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some thoughts

I thought I'd kick off the talk page, because I'm not really quite sure how best to respond yet - I think I probably need to start work on a short statement outlining my thoughts and understandings so folk can see if they're a good basis for moving forward - there's some stuff I think I need to clarify, and I'm also concerned at FUD creeping in (along with the dreaded passive voice) in places, but don't really want to fall into a rebuttal / escalation trap, which would seem to be a bad thing. cheers, Privatemusings (talk) 01:12, 8 November 2008 (UTC)

PM - I think you are overall a good editor, and most of the people in this RFC/U seem to respect that you have made an effort to be a good editor. No one wants to discourage you from participating in wikipedia, because everyone has seen evidence that you are a capable contributor. The concern is that you seem to have a record to latching on to divisive issues that take you away from doing good, and come close to doing harm. I am a novice wikipedian myself, but I look at your edit count, and the fact that you have improved articles to GA class - something I have never done, personally - with a lot of admiration. However, I look at your involvement in, for example, the Steve Crossin unblock and I say to myself, "I would never want to be involved with that." It's one thing to stand up for an unpopular point of view, but that whole thing just seems to be completely unproductive. I think the people who started this RFC/U want to try and make a point about how you should focus your wikipedia attention, and from reading, I think they have a good point. I hope that everything works out for the best. Non Curat Lex (talk) 08:27, 8 November 2008 (UTC)

Comment on Durova's view

Was going to endorse, but I have several caveats that left me undecided.

My main caveat is that simply authoring a good article should not be enough to put someone in good standing. It should be the entire history of their participation here that determines someone's standing, with changes in attitude along the way (i.e. explicitly acknowledging previous conduct and repudiating it if needed) that reduces the impact previous behaviour can have on current standing.

Also, I don't fully endorse the "article" verus "Misplaced Pages" namespace metric. It is possible (through experience gained with an undisclosed account, for example, or work on another project) to purely or mainly participate in a 'project' space and make good, valid and helpful points. When 'project' space contributions are considered unhelpful, they should be criticised on their own failings, not weighed against article space contributions. Having said that, I have a very low bar for what constitutes 'unhelpful' project space contributions - it is important not to stifle criticism. Others may have a higher bar for what they consider 'disruptive' or 'stirring the pot'.

I think one thing that is missed here is experience in 'project' space. It is quite possible for a dedicated 'article' content contributor to wade into 'project' (or indeed 'article talk') space all guns blazing and disrupt things through lack of experience (or diplomacy) there. It is also possible for someone with little article contributions to lurk and contribute extensively in 'project' space and have a better handle on how things work and what the history is of certain long-running and contentious debates. So regardless of the specific case here (and I do think Privatemusings does need to reconsider the judgments and decisions he personally makes to get involved in certain areas), I don't think generalising metrics like this is helpful.

A more general comment: did the mentors consider discussing in detail (or discuss in detail) with Privatemusings what would be good, non-drama-inducing, contributions to the 'Misplaced Pages' namespace, rather than trying to focus his attention on content? A good starting point would be the WP:NTWW contributions. Why not build on that, instead of trying to refocus him on content editing that he may not have much interest in? There are also plenty of other areas of the 'Misplaced Pages' namespace that Privatemusings could contribute in without 'stirring the pot' on touchy issues. Also, mentoring is good, and I'm sure the mentors in this case did not intend to 'mould' Privatemusings in their own image, but in some cases of mentoring it feels that way. The best mentoring allows people to develop in their own way. Is there any page on Misplaced Pages documenting hihg-profile mentoring cases and what methods have worked best?

Looking forward, it is unclear now exactly what Privatemusings has to do to regain good standing (previously he had an open-ended path provided by ArbCom, and then a clearer path mapped out by a set of mentors). Monthly reviews are good, but at some point there has to be a way to have the record wiped clean and for Privatemusings to fully participate, otherwise he will be forever a second-class citizen. The same "stigma" effect has been observed in other editors who get off to a poor start, or get caught up in some controversy that everyone remembers. If people see that it is virtually impossible to remove the stain of such stigmas (i.e. people will always bring up Privatemusings' past history) then that will not encourage people to reform, but instead they will bridle under semi-permanent (almost impossible to lift) restrictions until they get banned. Equally, some past actions are so serious that they will be part of a 'permanent' record. It is a delicate balancing act. I know the mentors have resigned, but would they consider setting out new goals for Privatemusings so that he is not left completely without guidance? Carcharoth (talk) 11:22, 8 November 2008 (UTC)

These are very good and thoughtful comments. You have a point--it is possible to write good articles without becoming a model Wikipedian. That approach isn't guaranteed to work; none is. Yet most of the time it does succeed and this instance was one of the clearest candidates. It puts a new perspective on vandalism, POV-pushing, and disruption to deal with those problems on an article one has built up from nothing. The mentors were three very experienced Wikipedians who touched bases frequently, reported to the Committee, remained open to new ideas, and finally resigned with a comment that if stones remained unturned none of us knew what they were.

There's an important distinction to be made between remaining open to alternative viewpoints that are arguably valid, and recognizing when empirical evidence proves a hypothesis wrong. Privatemusings has yet to acknowledge that his attempts to help CS, Moulton, and Steve Crossin left them worse off then he found them. See also the talk page to 'threats of violence' and this where Privatemusings continues to insist that he has consensus to raise the page to policy, despite all signs to the contrary--discussions have been either split or leaning the other way and the problem that page was intended to resolve actually worsened during the time when it was nominally active (see WP:BEANS).

The question is not so much whether the mentors or the Committee have been open to alternative viewpoints, but how open Privatemusings is to viewpoints other than his own. PM's reply to MBisanz's opening request has been along the lines of If you don't like what you see, don't look, which would be a perfectly fine thing for a woman at a French seashore to tell a prudish American; less acceptable from a fellow who's actively snatching away an unwilling man's loincloth.

As mentors we found Privatemusings sought and accepted advice only on trivial matters. On substantive issues he responded on a very high social register and then continued unchanged on his own chosen path. Afterward, reviewing his statements, we found that he hadn't actually contradicted himself--just used such mild terms that it was easy to suppose we had reached clear agreement until his actions later demonstrated otherwise. He did not recognize the scope of the problems we articulated; he did not acknowledge that his actions had caused actual harm; he was unmoved by our concerns that he was on a trajectory which may ultimately end in a longer repeat of his previous siteban. The mentors exerted tremendous effort to be clear and reasonable and responsive. Ultimately, we resigned for two reasons: the attempt to mentor was draining too much of our energies away from productive endeavors, and real mentorship was not occurring--without active and functional engagement on both sides mentorship is impossible. Durova 18:58, 8 November 2008 (UTC)

To follow up on one point, I guess what I was actually asking was whether the attempt by the mentors to help has left Privatemusings worse off than before the mentors tried to mentor him? Which is why I asked if the ex-mentors could suggest a way forward. I don't think the "don't get involved with the Steve Crossin situation" aim of this RfC even begins to address the wider issues. Even if you accept that the CS, Moulton and Steve Crossin situations were worsened by the involvement of Privatemusings, that puts CS and Moulton and Steve Crossin in the position of victim with respect to Privatemusings. With respect, I don't think that is the right attitude to take - those judging the situation should be able to assess Privatemusing's comments on their own, without public commentary from mentors (that's not the role of a mentor, or even ex-mentor - some mentors, I would hazard a guess, would disengage and not reveal things that might have been said in confidence). And there are plenty of situations where people right here commenting on this page and the RfC have got involved in and worsened situations (many more people than just Privatemusings were involved in the TOV situation, and I echo LHvU's comment that it is worrying that the scope of things is widening here, even though I said above that someone's whole history should be taken into account). If I may say so, I'm also uncomfortable with the finish to your comment, with the link to a Frost poem. Analogies and comparisons only go so far. There comes a point when direct, clear language works better than literary references, but that's your style and your choice. Carcharoth (talk) 19:38, 8 November 2008 (UTC)

• I can only echo Carcharoth's concern over the focus of this RfC, and as I also said here; I skimmed through the statement and intended purpose of the RfC and, even more so and to my detriment, PM's response and on the conclusions I came to made my initial endorsement. I find it ironic that this RfC appears to have been conflated to include aspects of PM's conduct that were not part of the "agreed" area of concern, which is more or less the concerns that this RfC has now been directed when such activity is from PM. This is not to say that, upon review of Lar's comments and the particulars provided by Durova, there are not matters which appear need to be dealt with, but perhaps this RfC needs to be closed and a new one submitted or the statement and purpose be necessarily amended to include all of the relevant concerns expressed. It cannot be both. LessHeard vanU (talk) 20:22, 8 November 2008 (UTC)

Catch-22: the RFC opens on a narrow scope, and gets derided on the basis of a narrow scope despite former mentors' discreet agreement that concerns are indeed substantive. So we speak up, you draw us out, and now scold us for responding? Yes, of course we discussed the available options at great length. Shall we describe what those were, or will that be construed in even worse faith than silent capitulation to this series of prejudicial and thinly founded speculations? The real danger here is of creating a chilling effect in which seasoned editors fear to attempt mentoring, and shy away rather than risk minefields of blame if their best efforts do not achieve the desired results. All three of us like Privatemusings; all three of us wanted and still want him to succeed. Everyone's a critic; if you think you can get better results then by all means step forward and try. Durova 20:24, 8 November 2008 (UTC)

If everyone is a critic, might that be an indication that there is something wrong? Nevermind, I understand the thrust of your argument and I have a solution; close this RfC as too narrow in scope and open a new one with a remit to review PM's conduct since the expiry of the 90 day block, with an emphasis on how mentoring may or may not have been successfully applied, and with a stated purpose of having PM redirecting his energies to content creation (outside of topic bans). This way proposers, certifiers, reviewers/commentators will be working from the same page from the very start. Unless there are major objections I will propose this very thing in the next 24 hours. LessHeard vanU (talk) 21:57, 8 November 2008 (UTC)

Before this arguing over mentors and who is prepared to do that sort of thing, goes any further, I suggest some lessons be learnt from this. Does having three mentors work? Should there be a code of conduct for mentors? Is it acceptable for mentors to resign and then comment extensively at and endorse an RfC on the former mentoree? How much influence should a mentor have? I'm not necessarily disagreeing with what people might answer to these questions, but I think the whole process of mentorship needs to be looked at, including the advantages and disadvantages of informal and formal mentorships. In this case, the mentorship arose from a RfArb - two of the mentors explicitly stated here that they had been appointed by ArbCom - whether that was intended to add weight to their comments or make the history clearer, I don't know, but it may have the effect of adding weight to the comments of the mentors. My point is that at times the mentors may have appeared to be acting as proxies for ArbCom (monitoring and reviewing Privatemusings), rather than as mentors. Carcharoth (talk) 21:25, 8 November 2008 (UTC)

I dont want to get into the details of why it didnt work, but this mentorship failed spectacularly. It is a shame as I thought this would be an interesting way for people in Privatemusings situation to escape from under the cloud of arbcom remedies. Everyone hounded the mentors when we reset the clock the first time, and are doing so again now. These unblock requests by privatemusings were in no way discussed during our mentorship ("if only they had been, we wouldnt be here!"), except that we would find out about them at the same time as everyone else did, and we would collectively sigh. Why? The ex-mentors are acutely aware of the blocked/banned subjects which Privatemusings has been playing with, and that is why we are here, trying to put an end to it. I dont particularly want this to go on and on. I do want Privatemusings to stop publicly requesting unblock any time he doesnt understand the situation - especially when the real life identity of these people is linked to the accounts he is advocating for, and he does such a shoddy job of background investigation into the history. First and foremost, here and now, I want him to drop this Steven Crossin matter. Either FloNight is telling the truth, or she is not. If she is telling the truth, then the matter is sufficiently well handled that it should be put to bed. If Steven Crossin would "like to have a formal arb case, essentially to allow him to make a statement, and for others to comment as per our norms in dispute resolution", this would very likely result in a very public stain on a very real living person. If SC and PM cant see that, they are blinded by some other, overpowering, motivation which is very likely to be not healthy. Please do not derail this RFC - let us get this matter addressed before tackling the wider issues. John Vandenberg 23:12, 8 November 2008 (UTC)