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==Bias==
== This seems terribly biased and unencyclopedic: ==
This biography has exhibited substantial bias towards Pang, notably using autobiographies and interviews by Pang{{sfn|Pang|1983}} and ]{{sfn|Lennon|2005}} and other sources that use their accounts (for example Bill Harry's Lennon Encyclopedia){{sfn|Harry|1990}} without balancing with accounts from other witnesses, including ] and ], ], ] and others who were present, more of which I have now added, with more factual accuracy and citations. I hope to see more sources added by other editors in future for further accuracy and balance.


The most well known account of the 'Lost Weekend' period was in the form of a book 'Loving John' written by Pang and Henry Edwards{{sfn|Pang|1983}} and has subsequently been further publicly embellished by multiple interviews with Pang, who was obviously a good, kind person who fell head-over-heels in love with her boss and remained so - understandably as he was her first romantic and sexual partner{{sfn|Pang|1983}}, and is still somewhat obsessed with Lennon and keen to be unkind about Ono.<ref>{{cite web | url=https://variety.com/2022/film/reviews/the-lost-weekend-review-may-pang-john-lennon-1235290486/ | title=‘The Lost Weekend: A Love Story’ Review: May Pang Tells Her Story, and a Piece of John Lennon’s, in a Compelling Documentary| author=Owen Gleiberman|publisher=The Telegraph}}</ref>


But factually the page's original over-romanticised perspective of the time period differs significantly from Lennon's and others in multiple accounts, including Pang. Significantly that Lennon was in turn serially unfaithful to Pang<ref>{{cite web | url=https://www.digitalspy.com/showbiz/a91812/pang-lennon-cheated-during-our-affair/ | title=Pang: 'Lennon cheated during our affair'|publisher=Digital Spy }}</ref> and continually broke off their affair,{{sfn|Pang|1983}} that Ono continued to be in continual daily contact with Lennon (as much as three or four calls per day){{sfn|Pang|1983}}<ref>{{cite web | url=https://www.telegraph.co.uk/culture/photography/9160041/Yoko-Ono-Johns-affair-wasnt-hurtful-to-me.-I-needed-a-rest.-I-needed-space.html | title=interview with Chrissy Iley|publisher=The Telegraph}}</ref>, and more notably that when it comes to Lennon returning to Ono, Pang blames it on hypnotism{{sfn|Pang|1983}} as she cannot seem to accept the fact that he voluntarily wanted to return to Ono. It is also worth noting that during this period, Ono continued to be Lennon's wife and manager, and Pang did not take over either of those roles from Ono.{{sfn|Pang|1983}}
"While she seems to have a good life and many things going for her, she chooses to and remains to this day hopelessly obsessed with John Lennon."


The Lost Weekend period stemmed from the fact that Lennon had been unfaithful to Ono for the first time in four years on the night of the Nixon election<ref>{{cite web | url=https://www.independent.co.uk/news/people/profiles/i-was-doing-this-before-you-were-born-yoko-ono-on-john-lennon-infidelity-and-making-music-into-her-eighties-8788694.html | title=interview with Fiona Sturges|publisher=Independent}}</ref>, and in order for them both to save their happiness and marriage, Ono (who was feeling stifled by Lennon's intensity and from antagonism from his fanbase) encouraged Lennon to take Pang as his mistress with her blessing and to go and get out of his system whatever partying and drunkenness it was that he needed to do in order to be happy, until he was ready to return.<ref>{{cite web | url=https://www.telegraph.co.uk/culture/photography/9160041/Yoko-Ono-Johns-affair-wasnt-hurtful-to-me.-I-needed-a-rest.-I-needed-space.html | title=interview with Chrissy Iley|publisher=The Telegraph}}</ref><ref>{{cite web | url=https://www.independent.co.uk/news/people/profiles/i-was-doing-this-before-you-were-born-yoko-ono-on-john-lennon-infidelity-and-making-music-into-her-eighties-8788694.html | title=interview with Fiona Sturges|publisher=Independent}}</ref> Repeatedly Lennon asked to return, but Ono would not let him, reasoning that he needed to realise for himself that none of this pleasure-seeking and hedonism would bring him the inner happiness he was craving.<ref>{{cite web | url=https://faroutmagazine.co.uk/affair-yoko-ono-arranged-for-john-lennon/|title=The extra-marital affair that Yoko Ono arranged for John Lennon|publisher=Far Out}}</ref>
At worst it's biased, and at best it's too conversational for this venue. Is there a citation that could demonstrate the same idea appropriately, or should the line simply be pulled? <small>—The preceding ] comment was added by ] (] • ]) {{{2|}}}.</small><!-- -->


Ono said of the period, "The affair was something that was not hurtful to me. I needed a rest. I needed space. Can you imagine every day of getting the vibration from people of hate? You want to get out of that. We missed each other. We were calling each other every day. Some days he would call me three or four times. He lived in LA, but that was fine. I was prepared to lose him, but it was better he came back. I didn’t think I would lose him."<ref>{{cite web | url=https://www.telegraph.co.uk/culture/photography/9160041/Yoko-Ono-Johns-affair-wasnt-hurtful-to-me.-I-needed-a-rest.-I-needed-space.html | title=interview with Chrissy Iley|publisher=The Telegraph}}</ref>
:You're right. I just removed that sentence; please feel free to copyedit the rest of the article to make it more accurate and neutral. --] (]) 01:53, 21 April 2006 (UTC)


Lennon's account to biographer Ray Coleman immediately after their 1975 reunion: "I'm as happy as Larry to be back with her (Ono). It was a tough year for me. It's all right wondering whether the grass is greener on the other side but once you get there all you find is more grass. I don't know whether I'll ever learn that lesson about life. We had a mutual separation and a mutual getting back together. Look, she ain't no chick that you say: "OK, I'll see you Friday," or, "I'm coming back Monday." You're dealing with a fully aware human being. There's no treating her like your chick, you know. It fell in place again. It was like I never left. I realized this was where I belonged. I think we both knew we'd get back together again sooner or later, even if it was five years, and that's why we never bothered with divorce. I'm just glad she let me back in again. I was allowed back! It was like going out for a drink but it took me a year to get it. I'm the one who's supposed to know everything, but she's my teacher. She's taught me everything I know. The lessons are hard and I can't take it sometimes and that's why I freaked out. When we were separate, it was me making an asshole of myself in the clubs and in the newspapers. It wasn't her. She missed me as a human being and she loved me but her life was ordered. I went back to her life.It wasn't the other way round. Yoko and I are proud to say that our separation was a failure." {{sfn|Coleman|1984}}


The point I'm trying to put across about this page as it stood and Pang's emotional (rather than factual) perspective is also borne out by Owen Gleiberman in his Variety review of Pang's recent documentary of the time: "What doesn’t seem convincing, at least as the film presents it, is the final twist in this extraordinary rock ‘n’ roll soap opera. After John, seemingly out of nowhere, goes back to Yoko, and Pang confronts him about it, he says, quite simply: She’s letting me come back. Letting him? That doesn’t square with what the film has implied — that Lennon had drifted away from Yoko. His comment suggests that their separation was always contingent on an understanding between them. But that’s something we’d have to guess at, since the life of John Lennon remains, for all the ways it’s been chronicled, not quite knowable. “The Lost Weekend” is a compelling movie and a valuable puzzle piece, but it’s only pretending to be the whole puzzle."<ref>{{cite web | url=https://variety.com/2022/film/reviews/the-lost-weekend-review-may-pang-john-lennon-1235290486/ | title=‘The Lost Weekend: A Love Story’ Review: May Pang Tells Her Story, and a Piece of John Lennon’s, in a Compelling Documentary| author=Owen Gleiberman|publisher=The Telegraph}}</ref>
The article states, "though others have noticed that she re-tells different versions of her story in order to stay in the news and over-inflate her importance in Lennon's life." Can this statement be supported in any way? --]


] (]) 17:47, 18 June 2022 (UTC)
== Major Vandalism ==


:from this point on we're going to stop the repeated edits of this article. It was marked "GA" and it will stay that way.
There has been an ''extreme'' attempt to bias this article in Pang's favor, possibly by Pang herself (the user is MsMP), which included the deletion of an entire section that appropriately discussed criticism of her book without any discussion whatsoever. Everyone please watch this article.
:Any editor who thinks different will be removed from Misplaced Pages.
] 20:09, 23 August 2006 (UTC)
: It will be locked shortly, so please move on. ] (]) 18:50, 21 June 2022 (UTC)
::Hi ]
::Please read the first three sentences at the top of this page: "May Pang has been listed as one of the Language and literature good articles under the good article criteria. If you can improve it further, please do so. If it no longer meets these criteria, you can reassess it."
::Also: ]. Be nice. It's a collaboration not a dictatorship. ] (]) 20:03, 22 June 2022 (UTC)


I think it’s time to leave the page alone and stop reverting. It appears that you are in a battle with Hotcop2 which needs to stop as well. I’m working on getting the article locked as it stands so please use every fiber of your being, to leave it as it is. I hear there’s other articles that could use your tenacity. I can help you find them if you’d like. <!-- Template:Unsigned IP --><small class="autosigned">—&nbsp;Preceding ] comment added by ] (]) 21:28, 22 June 2022 (UTC)</small> <!--Autosigned by SineBot-->
:There has been a second vandalism attempt that was again reverted. I'd also like to add that the comment that claims that Yoko Ono has "verified" in "several interviews over the years" that John Lennon and May Pang were "emotionally involved" (from which the last user attempted to removed the "citation needed" tag) is likely untrue, as Ono tends to delegate such questions to her publicist, Eliiot Mintz. I've read many interviews with Ms. Ono and I don't recall her ever mentioning Pang by name. That's not to say she never has, but it's unlikely. ] 19:18, 24 August 2006 (UTC)


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==GA==
Dont let this happen. The original august 3rd was the best and most honest. It displayed the critisms accuratley.
This is close to a GA, and it would be great to . In fact, I will fix the references and then nominate it. --] (]) 22:17, 11 January 2008 (UTC)


I still have to fill in some of the Beatles 57-70 section. But I'm feeling like crap so I can't do it right now. After they conquer America, his books, touring, John's comment about Christ (which is already there), the end of touring, Brian's death, India, Yoko, lithos, rock n roll circus... then it should be pretty much done. ] (]) 22:35, 11 January 2008 (UTC)
Also it appears May removed the line about her being on the payroll the whole time through 1975, a fact she confirms in her own book, as well as her removing the line about Lennon having affairs with other women which May also confirms in her own book as well as testimony of the women he had the affairs with. here are the lines she deleted -
"Pang lived with Lennon from late 1973 until the first weeks of 1975, and was employed and on the payroll working during the day on the business end of his recording projects" and "While in LA, Lennon decided to collaborate with Phil Spector to record an album of oldies. During this time, Lennon had numerous affairs with other women while drinking to excess and partying hard."


See how messed up i am? i thought i was talking about the Lennon page. God. Anyway, the Pang article looks great ;-) ] (]) 22:37, 11 January 2008 (UTC)


::It will be the last laugh for May, as she will be a GA article while Yoko is still a B, and probably will be for some time. Silly, I know, but little things please little minds like mine... :)) --] (]) 23:06, 11 January 2008 (UTC)
:User "Cowteeters", likely to be Pang, has been reported. More ridiculousness are the constant attempts to change "concubine" to "companion". Pang herself states in her own book that Yoko Ono didn't request a bridge partner for John Lennon, she requested a sexual partner. ] 22:38, 24 August 2006 (UTC)


Unfortunate significant bias to Pang. ] (]) 15:57, 18 June 2022 (UTC)


:Of course there's gonna be bias. IT's HER PAGE. Have you looked around Misplaced Pages lately? Anyway, I'm working on a lock with the powers that be.
8/26/06 the page has been vandelized AGAIN. concubine changed to companion, etc. Page now reverted to Layla. WATCH THIS PAGE. It may NEED to be locked for good.
:Peace and Love. ] (]) 14:14, 25 June 2022 (UTC)


==Bill Harry==
Notice the newest link promoting Robert Rosens "claim" has been posted by Jean TEETERS.
Harry’s “John Lennon Encyclopedia” is a broken link. Maybe it will come back, but if not all the references will have to removed. --] (]) 23:32, 11 January 2008 (UTC)


:I've done it. --] (]) 01:38, 12 January 2008 (UTC)
:Amazing...just note in reading this article how incredibly delusional Pang is. "WE did Rock n Roll..." Wasn't she just a P.A., professionally speaking (obviously her role in keeping John's bed warm should have nothing to do with that album)? She honestly seems to believe that not only was John Lennon in love with her, she actually had an impact on his art. Wow. ] 23:49, 23 February 2007 (UTC)


Harry’s “John Lennon Encyclopedia” is only reliable for Lennon's time in the UK. It is poorly researched and unreliable for the period in the USA (as Harry was not present and had lost contact with Lennon). ] (]) 15:56, 18 June 2022 (UTC)
11/17/06 Removed internal link for Robert Rosen. It was linked to Robert Rosen the biologist, not Robert Rosen the author.


==GA again==
In reponse to above, yes she was a PA and secretary. BUT she did not contribute to any of Lennon's artistic or musical projects other then to arrange studio times and organize sessions.
It's getting closer, but it needs a good polish. --] (]) 01:38, 12 January 2008 (UTC)
It is sad that she seems to think she was a major influence on Lennon, when in her own book she states that in May 1974 Lennon left her in LA for an entire month while he went back to NYC. During the time away from May he wrote all the songs for Walls and Bridges in a two week period. She was not even present for the conception of these songs. This information is in her book and for her to change her story now is ludicrous.


:I have put quite a few links at the bottom which will be deleted after I put them in the article. --] (]) 15:16, 12 January 2008 (UTC)
==Vandal==
::This is going very well, IMHO... :) --] (]) 18:05, 12 January 2008 (UTC)
User ] has added comments to my talk page that were hidden in the middle of another editor's comments. Protect this page now, and block the idiot in question. ] 19:57, 19 January 2007 (UTC)


Great job ;-) ] (]) 01:44, 13 January 2008 (UTC)
Can the comments here be toned down a bit? There is no reason to use profanities or to make serious allegations without foundations.
:Please sign your comments. If you'll notice the long-term, constant attempts to vandalize this page, the similar usernames and the similarities to Pang's own name, not to mention to the author of the so-called "article" that was just removed from the External Links, these allegations are not without foundations. They're not proven, but no allegations are proven by the definition of the word. They are suspicions, and there is certainly plenty of reason to suspect. Again, if you'd like to be at all taken seriously, please sign your comments.


:Photos changed, as per instructions from the heated law and order officer. :) --] (]) 03:50, 13 January 2008 (UTC)
:In other news, I agree that everything having anything to do with "Jean Teeters" (Pang's alias? ) should be removed. Nice work by the last user to do so. ] 07:22, 12 May 2007 (UTC)


I removed Jean Teeters stuff as well. She's just an obsessed fan who used to run May's website and is disgruntled.


== Vandalism of Talk Page ==


==Good article nomination on hold==
I notice that this Talk page was recently almost entirely deleted and had to be restored. I made a comment on the user's talk page that this is major vandalism, and if it was a mistake to please be more mindful in the future. In case it wasn't a mistake--PLEASE keep an eye on this page. ] 02:45, 12 August 2007 (UTC)
This article's Good Article promotion has been put on hold. During review, some issues were discovered that can be resolved without a major re-write. This is how the article, as of January 21, 2008, compares against the ]:

:'''1. Well written?:''' The writing is very engaging and interesting. It could probably use a minor copy edit to perfect the grammar and presentation in a few places, but overall the writing is very good.
:'''2. Factually accurate?:''' The article seems very well-referenced, see NPOV for the single flaw.
{{done}} I think I got it. The aggresive brother and not being accepted, perhaps? --] (]) 15:41, 22 January 2008 (UTC)
:'''3. Broad in coverage?:''' The article appears to touch most of the major points. Some issues (see images comments below).
:'''4. Neutral point of view?:''' ] should attribute the author/source explicitly in the article text. It should not be cited like a reliable independent reference. Instead, the reader should be alerted that these are May Pang's assertions. Regarding the following comment: "Ono confirmed this conversation in an interview with Larry Kane for his 2005 book, ''Lennon Revealed''." This should be cited to that book, including page number, for ]. Presentation like this appears to be a bit apologetic/sympathetic on May Pang's behalf. This and any similar examples should be revised to address any concerns regarding ].
{{done}} I think I have done that, but I will go through it with a fine toothcomb. --] (]) 15:50, 22 January 2008 (UTC)
:'''5. Article stability?''' This article appears heavily worked on, but stable and without much dispute.
:'''6. Images?:''' There are an unusual number of fair use images in this article. Not all of the fair use material seems appropriate. For example, ''Instamatic Karma'' is not actually discussed in the article, making its use purely decorative (and it's fair use rationale deceptive). This definitely needs to be addressed by removing fair use images or expanding the article appropriately.
{{done}} The photo has gone. It will probably be put back when the book is released, or when ] can get it approved by May Pang.--] (]) 15:49, 22 January 2008 (UTC)

<br/>This article is mostly in very good condition, with copious references and solid writing. Some adjustments need to be made to comply with NPOV and fair use policy.

Please address these matters soon and then leave a note here showing how they have been resolved. After 48 hours the article should be ]. If these issues are not addressed within 7 days, the article '''''may be failed without further notice'''''. Thank you for your work so far.<!-- Template:GANOH --> ] (]) 17:50, 21 January 2008 (UTC)

:I will work on your points (I see what you mean) and I thank you for the review. --] (]) 18:43, 21 January 2008 (UTC)
::No problem. This article is in very good shape with only a couple of issues. I look forward to the improvements. :) ] (]) 18:50, 21 January 2008 (UTC)

:::I thank you again. What a nice reviewer! I have to work the whole day tomorrow, but I will go for it tomorrow afternoon/night (Central European time). --] (]) 19:07, 21 January 2008 (UTC)

Yes, this is exciting. I added a couple of references, hope I did so correctly. Regarding the Instamatic Karma cover, I have a galley copy, and can expand a bit about the book. Or it can be removed and possibly replaced when the book is released.... ] (]) 22:52, 21 January 2008 (UTC)

:That's a good idea. --] (]) 16:54, 22 January 2008 (UTC)


Hello, changed May 1974 to June 1974 for the return to NY as this is directly from May's book Loving John. In her book May states John returned alone with Harry to NY in May 1974 and May Pang followed several weeks later. Do not recall the exact page number but can provide if requested. This would then make this change cited. <span style="font-size: smaller;" class="autosigned">—Preceding ] comment added by ] (]) 22:33, 9 December 2009 (UTC)</span><!-- Template:UnsignedIP --> <!--Autosigned by SineBot-->

== Spelling mistake and date inconsistency ==

Hello, great article, thanks. Just a couple of points:<br />
where it says "Lennon would start seeing other women" in the "Lost weekend" section, <s>I think the editor meant to write "Lennon ''should'' start seeing other women". It just makes more sense in context (and I have a feeling that that was Ono's intention ... is there a good source?)</s><br />
The date for recording of 'Pussy Cats' would seem to be right, and so would the date for the 'oldies' (presumably Lennon's 'Rock and Roll' album). In which case the Spector info needs to come right after "In October 1973, Lennon and Pang left New York..." otherwise Lennon has his drinking incidents in 1974 and ''then'' collaborated with Spector in 1973, which doesn't make sense.<br />
I'll check back and see if its been changed in a week or two, thanks.] (]) 19:25, 27 January 2010 (UTC)<br /><br />Ok, I made a mistake, the correct sense is "would probably start seeing other women" (from the 'lost Lennon Interviews' book), sorry!] (]) 19:38, 27 January 2010 (UTC)

::: I agree, so I restructured it a bit for clarity. ] (]) 00:07, 28 January 2010 (UTC)

Lennon did see multiple other women during this period. See below. ] (]) 15:59, 18 June 2022 (UTC)

== Stray code ==
Can anyone figure out where the "style="background: #BFD; color: black; vertical-align: middle; text-align: center; " class="yes table-yes"| es" at the bottom of the article is coming from?—] (]) 12:08, 13 April 2010 (UTC)
:By process of elimination, I've determined it is the "<nowiki>{{Good|es}}</nowiki>" tag. Now to figure out what to do about it.—] (]) 05:50, 14 April 2010 (UTC)
::Delete it, that's what, since the ] is inappropriate.—] (]) 05:54, 14 April 2010 (UTC)

Hello, The name "Pang" is not quoted in Larry Kanes book. It is conjecture and assumption that Lennon means only Pang when he had intimate relationships with several other women during the lost weekend. Please do not enter uncited content unless a quote can be proven.

Hello, <span style="font-size: smaller;" class="autosigned">—Preceding ] comment added by ] (]) 21:51, 11 August 2010 (UTC)</span><!-- Template:UnsignedIP --> <!--Autosigned by SineBot-->

In Kane's book, the passage and quote directly refers to the "lost weekend" and John's explanation of his mixed feelings of his return to Ono. He didn't have several other "relationships," he fucked a couple of girls (as he had done with Ono and Cynthia) and says "I loved this woman" not "women" -- and the name Pang wasn't in the quote, which is why it's in (parenthesis). ] (]) 22:20, 11 August 2010 (UTC)

ok thanks for the clarification - at least it is not as misleading now. By the way there was one woman named Angel that John had a 4 month affair with in La when he was with May Pang. She was the girl John would go to when he and May would fight and he would walk out. This girl Angel has contacted and spoken with May through emails several years ago, and posted some of May's replies to her on the internet. So, seeing that John did have multiple "relationships" during the lost weekend it all should be taken into account. John even said in his own words that he was like a chicken with this head cut off and that he meant no disrespect to people he was having "relationships" with in an interview shortly after returning to Yoko. Yes he used the plural. <span style="font-size: smaller;" class="autosigned">—Preceding ] comment added by ] (]) 19:05, 16 August 2010 (UTC)</span><!-- Template:UnsignedIP --> <!--Autosigned by SineBot-->

It says that john hadn't had contact with his son Julian for four years when May had encouraged him to re-establish contact during the "lost weekend" of 1974 when in fact there exists footage of Julian at johns house during the "imagine" sessions of 1971. <span style="font-size: smaller;" class="autosigned">— Preceding ] comment added by ] (]) 22:35, 28 September 2014 (UTC)</span><!-- Template:Unsigned IP --> <!--Autosigned by SineBot-->

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== Mistress ==

I want to discuss these edits:
*{{u|Anthony22}} - ''(replaced girlfriend with mistress. By most accounts, Pang was Lennon's mistress)''
*{{u|Verbcatcher}} - ''(Undid revision 814752519 by Anthony22 (talk) unsourced and contentious)''
*Anthony22 - ''(added sourced information that May Pang was John Lennon's mistress. A number of people have referred to Pang as Lennon's mistress. Also, this encyclopedia is loaded with contentious information that should not be deleted.)''

My revert was in the context of ], which says {{tq|Contentious material about living persons (or, in some cases, recently deceased) that is unsourced or poorly sourced—whether the material is negative, positive, neutral, or just questionable—should be '''removed immediately and without waiting for discussion'''.}} Higher standards of sourcing are demanded for BLP articles.

'Mistress' is a contentious term, and indicates a committed adulterous relationship. We should not claim this without establishing that the relationship started before Lennon and Ono's relationship ended. We say ''{{tq| Lennon and Ono were having marital problems and decided to separate, and Ono suggested to Pang that she become Lennon's companion}}''. This indicates that Lennon was not two-timing Ono, and that the Pang relationship followed the breakdown of the Ono relationship.

Anthony22 has added three sources to support the term 'mistress':
*http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/celebrity/John+lennon-4923.html
*http://www.foxnews.com/story/2008/02/20/john-lennon-first-wife-endorses-mistress-book.html
*http://hottytoddy.com/2014/11/03/lennon-lover-gives-hottytoddy-com-fresh-beatles-info/

femalefirst.co.uk and hottytoddy.com are ] sources, and are not acceptable sources for BLP articles, see ]. The Fox News source is a ] article by ], and is insufficiently reliable in this case. Friedman does not discuss the details of the relationships between Pang, Lennon and Ono. ] (]) 02:06, 12 December 2017 (UTC)

Some articles refer to May Pang as Lennon's girlfriend, while other stories refer to her as his mistress. The issue is semantics or six vs. half a dozen. There is very little distinction between "girlfriend" and "mistress." The two terms basically refer to the same thing. Lennon committed adultery with Pang with Ono's approval. When a married man has an extensive heterosexual relationship with another woman, she is basically classified as his mistress. I can give you two excellent examples of politicians who had mistresses (or girlfriends). JFK had a lengthy sexual relationship with Mimi Alford when he was in the White House; she was still a teenager when he took her virginity. Reille Hunter was John Edward's mistress; he knocked her up at the same time that his wife was dying of cancer.

I don't understand why someone is making a federal project out of this issue. Misplaced Pages doesn't seem to respect tabloid journalism. You have to understand that the tabloids can be sued for millions of dollars for defamation. I don't think that the tabloids would intentionally publish false information that would harm somebody's character.

Girlfriend vs. mistress is the equivalent of partridge vs. ruffed grouse. This is getting off topic, but as long as I live, I'll never know what John Lennon saw in Yoko Ono.] (]) 03:02, 12 December 2017 (UTC)

:'Mistress' implies secrecy and deception. This applies your examples of politicians, but not to Pang.

:Your views on the tabloids appear naive, at least from a British perspective. It is often only the threat of legal action that restrains them, and Pang may not have the resources to prosecute. I will revert ] (]) 04:21, 12 December 2017 (UTC)

:Lennon and Ono were living apart. His relationship with Pang was public. He was not "with" Pang when he was with Ono. ] (]) 01:02, 14 December 2017 (UTC)
::Roger Friedman has a background, as can be seen by an easy google search, that makes him to my mind a very questionable source. ] (]) 00:42, 17 February 2021 (UTC)

Mistress - As per Misplaced Pages, ] is a term for a woman who is in a sexual and romantic relationship with a man who is married to a different woman. As Lennon and Ono remained married, the definition stands. Lennon and Ono called each other several times a day and remained in close contact throughout the period. Ono remained Lennon's wife and manager and Pang remained Lennon's assistant and mistress. ] (]) 15:53, 18 June 2022 (UTC)

The affair was very on-off and not exclusive - Lennon was very sexually active. He would overnight with other women at hotels or at their apartments. He frequently split up with Pang, notably for three weeks in November/December 1973 and for over a month in April/May 1974. The affair was non-exclusive as Lennon also slept with multiple other women during this period including his wife. ] (]) 15:53, 18 June 2022 (UTC)

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* {{cite book | author=Harry, Bill |author-link=Bill Harry | title=John Lennon Encyclopedia| publisher=Bargain Price| year=1990 | isbn=978-0-7535-0404-8|ref={{SfnRef|Harry|1990}}}}

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Bias

This biography has exhibited substantial bias towards Pang, notably using autobiographies and interviews by Pang and Cynthia Lennon and other sources that use their accounts (for example Bill Harry's Lennon Encyclopedia) without balancing with accounts from other witnesses, including John Lennon and Yoko Ono, Dan Richter, Elton John and others who were present, more of which I have now added, with more factual accuracy and citations. I hope to see more sources added by other editors in future for further accuracy and balance.

The most well known account of the 'Lost Weekend' period was in the form of a book 'Loving John' written by Pang and Henry Edwards and has subsequently been further publicly embellished by multiple interviews with Pang, who was obviously a good, kind person who fell head-over-heels in love with her boss and remained so - understandably as he was her first romantic and sexual partner, and is still somewhat obsessed with Lennon and keen to be unkind about Ono.

But factually the page's original over-romanticised perspective of the time period differs significantly from Lennon's and others in multiple accounts, including Pang. Significantly that Lennon was in turn serially unfaithful to Pang and continually broke off their affair, that Ono continued to be in continual daily contact with Lennon (as much as three or four calls per day), and more notably that when it comes to Lennon returning to Ono, Pang blames it on hypnotism as she cannot seem to accept the fact that he voluntarily wanted to return to Ono. It is also worth noting that during this period, Ono continued to be Lennon's wife and manager, and Pang did not take over either of those roles from Ono.

The Lost Weekend period stemmed from the fact that Lennon had been unfaithful to Ono for the first time in four years on the night of the Nixon election, and in order for them both to save their happiness and marriage, Ono (who was feeling stifled by Lennon's intensity and from antagonism from his fanbase) encouraged Lennon to take Pang as his mistress with her blessing and to go and get out of his system whatever partying and drunkenness it was that he needed to do in order to be happy, until he was ready to return. Repeatedly Lennon asked to return, but Ono would not let him, reasoning that he needed to realise for himself that none of this pleasure-seeking and hedonism would bring him the inner happiness he was craving.

Ono said of the period, "The affair was something that was not hurtful to me. I needed a rest. I needed space. Can you imagine every day of getting the vibration from people of hate? You want to get out of that. We missed each other. We were calling each other every day. Some days he would call me three or four times. He lived in LA, but that was fine. I was prepared to lose him, but it was better he came back. I didn’t think I would lose him."

Lennon's account to biographer Ray Coleman immediately after their 1975 reunion: "I'm as happy as Larry to be back with her (Ono). It was a tough year for me. It's all right wondering whether the grass is greener on the other side but once you get there all you find is more grass. I don't know whether I'll ever learn that lesson about life. We had a mutual separation and a mutual getting back together. Look, she ain't no chick that you say: "OK, I'll see you Friday," or, "I'm coming back Monday." You're dealing with a fully aware human being. There's no treating her like your chick, you know. It fell in place again. It was like I never left. I realized this was where I belonged. I think we both knew we'd get back together again sooner or later, even if it was five years, and that's why we never bothered with divorce. I'm just glad she let me back in again. I was allowed back! It was like going out for a drink but it took me a year to get it. I'm the one who's supposed to know everything, but she's my teacher. She's taught me everything I know. The lessons are hard and I can't take it sometimes and that's why I freaked out. When we were separate, it was me making an asshole of myself in the clubs and in the newspapers. It wasn't her. She missed me as a human being and she loved me but her life was ordered. I went back to her life.It wasn't the other way round. Yoko and I are proud to say that our separation was a failure."

The point I'm trying to put across about this page as it stood and Pang's emotional (rather than factual) perspective is also borne out by Owen Gleiberman in his Variety review of Pang's recent documentary of the time: "What doesn’t seem convincing, at least as the film presents it, is the final twist in this extraordinary rock ‘n’ roll soap opera. After John, seemingly out of nowhere, goes back to Yoko, and Pang confronts him about it, he says, quite simply: She’s letting me come back. Letting him? That doesn’t square with what the film has implied — that Lennon had drifted away from Yoko. His comment suggests that their separation was always contingent on an understanding between them. But that’s something we’d have to guess at, since the life of John Lennon remains, for all the ways it’s been chronicled, not quite knowable. “The Lost Weekend” is a compelling movie and a valuable puzzle piece, but it’s only pretending to be the whole puzzle."

Awesomasaurus (talk) 17:47, 18 June 2022 (UTC)

from this point on we're going to stop the repeated edits of this article. It was marked "GA" and it will stay that way.
Any editor who thinks different will be removed from Misplaced Pages.
It will be locked shortly, so please move on. CorporationTeeShirt (talk) 18:50, 21 June 2022 (UTC)
Hi CorporationTeeShirt
Please read the first three sentences at the top of this page: "May Pang has been listed as one of the Language and literature good articles under the good article criteria. If you can improve it further, please do so. If it no longer meets these criteria, you can reassess it."
Also: There is no deadline. Be nice. It's a collaboration not a dictatorship. Awesomasaurus (talk) 20:03, 22 June 2022 (UTC)

I think it’s time to leave the page alone and stop reverting. It appears that you are in a battle with Hotcop2 which needs to stop as well. I’m working on getting the article locked as it stands so please use every fiber of your being, to leave it as it is. I hear there’s other articles that could use your tenacity. I can help you find them if you’d like. — Preceding unsigned comment added by 2603:7000:6A00:56BF:7064:958B:A0E0:FEA0 (talk) 21:28, 22 June 2022 (UTC)

References

  1. ^ Pang 1983.
  2. Lennon 2005.
  3. Harry 1990.
  4. Owen Gleiberman. "'The Lost Weekend: A Love Story' Review: May Pang Tells Her Story, and a Piece of John Lennon's, in a Compelling Documentary". The Telegraph.
  5. "Pang: 'Lennon cheated during our affair'". Digital Spy.
  6. "interview with Chrissy Iley". The Telegraph.
  7. "interview with Fiona Sturges". Independent.
  8. "interview with Chrissy Iley". The Telegraph.
  9. "interview with Fiona Sturges". Independent.
  10. "The extra-marital affair that Yoko Ono arranged for John Lennon". Far Out.
  11. "interview with Chrissy Iley". The Telegraph.
  12. Coleman 1984.
  13. Owen Gleiberman. "'The Lost Weekend: A Love Story' Review: May Pang Tells Her Story, and a Piece of John Lennon's, in a Compelling Documentary". The Telegraph.

GA

This is close to a GA, and it would be great to see it on this. In fact, I will fix the references and then nominate it. --andreasegde (talk) 22:17, 11 January 2008 (UTC)

I still have to fill in some of the Beatles 57-70 section. But I'm feeling like crap so I can't do it right now. After they conquer America, his books, touring, John's comment about Christ (which is already there), the end of touring, Brian's death, India, Yoko, lithos, rock n roll circus... then it should be pretty much done. Hotcop2 (talk) 22:35, 11 January 2008 (UTC)

See how messed up i am? i thought i was talking about the Lennon page. God. Anyway, the Pang article looks great ;-) Hotcop2 (talk) 22:37, 11 January 2008 (UTC)

It will be the last laugh for May, as she will be a GA article while Yoko is still a B, and probably will be for some time. Silly, I know, but little things please little minds like mine... :)) --andreasegde (talk) 23:06, 11 January 2008 (UTC)

Unfortunate significant bias to Pang. Awesomasaurus (talk) 15:57, 18 June 2022 (UTC)

Of course there's gonna be bias. IT's HER PAGE. Have you looked around Misplaced Pages lately? Anyway, I'm working on a lock with the powers that be.
Peace and Love. CorporationTeeShirt (talk) 14:14, 25 June 2022 (UTC)

Bill Harry

Harry’s “John Lennon Encyclopedia” is a broken link. Maybe it will come back, but if not all the references will have to removed. --andreasegde (talk) 23:32, 11 January 2008 (UTC)

I've done it. --andreasegde (talk) 01:38, 12 January 2008 (UTC)

Harry’s “John Lennon Encyclopedia” is only reliable for Lennon's time in the UK. It is poorly researched and unreliable for the period in the USA (as Harry was not present and had lost contact with Lennon). Awesomasaurus (talk) 15:56, 18 June 2022 (UTC)

GA again

It's getting closer, but it needs a good polish. --andreasegde (talk) 01:38, 12 January 2008 (UTC)

I have put quite a few links at the bottom which will be deleted after I put them in the article. --andreasegde (talk) 15:16, 12 January 2008 (UTC)
This is going very well, IMHO... :) --andreasegde (talk) 18:05, 12 January 2008 (UTC)

Great job ;-) Hotcop2 (talk) 01:44, 13 January 2008 (UTC)

Photos changed, as per instructions from the heated law and order officer. :) --andreasegde (talk) 03:50, 13 January 2008 (UTC)


Good article nomination on hold

This article's Good Article promotion has been put on hold. During review, some issues were discovered that can be resolved without a major re-write. This is how the article, as of January 21, 2008, compares against the six good article criteria:

1. Well written?: The writing is very engaging and interesting. It could probably use a minor copy edit to perfect the grammar and presentation in a few places, but overall the writing is very good.
2. Factually accurate?: The article seems very well-referenced, see NPOV for the single flaw.

 Done I think I got it. The aggresive brother and not being accepted, perhaps? --andreasegde (talk) 15:41, 22 January 2008 (UTC)

3. Broad in coverage?: The article appears to touch most of the major points. Some issues (see images comments below).
4. Neutral point of view?: References like this should attribute the author/source explicitly in the article text. It should not be cited like a reliable independent reference. Instead, the reader should be alerted that these are May Pang's assertions. Regarding the following comment: "Ono confirmed this conversation in an interview with Larry Kane for his 2005 book, Lennon Revealed." This should be cited to that book, including page number, for verifiability's sake. Presentation like this appears to be a bit apologetic/sympathetic on May Pang's behalf. This and any similar examples should be revised to address any concerns regarding NPOV.

 Done I think I have done that, but I will go through it with a fine toothcomb. --andreasegde (talk) 15:50, 22 January 2008 (UTC)

5. Article stability? This article appears heavily worked on, but stable and without much dispute.
6. Images?: There are an unusual number of fair use images in this article. Not all of the fair use material seems appropriate. For example, Instamatic Karma is not actually discussed in the article, making its use purely decorative (and it's fair use rationale deceptive). This definitely needs to be addressed by removing fair use images or expanding the article appropriately.

 Done The photo has gone. It will probably be put back when the book is released, or when Hotcop2 can get it approved by May Pang.--andreasegde (talk) 15:49, 22 January 2008 (UTC)


This article is mostly in very good condition, with copious references and solid writing. Some adjustments need to be made to comply with NPOV and fair use policy.

Please address these matters soon and then leave a note here showing how they have been resolved. After 48 hours the article should be reviewed again. If these issues are not addressed within 7 days, the article may be failed without further notice. Thank you for your work so far. Vassyana (talk) 17:50, 21 January 2008 (UTC)

I will work on your points (I see what you mean) and I thank you for the review. --andreasegde (talk) 18:43, 21 January 2008 (UTC)
No problem. This article is in very good shape with only a couple of issues. I look forward to the improvements. :) Vassyana (talk) 18:50, 21 January 2008 (UTC)
I thank you again. What a nice reviewer! I have to work the whole day tomorrow, but I will go for it tomorrow afternoon/night (Central European time). --andreasegde (talk) 19:07, 21 January 2008 (UTC)

Yes, this is exciting. I added a couple of references, hope I did so correctly. Regarding the Instamatic Karma cover, I have a galley copy, and can expand a bit about the book. Or it can be removed and possibly replaced when the book is released.... Hotcop2 (talk) 22:52, 21 January 2008 (UTC)

That's a good idea. --andreasegde (talk) 16:54, 22 January 2008 (UTC)


Hello, changed May 1974 to June 1974 for the return to NY as this is directly from May's book Loving John. In her book May states John returned alone with Harry to NY in May 1974 and May Pang followed several weeks later. Do not recall the exact page number but can provide if requested. This would then make this change cited. —Preceding unsigned comment added by 38.148.168.53 (talk) 22:33, 9 December 2009 (UTC)

Spelling mistake and date inconsistency

Hello, great article, thanks. Just a couple of points:
where it says "Lennon would start seeing other women" in the "Lost weekend" section, I think the editor meant to write "Lennon should start seeing other women". It just makes more sense in context (and I have a feeling that that was Ono's intention ... is there a good source?)
The date for recording of 'Pussy Cats' would seem to be right, and so would the date for the 'oldies' (presumably Lennon's 'Rock and Roll' album). In which case the Spector info needs to come right after "In October 1973, Lennon and Pang left New York..." otherwise Lennon has his drinking incidents in 1974 and then collaborated with Spector in 1973, which doesn't make sense.
I'll check back and see if its been changed in a week or two, thanks.Jabberwock359 (talk) 19:25, 27 January 2010 (UTC)

Ok, I made a mistake, the correct sense is "would probably start seeing other women" (from the 'lost Lennon Interviews' book), sorry!Jabberwock359 (talk) 19:38, 27 January 2010 (UTC)

I agree, so I restructured it a bit for clarity. Hotcop2 (talk) 00:07, 28 January 2010 (UTC)

Lennon did see multiple other women during this period. See below. Awesomasaurus (talk) 15:59, 18 June 2022 (UTC)

Stray code

Can anyone figure out where the "style="background: #BFD; color: black; vertical-align: middle; text-align: center; " class="yes table-yes"| es" at the bottom of the article is coming from?—DocWatson42 (talk) 12:08, 13 April 2010 (UTC)

By process of elimination, I've determined it is the "{{Good|es}}" tag. Now to figure out what to do about it.—DocWatson42 (talk) 05:50, 14 April 2010 (UTC)
Delete it, that's what, since the template is inappropriate.—DocWatson42 (talk) 05:54, 14 April 2010 (UTC)

Hello, The name "Pang" is not quoted in Larry Kanes book. It is conjecture and assumption that Lennon means only Pang when he had intimate relationships with several other women during the lost weekend. Please do not enter uncited content unless a quote can be proven.

Hello, —Preceding unsigned comment added by 64.208.23.76 (talk) 21:51, 11 August 2010 (UTC)

In Kane's book, the passage and quote directly refers to the "lost weekend" and John's explanation of his mixed feelings of his return to Ono. He didn't have several other "relationships," he fucked a couple of girls (as he had done with Ono and Cynthia) and says "I loved this woman" not "women" -- and the name Pang wasn't in the quote, which is why it's in (parenthesis). Hotcop2 (talk) 22:20, 11 August 2010 (UTC)

ok thanks for the clarification - at least it is not as misleading now. By the way there was one woman named Angel that John had a 4 month affair with in La when he was with May Pang. She was the girl John would go to when he and May would fight and he would walk out. This girl Angel has contacted and spoken with May through emails several years ago, and posted some of May's replies to her on the internet. So, seeing that John did have multiple "relationships" during the lost weekend it all should be taken into account. John even said in his own words that he was like a chicken with this head cut off and that he meant no disrespect to people he was having "relationships" with in an interview shortly after returning to Yoko. Yes he used the plural. —Preceding unsigned comment added by 64.208.23.76 (talk) 19:05, 16 August 2010 (UTC)

It says that john hadn't had contact with his son Julian for four years when May had encouraged him to re-establish contact during the "lost weekend" of 1974 when in fact there exists footage of Julian at johns house during the "imagine" sessions of 1971. — Preceding unsigned comment added by 94.173.200.246 (talk) 22:35, 28 September 2014 (UTC)

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Mistress

I want to discuss these edits:

  • Anthony22 - (replaced girlfriend with mistress. By most accounts, Pang was Lennon's mistress)
  • Verbcatcher - (Undid revision 814752519 by Anthony22 (talk) unsourced and contentious)
  • Anthony22 - (added sourced information that May Pang was John Lennon's mistress. A number of people have referred to Pang as Lennon's mistress. Also, this encyclopedia is loaded with contentious information that should not be deleted.)

My revert was in the context of Misplaced Pages:Biographies of living persons, which says Contentious material about living persons (or, in some cases, recently deceased) that is unsourced or poorly sourced—whether the material is negative, positive, neutral, or just questionable—should be removed immediately and without waiting for discussion. Higher standards of sourcing are demanded for BLP articles.

'Mistress' is a contentious term, and indicates a committed adulterous relationship. We should not claim this without establishing that the relationship started before Lennon and Ono's relationship ended. We say Lennon and Ono were having marital problems and decided to separate, and Ono suggested to Pang that she become Lennon's companion. This indicates that Lennon was not two-timing Ono, and that the Pang relationship followed the breakdown of the Ono relationship.

Anthony22 has added three sources to support the term 'mistress':

femalefirst.co.uk and hottytoddy.com are tabloid journalism sources, and are not acceptable sources for BLP articles, see WP:BLPSOURCES. The Fox News source is a gossip column article by Roger Friedman, and is insufficiently reliable in this case. Friedman does not discuss the details of the relationships between Pang, Lennon and Ono. Verbcatcher (talk) 02:06, 12 December 2017 (UTC)

Some articles refer to May Pang as Lennon's girlfriend, while other stories refer to her as his mistress. The issue is semantics or six vs. half a dozen. There is very little distinction between "girlfriend" and "mistress." The two terms basically refer to the same thing. Lennon committed adultery with Pang with Ono's approval. When a married man has an extensive heterosexual relationship with another woman, she is basically classified as his mistress. I can give you two excellent examples of politicians who had mistresses (or girlfriends). JFK had a lengthy sexual relationship with Mimi Alford when he was in the White House; she was still a teenager when he took her virginity. Reille Hunter was John Edward's mistress; he knocked her up at the same time that his wife was dying of cancer.

I don't understand why someone is making a federal project out of this issue. Misplaced Pages doesn't seem to respect tabloid journalism. You have to understand that the tabloids can be sued for millions of dollars for defamation. I don't think that the tabloids would intentionally publish false information that would harm somebody's character.

Girlfriend vs. mistress is the equivalent of partridge vs. ruffed grouse. This is getting off topic, but as long as I live, I'll never know what John Lennon saw in Yoko Ono.Anthony22 (talk) 03:02, 12 December 2017 (UTC)

'Mistress' implies secrecy and deception. This applies your examples of politicians, but not to Pang.
Your views on the tabloids appear naive, at least from a British perspective. It is often only the threat of legal action that restrains them, and Pang may not have the resources to prosecute. I will revert Verbcatcher (talk) 04:21, 12 December 2017 (UTC)
Lennon and Ono were living apart. His relationship with Pang was public. He was not "with" Pang when he was with Ono. Hotcop2 (talk) 01:02, 14 December 2017 (UTC)
Roger Friedman has a background, as can be seen by an easy google search, that makes him to my mind a very questionable source. 2603:7000:2143:8500:94D2:447:CF44:F53 (talk) 00:42, 17 February 2021 (UTC)

Mistress - As per Misplaced Pages, Mistress is a term for a woman who is in a sexual and romantic relationship with a man who is married to a different woman. As Lennon and Ono remained married, the definition stands. Lennon and Ono called each other several times a day and remained in close contact throughout the period. Ono remained Lennon's wife and manager and Pang remained Lennon's assistant and mistress. Awesomasaurus (talk) 15:53, 18 June 2022 (UTC)

The affair was very on-off and not exclusive - Lennon was very sexually active. He would overnight with other women at hotels or at their apartments. He frequently split up with Pang, notably for three weeks in November/December 1973 and for over a month in April/May 1974. The affair was non-exclusive as Lennon also slept with multiple other women during this period including his wife. Awesomasaurus (talk) 15:53, 18 June 2022 (UTC)

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