussed in terms of three categories: heterosexual (having emotional, romantic, or sexual attractions to members of the other sex), gay/lesbian (having emotional, romantic, or sexual attractions to members of one's own sex), and bisexual (having emotional, romantic, or sexual attractions to both men and women)."
According to Rosario, Schrimshaw, Hunter, Braun (2006), "the development of a lesbian, gay, or bisexual (LGB) sexual identity is a complex and often difficult process. Unlike members of other minority groups (e.g., ethnic and racial minorities), most LGB individuals are not raised in a community of similar others from whom they learn about their identity and who reinforce and support that identity. Rather, LGB individuals are often raised in communities that are either ignorant of or openly hostile toward homosexuality."
The British gay rights activist Peter Tatchell has argued that the term gay is merely a cultural expression which reflects the current status of homosexuality within a given society, and claiming that "Queer, gay, homosexual ... in the long view, they are all just temporary identities. One day, we will not need them at all."
If a person engages in sexual activity with a partner of the same sex but does not self-identify as gay, terms such as 'closeted', 'discreet', or 'bi-curious' may apply. Conversely, a person may identify as gay without having had sex with a same-sex partner. Possible choices include identifying as gay socially, while choosing to be celibate, or while anticipating a first homosexual experience. Further, a bisexual person might also identify as "gay" but others may consider gay and bisexual to be mutually exclusive. There are some who are drawn to the same sex but neither engage in sexual activity nor identify as gay; these could have the term asexual applied, even though asexual generally can mean no attraction, or involve heterosexual attraction but no sexual activity.
Terminology
Main article: Terminology of homosexualitySome reject the term homosexual as an identity-label because they find it too clinical-sounding; they believe it is too focused on physical acts rather than romance or attraction, or too reminiscent of the era when homosexuality was considered a mental illness. Conversely, some reject the term gay as an identity-label because they perceive the cultural connotations to be undesirable or because of the negative connotations of the slang usage of the word.
Style guides, like the following from the Associated Press, call for gay over homosexual:
Gay: Used to describe men and women attracted to the same sex, though lesbian is the more common term for women. Preferred over homosexual except in clinical contexts or references to sexual activity.
There are those who reject the gay label for reasons other than shame or negative connotations. Writer Alan Bennett and fashion icon André Leon Talley are out and open queer men who reject being labeled gay, believing the gay label confines them.
Gay community vs. LGBT community
Main article: LGBT communityStarting in the mid-1980s in the United States, a conscious effort was underway within what was then commonly called the gay community, to add the term lesbian to the name of organizations that involved both male and female homosexuals, and to use the terminology of gay and lesbian, lesbian/gay, or a similar phrase when referring to that community. Accordingly, organizations such as the National Gay Task Force became the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. For many feminist lesbians, it was also important that lesbian be named first, to avoid the implication that women were secondary to men, or an afterthought. In the 1990s, this was followed by a similar effort to include terminology specifically including bisexual, transgender, intersex, and other people, reflecting the intra-community debate about the inclusion of these other sexual minorities as part of the same movement. Consequently, the portmanteau les/bi/gay has sometimes been used, and initialisms such as LGBTQ, LGBTQ, LGBTQI, and others have come into common use by such organizations, and most news organizations have formally adopted some such variation.
Descriptor
The term gay can also be used as an adjective to describe things related to homosexual men, or things which are part of the said culture. For example, the term "gay bar" describes the bar which either caters primarily to a homosexual male clientele or is otherwise part of homosexual male culture.
Using it to describe an object, such as an item of clothing, suggests that it is particularly flamboyant, often on the verge of being gaudy and garish. This usage predates the association of the term with homosexuality but has acquired different connotations since the modern usage developed.
Use as a noun
The label gay was originally used purely as an adjective ("he is a gay man" or "he is gay"). The term has also been in use as a noun with the meaning "homosexual man" since the 1970s, most commonly in the plural for an unspecified group, as in "gays are opposed to that policy." This usage is somewhat common in the names of organizations such as Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) and Children of Lesbians And Gays Everywhere (COLAGE). It is sometimes used to refer to individuals, as in "he is a gay" or "two gays were there too," although this may be perceived as derogatory. It was also used for comedic effect by the Little Britain character Dafydd Thomas. To avoid pejorative connotations, the adjective form can be used instead, e.g. "gay person" or "gay people".
Generalized pejorative use
When used with a derisive attitude (e.g., "that was so gay"), the word gay is pejorative. Though retaining other meanings, its use among young people as a term of disparagement is common; 97 percent of American LGBTQ middle and high school students reported hearing its negative use as of 2021.
This pejorative usage has its origins in the late 1970s, with the word gaining a pejorative sense by association with the previous meaning: homosexuality was seen as inferior or undesirable. Beginning in the 1980s, and especially in the late 1990s, the usage as a generic insult became common among young people. Use of "gay" in some circumstances continues to be considered a pejorative in present day. As recently as 2023, the American Psychological Association described language like "that's so gay" as heterosexist and heteronormative.
The pejorative usage of the word "gay" has been criticized as homophobic. A 2006 BBC ruling by the Board of Governors over the negative use of the word by Chris Moyles advises that "caution on its use"; however, it acknowledges its common use among young people to mean "rubbish" or "lame".
The BBC's ruling was heavily criticized by the Minister for Children, Kevin Brennan, who stated in response that "the casual use of homophobic language by mainstream radio DJs" is:
"too often seen as harmless banter instead of the offensive insult that it really represents. ... To ignore this problem is to collude in it. The blind eye to casual name-calling, looking the other way because it is the easy option, is simply intolerable."
Shortly after the Moyles incident, a campaign against homophobia was launched in Britain under the slogan "homophobia is gay", playing on the double meaning of the word "gay" in youth culture, as well as the popular perception that vocal homophobia is common among closeted homosexuals.
The United States had its own popular campaign against the pejorative use of "gay" called Think B4 You Speak. It was created in 2008 in partnership with the Advertising Council, GLSEN, and Arnold NYC. This initiative created television, radio, print and web PSAs with goals "to motivate teens to become allies in the efforts to raise awareness, stop using anti-LGBT language and safely intervene when they are present and anti-LGBT harassment and behavior occurs."
Research has looked into the use and effect of the pejorative. In a 2013 article published in the Journal of Interpersonal Violence, University of Michigan researchers Michael Woodford, Alex Kulick and Perry Silverschanz, alongside Appalachian State University professor Michael L. Howell, argued that the pejorative use of the word "gay" was a microaggression. They found that college-age men were more likely to repeat the word pejoratively if their friends said it, while they were less likely to say it if they had lesbian, gay or bisexual peers. A 2019 study used data collected in a 2013 survey of cisgender LGBQ college students to evaluate the effects of microaggressions like "that's so gay" and "no homo." It found that increased exposure to the phrase "that's so gay" was significantly associated with greater developmental challenge (a measure of academic stressors). Research published in the Journal of Youth and Adolescence in 2021 finds that use of anti-gay banter among Midwestern middle and high school students such as "that's so gay" is perceived less negatively and more humorously if the person saying it is a friend.
Parallels in other languages and cultures
- The concept of a "gay identity" and the use of the term gay may not be used or understood the same way in non-Westernised cultures, since modes of sexuality may differ from those prevalent in the West.
- For example, two-spirit is a term used by some Indigenous people in the United States and Canada to describe Indigenous people in their communities who do not conform to Western expressions of gender and sexuality. It functions as a modern, pan-Indian umbrella term, much like the use of queer or LGBTQ by non-Natives. Some Indigenous people identify as both two-spirit and gay. For some traditional Native Americans, who usually use terms in their own languages for these individuals rather than the English neologism, two-spirit is not interchangeable with the "LGBT Native American" or "gay Indian" sexual and gender identity labels because it is a sacred, spiritual, and ceremonial role that is recognized and confirmed only by tribal elders of the two-spirit person's ceremonial community.
- The German equivalent for "gay", "schwul", which is etymologically derived from "schwül" (hot, humid), also acquired the pejorative meaning within youth culture.
See also
- Anti-LGBT slogans
- Deviance (sociology)
- Gay bashing
- Gay gene (Xq28)
- Gay men
- Gay sexual practices
- Gender identity
- Hate speech
- Heteronormativity
- Heterosexism
- Human female sexuality
- Human male sexuality
- Human Rights Campaign
- Labeling theory
- Lesbian sexual practices
- LGBT rights opposition
- LGBT themes in mythology
- List of gay, lesbian or bisexual people
- List of LGBT events
- National Gay and Lesbian Task Force
- Religion and sexuality
- Sexuality and gender identity-based cultures
- Social stigma
- Tu'er Shen
- Men who have sex with men
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Further reading
- Cory, Donald Webster (1951). The Homosexual in America: A Subjective Approach. Greenberg. p. 107. Chapter 9 ("Take My Word For It") includes a valuable discussion of the term "gay.".
- Leap, William (1995). Beyond the Lavender Lexicon: Authenticity, Imagination, and Appropriation in Lesbian and Gay Language. Taylor & Francis. p. 360. ISBN 978-2-88449-181-5.
External links
- The dictionary definition of Gay at Wiktionary
- Media related to Gay at Wikimedia Commons
- Quotations related to Gay at Wikiquote
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