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== Factor: education-difference between spouses ==


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I read an abstract once of a study saying women with higher education married to men with lower education than them had higher risk of being abused. Does anyone happen to have the citation of this? (I know the reverse seems to be the case in Bangladesh<ref>http://muse.jhu.edu/journals/demography/v040/40.2koenig.html</ref>, so presumably there's some confounding factor here.)
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Ah, now I found it. Martin (2007)<ref>Elaine K. Martin, Casey T. Taft, Patricia A. Resick, A review of marital rape, Aggression and Violent Behavior, Volume 12, Issue 3, May-June 2007, Pages 329-347, ISSN 1359-1789, DOI: 10.1016/j.avb.2006.10.003.
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, cites Johnson (2003)<ref>Holly Johnson. (2003). The cessation of assaults on wives*. Journal of Comparative Family Studies: Violence Against Women in the Family, 34(1), 75-91. Retrieved February 24, 2009, from Academic Research Library database. (Document ID: 344327771). http://proquest.umi.com/pqdlink?did=344327771&Fmt=7&clientId=32064&RQT=309&VName=PQD</ref> as saying that "women with higher education were at greater risk of being physically and sexually assaulted by their partners", although other studies have also shown that unemployed women are at higher risk of marital rape, not sure how to interpret all this. (Martin 2007 seems to be a very good review.)
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== Violence against children: UN Secretary-General's study (2006) and UNICEF report (2014) ==
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I am placing citations to these sources here in the hope that some editors will find the material useful for working into the article. I haven't had time to go through them myself, but may add material later. In the meantime, I have placed links to the source Web pages in the ] section. —] (]) 03:32, 23 January 2016 (UTC)

*{{cite book |author=Pinheiro, Paulo Sérgio |date=2006 |chapter=Violence against children in the home and family |chapterurl=http://www.unicef.org/violencestudy/3.%20World%20Report%20on%20Violence%20against%20Children.pdf |title=World Report on Violence Against Children |location=Geneva, Switzerland |publisher=United Nations Secretary-General's Study on Violence Against Children |isbn=92-95057-51-1 |url=http://www.unviolencestudy.org/}}
*{{cite report |author=United Nations Children's Fund |title=Hidden in Plain Sight: A statistical analysis of violence against children |date=2014 |publisher=UNICEF |location=New York |isbn=978-92-806-4767-9 |url=http://files.unicef.org/publications/files/Hidden_in_plain_sight_statistical_analysis_EN_3_Sept_2014.pdf}}

:Thank you Coconutporkpie. I think this article is in desperate need of such material. It appears terribly weighted toward couples only (for some unknown reason and which already has its own article page intimate partner violence) rather than the many other dimensions of family violence that this article should be covering.] (]) 22:09, 16 March 2016 (UTC)

::If you want to know why this article focuses so much on couple violence, all you need to do is look at the literature, since the domestic violence literature is mostly about couples and since the term ''domestic violence'' is used interchangeably with the term ''intimate partner violence.'' You've already been told this repeatedly. ] (]) 00:49, 17 March 2016 (UTC)

== Undue weight in lede ==

The lede reads: "'''''In the United States, 35.6% of women and 28.5% of men have experienced some form of domestic violence (including rape, physical violence, or stalking) by an intimate partner in their lifetime.''' Globally, however, a wife or female partner is more commonly the victim of such violence.''"

:Why is the ] singled out this way in the lede? It's giving ] to the US, and it appears to be here to push a POV. The lede should not focus on a specific country. And it is also inappropriate to present this figure, 35.6% of women and 28.5% of men, as unequivocally correct. The estimates of DV vary by study, depending on methodology, definition of DV, etc. ] (]) 03:47, 16 March 2016 (UTC)

::Agreed, and . I didn't like either, since it focuses on the United States and since studies on that aspect vary. ] (]) 19:06, 16 March 2016 (UTC)


== Including numbers of male victimisation ==
:::Your '''deletion''' of these stats from the CDC, that were sitting in the article for 4 months, seems like a POV push to me Flyer22reborn. What is the reasoning here exactly? I know the IP address above, mentions the USA, but the USA is used in isolation in many articles, without challenge? I mean the intimate partner violence article edited heavily by Flyer22reborn is almost entirely USA centered and is filled to the brim, with isolated and cherry picked statistics, and you have no problems with that Flyer22reborn?] (]) 08:35, 19 March 2016 (UTC)


Recently I added statistics from the ] on male victimisation and it was reverted {{diff2|1178485921|here}}, saying that "this is sufficient framing, nor that the statistic is necessarily ]". This was following a reversion {{diff2|1178479642|here}} saying {{talk quote inline|While decently sourced, this edit appears to introduce ] into the article, since the 1-in-3 statistic given for women's victimization in the lead is clearly using a different metric, but a casual reader may conclude that men's and women's victimization are equivalent, which is false. A much more nuanced presentation of this data would thus be required.}} I totally agree with this, which is why I added the clarification that women experience higher severity of violence later on.
== "Domestic violence affects men, women, and children." sentence ==


Personally I believe that the most recent revision was sufficiently framed as it gives the context that women experience violence of higher severity, but I'm happy to help with adding more context. {{Ping|Generalrelative}} could you please explain your reasoning for the most recent revision? I mostly don't understand the ] part as the ] is quite reliable being a government organisation.
Charlotte135 has returned to this article soon after being restricted from it for three months, and immediately focused on text that was previously disputed; in this case, the text is the "Domestic violence affects men, women, and children." sentence. yet again. The text does not belong because it is redundant to the first paragraph. That domestic violence affects men, women, and children is quite clear from that first paragraph. Furthermore, this sentence that Charlotte135 insists on adding is not a good ] since the paragraph focuses on couple violence, not on children at all. ] (]) 00:46, 17 March 2016 (UTC)


I'm wanting to work collaboratively on this rather than the previous talk page edit war, and reminder that ] about removing the "overwhelming" victimisation. —<span style="font-family:Poppins">]</span> ] 23:03, 7 October 2023 (UTC)
:Hi Flyer22. The sentence you deleted recently was not disputed it was agreed on and settled and stayed in the article for months. Gosh, true to form though you immediately and predictably bring up my now well expired issue. Is that necessary? I mean with your extremely long history of '''blocks''' from all articles, not just a single topic and your '''sockpuppetry''' cases involving you and your little brother (who you said was using your account apparently without you knowing) in your mum and dad's house, and you being in tears over it as you told administrators at the time, why would you be slinging mud in a desperate attempt to discredit me?


:'''Note:''' Since I believe this is slipping into a behavioral issue (see the ] warning above), and have not had success engaging with Panamitsu on their talk page, I've brought the matter to ] I'd prefer to let others weigh in on matters of content now if they find it necessary, and let speak for itself. ] (]) 01:07, 8 October 2023 (UTC)
:I knew this would happen though. That's why I tried to get advice from an actual administrator, Diannaa. This discussion '''is here''' and '''my reply''' to administrator Diannaa is here
::You aren't being cooperative here. I'm asking for an explanation on why you think it's ] when it's a perfectly reliable source. I've also asked you why you think including that women experience more severe forms of violence next to it isn't sufficient context. Please ] to my questions. As said, I agree with the first reversion that it creates a false balance, but you aren't cooperating with me to prevent it. —<span style="font-family:Poppins">]</span> ] 01:47, 8 October 2023 (UTC)
:::The ] issue is not a question of reliability of the source, but rather a situation where inclusion gives a disproportionate emphasis to a minor aspect of the topic. What you added and Generalrelative reverted still (even with the qualifier about severity) would have implied a type of symmetry between male abuse of women and female abuse of men, and that's ]. ] (]) 13:44, 8 October 2023 (UTC)
::::@NightHeron So do you think that it's possible to prevent a false balance, or is it unsolvable? —<span style="font-family:Poppins">]</span> ] 21:30, 8 October 2023 (UTC)
:::::I think it's definitely ''possible'' to prevent a false balance. If both studies include men and women, the obvious thing to do would be to give the numbers for both sexes for each study so each comparison is apples-to-apples. If they don't, at least include the full definition each time to avoid ].
:::::The issue with your edit is not using the CDC statistics (which I agree we should include somewhere), it's using the CDC statistics next to different statistics that were gathered using a much narrower definition. ] (]) 23:54, 8 October 2023 (UTC)
::::::I understand now! Thank you very much! I had a hard time understanding and I've finally got it, thank you, it means a lot. —<span style="font-family:Poppins">]</span> ] 00:15, 9 October 2023 (UTC)
:If we're going to cite the CDC numbers, we should go with "About 41% of women and 26% of men" from . ] (] / ]) 15:15, 8 October 2023 (UTC)
::] That's a much better figure —<span style="font-family:Poppins">]</span> ] 21:29, 8 October 2023 (UTC)
::Agreed, and if we need to include this near the other study, we should also include the proportion of men experiencing DV from it as well if we can. (I haven't looked at it in detail yet and don't know if it includes that number.) That way each comparison is apples-to-apples. ] (]) 23:57, 8 October 2023 (UTC)
:::I think it does because it says {{tqi|About 41% of women and 26% of men experienced contact sexual violence, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner and reported an intimate partner violence-related impact during their lifetime.}}
:::It also says that {{tqi|About 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men report having experienced severe physical violence from an intimate partner in their lifetime}} which we can use to take account in differing severities. —<span style="font-family:Poppins, Helvetica, Sans-serif;">]</span> ] 09:53, 30 December 2023 (UTC)
:I've just noticed that the article does mention these numbers, just buried inside the same-sex section.
:{{tqi|This same report states that 26% of gay men, 37% of bisexual men, and 29% of heterosexual men have experienced domestic violence in their lifetime.}} —<span style="font-family:Poppins, Helvetica, Sans-serif;">]</span> ] 22:05, 17 December 2023 (UTC)


== Domestic violence of physical abuse ==
:I realize I am giving as good as I get here and I wish you had just decided to be civil and leave the past in the past. I think policy even talks about that principle somewhere I've read. Why not just discuss your issue in a civil manner instead, like we all should Flyer22reborn? Why do you need to try to discredit other editors? Why bring up their past? How do you like having your very long history of blocks and sockpuppetry thrown in your face every time you try to edit in good faith? And the edit you deleted recently, which had been in the article for months, I reverted today, once. But then you again deleted. Are you not supposed to instead take it to talk first and discuss? I may revert back and discuss instead, if you can be respectful that is. Is that okay with you Flyer22 reeborn?] (]) 01:12, 17 March 2016 (UTC)


Domestic violence is the act ] (]) 02:18, 1 August 2024 (UTC)
::There was nothing agreed upon when it comes to that sentence. And since you've repeatedly mischaracterized me on your talk page, continue to do so, have shown up here engaging in the same disruptive behavior, including with inaccurate and irrelevant comments about my block log (when the fact that it is inaccurate and irrelevant commentary has been made thoroughly clear to you before, as seen and ]), it's obvious that you did not learn your lesson when you were banned from this article for three months. It's also obvious that you did not take that ] gave you. You clearly have not headed anything ] told you either. And you've been recently tracking the articles I edit, including the ] article; that is not a coincidence. You could have easily focused on the edit. I did focus on the edit; it's an edit that I disputed in the past on this very talk page, and it ties into the problems I had with you editing this article before you were topic-banned from it. Coming to this article and continuing past disputes soon after your topic ban expired is relevant. Your inaccurate commentary on my block log is not relevant. And to boot, you got it wrong yet again even. There was no "my mum and dad's house." It is my house; you already know that. My brother used my account once, and I was blocked for that by ] to protect my account. Really, how many administrators do you need to talk to before you get commentary on my block log right? Must you talk to Boing! said Zebedee, ], ]? Or do you simply want to keep commenting on it wrongly so that you have some imaginary dirt to throw my way, to try to make me look as bad as, or worse than, you? Whatever the case, you do not heed warnings well, that much is clear. And I will deal with all of this in due time. ] (]) 01:40, 17 March 2016 (UTC)


== More information needed for different forms of domestic violence based on relationships between perpetrators and the victim ==
:::Flyer 22 you deleted this comment of mine? What's going on please? Even if you are angry and keep making this personal with me, for no reason, when I keep trying to work things out with you, why do you believe you can delete my comments please? and then accuse me of doing so? What a dirty trick to try and discredit me? You should know better. Anyway I will restore my comment you just deleted in anger.] (]) 02:07, 17 March 2016 (UTC)


Apart from child abuse committed by parents, there is little information about domestic violence in family relationships other than intimate/spousal relationships (e.g. ], ] by family members, etc). For example, honorary killings and dowry-related violence in South Asia are well-known examples of domestic violence committed as collective acts by the extended family, but these two topics are only briefly mentioned in the whole article and no more description of the relationship between perpetrators and the victim exists. There is a separate article for intimate partner violence. What is the purpose of this article if we don't add information about domestic violence under these settings?
:::I won't revert your deletion of this statement from the article you made and breached the ] cycle guideline, and you instead inviting/encouraging an edit war. I will instead immediately take this matter to dispute resolution, rather than get entrapped in an edit war with you. I do invite you though, before I do so, to revert yourself and us try to work this out here on the talk page?] (]) 01:44, 17 March 2016 (UTC)


Another problem is all examples I mentioned here (sibling abuse, elderly abuse at home, collective domestic abuse acts) are extensively researched with relatively high awareness in the public, yet they cannot make it to this article. Instead, a very controversial concept of minors abusing parents (the article for that one still has a "lack of secondary sources" tag six years after it was added) is here. I suspect that there is a Eurocentric bias here as well, as only abuse within the nuclear family and romantic & sexual relationships matter?
::::Notice that, with , I was reverting your deletion of my comment. I do not care that your deletion was accidental, if it was, and I did not care to restore your comment in the process. ] (]) 02:16, 17 March 2016 (UTC)


The part about minors abusing parents in this article also has its own problems with citations. The first citation that defines the term is under ''adoption and permanent placement'' settings, yet the text does not say anything about that. The last citation is about the effects of child abuse by parents on children. I understand that whoever added that wants to say that being a child abuse victim is a risk factor for violent behaviour during adolescence, but isn't a source more relevant to the topic better? Also, all but that irrelevant citation use sources from the UK, so we have a UK-centric bias now, not just a Eurocentric view. ] (]) 05:05, 11 August 2024 (UTC)
:::::Hi Flyer22. After looking at the editing, my edit must have been added the same time as your last one. That's all I can think happened. That means it was not just accidental but '''completely innocent'''. However your deletion of my text, 10 minutes after, seemed quite obviously to anyone, malicious, and your comment "I do not care that your deletion was accidental, if it was, and I did not care to restore your comment in the process." seems both angry and disregarding of the community standards? Can you apologize to me please.] (]) 02:23, 17 March 2016 (UTC)


== Partner Abuse State of Knowledge data about gendered violence ==
::::::Hi again Flyer22. Is '''this''' what you were referring to above, when you distorted what ] actually told me? You see, I asked Mark as well. Was it the bit about he was not sure how other editors (you) may treat me? Here was his comments on my talk page anyway, given you chose not to include the truth. I'm wondering what both Mark and Diannaa, or any administrator, would think about you '''maliciously deleting''' my comments here in anger? As I said, would you consider apologizing, first? ] (]) 02:54, 17 March 2016‎ (UTC)


I think it would be an improvement to the "Gender differences" section to add the data provided by the Partner Abuse State of Knowledge, I added at the end of the paragraph
:Flyer 22. this is ridiculous. This is a public space, correct? Redundancy is a opinion. I don't understand this either. DV does affect men, women and children. this can be stated more than once. it is to emphasize the reach. --] (]) 06:35, 17 March 2016 (UTC)
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From 2010 to 2012, scholars of domestic violence from the U.S., Canada and the U.K. assembled The Partner Abuse State of Knowledge, a research database covering 1700 peer-reviewed studies, the largest of its kind. One of their findings is that 57.9% of IPV reported was bi-directional, 13.8% was unidirectional male to female and 28.3% was unidirectional female to male.<ref> {{Webarchive|url=https://web.archive.org/web/20150419110147/http://www.springerpub.com/media/springer-journals/FindingsAt-a-Glance.pdf|date=April 19, 2015}}, Sponsored by the Journal Partner Abuse, John Hamel, LCSW, Editor-in-Chief, www.springerpub.com/pa, November 2012</ref>
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My edit got reverted with the reason "''misleading way of presenting the study, since it doesn't address different degrees of violence between genders; it would be more informative, for example, to know the percent breakdown of men vs women murdered by their spouse/partner''", I don't see how is this related to the topic and why this should be a valid reason to revert the edit instead of integrating it. ] (]) 14:16, 8 October 2024 (UTC)
:The reason why the wording of your edit is very misleading is that it suggests an equivalence between women-on-men violence and men-on-women violence (or even that there's more of the former), whereas in reality the men-on-women violent incidents tend to be much more serious. ] (]) 14:28, 8 October 2024 (UTC)
::The goal of the research was precisely to dismantle the false belief that domestic violence perpetrated by men is a more serious issue than that perpetrated by women. If you have data that can complement what the Partner Abuse State of Knowledge says to make it more clear we can integrate them into my edit. If you think the data I cited is false or misleading I ask you to explain why citing the sources. ] (]) 14:50, 8 October 2024 (UTC)
:::From the US National Institutes of Health


:::"According to the CDC, 1 in 4 women and 1 in 7 men will experience physical violence by their intimate partner at some point during their lifetimes. About 1 in 3 women and nearly 1 in 6 men experience some form of sexual violence during their lifetimes. Intimate partner violence, sexual violence, and stalking are high, with intimate partner violence occurring in over 10 million people each year.
::Redundancy is not an opinion. The sentence is not needed in the least. If you want to go to ] over it, be my guest. For example, I don't mind wasting editors' time at all by starting a ] on this trivial matter. ] (]) 06:44, 17 March 2016 (UTC)


:::"One in 6 women and 1 in 19 men have experienced stalking during their lifetimes. The majority are stalked by someone they know. An intimate partner stalks about 6 in 10 female victims and 4 in 10 male victims.
:you see it redundant, i don't. i think that is perception. I may be corrected, i assume you will attempt to belittle my trivial matter. This website cannot even be utilized for any real academic works. marinate in that ok. public space. not real source of information. ] (]) 05:56, 18 March 2016 (UTC)


:::"At least 5 million acts of domestic violence occur annually to women aged 18 years and older, with over 3 million involving men. While most events are minor, for example grabbing, shoving, pushing, slapping, and hitting, serious and sometimes fatal injuries do occur. Approximately 1.5 million intimate partner female rapes and physical assaults are perpetrated annually, and approximately 800,000 male assaults occur. About 1 in 5 women have experienced completed or attempted rape at some point in their lives. About 1% to 2% of men have experienced completed or attempted rape."
::You stated, "DV does affect men, women and children. this can be stated more than once." Seems like you were arguing for redundancy to me. Stating essentially the same thing twice, or more than twice, in the lead is not how good Misplaced Pages articles are written. It is easy to see from the very first paragraph that domestic violence affects men, women, and children since the very first paragraph talks about domestic violence affecting heterosexual and same-sex couples, and children. No need to state it again. ] (]) 06:21, 18 March 2016 (UTC)


:::Note that it's not clear (especially in the case of the 1 in 6 and 1% to 2% statistics) how many of the male victims were victimized by other men rather than women. ] (]) 16:11, 8 October 2024 (UTC)
:::I totally agree with Shy1alize, Flyer22reborn. And I find your response toward Shy1alize quite rude and demeaning. It seems our views outweigh your revert. Please also discuss here and show some respect for the ] cycle guideline. You '''boldly deleted''' that sentence recently and the sentence had remained in the article for a long while. I then '''reverted your bold edit''' once. You should have then discussed here, rather than provoke a potential edit war, by then '''again reverting''' the edit. You know better, as you say to everyone, very often that you hold much experience here on Misplaced Pages. You are also going against two other editors opinion on this one so please respect consensus. Further the word "affect" in that sentence is not mentioned in the first paragraph nor is therefore the intent of that sentence. Let me explain. Some synonyms for the word affect are: upset, troubled, overwhelmed, devastated, damaged, hurt, pained, grieve, sadness, distress etc. So, no it is not redundant as the first paragraph does not discuss the fact that men, women and children are "affected" by domestic violence.] (]) 07:14, 19 March 2016 (UTC)
::::Thank you for bringing the NIH data into the discussion. After reviewing the statistics I initially shared, I now realize that they may not align with the broader, well-established data from authoritative sources like the NIH. For example, the NIH data provides essential insights into the prevalence of intimate partner violence (IPV), such as the fact that 1 in 4 women and 1 in 7 men experience physical violence by an intimate partner at some point in their lives. These figures present a more significant gender disparity in victimization rates than the statistics I had previously cited.
::::However, I believe there's still an important aspect of IPV that is underrepresented in the NIH data: the directionality of violence. The research I referenced from the Partner Abuse State of Knowledge project, while potentially flawed in some respects, highlights a key finding that 57.9% of IPV is bidirectional—meaning both partners engage in violence. This is a critical dimension of domestic violence that is often overlooked and might be valuable to include in the Misplaced Pages page for a more comprehensive view of IPV dynamics.
::::Acknowledging bidirectional violence can contribute to a more balanced understanding of domestic violence and inform the development of more targeted interventions. While I fully agree that any changes to the Misplaced Pages page should be based on the most reliable and widely accepted data, I think it would also be worth exploring whether reputable sources offer data on this particular aspect, as it could enrich the overall discussion of intimate partner violence on the page. ] (]) 17:25, 8 October 2024 (UTC)
:::::Upon further consideration, I realized that both sets of data can indeed be accurate, as they address different aspects of intimate partner violence (IPV). The NIH data provides statistics on the overall ''prevalence'' of IPV, showing how many men and women experience violence from an intimate partner over their lifetime—1 in 4 women and 1 in 7 men, for example. This looks at how widespread IPV is within the population.
:::::The data from the Partner Abuse State of Knowledge project, on the other hand, examines the ''directionality'' of IPV—whether the violence is bidirectional (both partners engaging in violence) or unidirectional (one partner as the sole perpetrator). According to their findings, 57.9% of IPV cases are bidirectional, while the remaining 42.1% is unidirectional.
:::::Mathematically, these two sets of data don't contradict each other because they are looking at different dimensions of the same issue. The NIH data is about ''how many people'' experience IPV, while the Partner Abuse data focuses on ''how often'' the violence is mutual within relationships where violence occurs. For instance, it's possible that the higher rates of IPV victimization among women reflect not only cases where women are the sole victims but also many of the bidirectional cases. Similarly, the lower rates for men may reflect fewer cases of sole victimization but could still include men in relationships where both partners are violent.
:::::In other words, the NIH data and the Partner Abuse findings are not mutually exclusive. The prevalence data describes who experiences violence, while the directionality data provides insights into the nature of that violence within relationships. Together, these data sets offer a more complete understanding of IPV, both in terms of its reach and its dynamics. ] (]) 07:51, 9 October 2024 (UTC)
::::::This seems to be ], that is, a lot of speculative theorizing by an editor based on an unreliable source, and that cannot substitute for finding a reliable source that directly addresses the issues you're raising. ] (]) 11:50, 9 October 2024 (UTC)
:::::::No. It is not WP:SYNTH. You have provided no proof that the source is unreliable. You however do provide a claim which is difficult to prove ''reliably'' i.e. the effects between male and female violence, due to men being less likely to report crimes against them, and the existence of external weapons: broken bottles, knives, poison, ... ] (]) 19:55, 19 October 2024 (UTC)
:::'Partner Abuse State of Knowledge' is a paper by John Hamel, sponsored by and published in a journal with a low impact factor (0.6) which is edited by John Hamel, and according to the citation databases I've checked, the vast majority of the few papers citing it are written by John Hamel. Are we sure this is ] in the first place? ] (]) 16:31, 8 October 2024 (UTC)
I again reverted the IP's edit, where their edit summary wrongly claimed that a consensus had been reached to add it. A really important issue is degree of violence. Did the studies deal with vastly different levels of "violence"? In a society that regards slapping the face of someone who insults one's wife as a serious case of violent assault (]), resulting in banning a famous actor from the Academy Awards for 10 years, we really have to distinguish between slap-on-the-face level violence and violence resulting in major injury or death. For example, it would be useful to have a gender breakdown of domestic murders. ] (]) 17:21, 23 October 2024 (UTC)


:I am not Fab1can. While murder is certainly one aspect, there are plenty others like poisoning. Each of which would "favour" one party more than another. Having a simple unbiased "frequency" seems most apt. Don't you agree? ] (]) 19:22, 24 October 2024 (UTC)
::::It's redundant. Your "affects" argument makes no sense. And WP:BRD is an essay, not a guideline. If you really want me to start a WP:RfC on this issue, I certainly will. I will start a WP:RfC on something each time I disagree with you on a matter if need be. ] is not a vote; WP:Consensus is about the weight of the arguments. And rarely does two against one equate to consensus on Misplaced Pages. Furthermore, I'm certain that ] agrees with me that the sentence in question should not be included. And, for the record: I couldn't care less what you think about my behavior, especially since you mischaracterize it all the time, as is clear by my initial reply to you above, and by Boing! said Zebedee's comment below. ] (]) 07:42, 19 March 2016 (UTC)


::No, because it equates a slap on the face with a bullet from a gun. ] (]) 00:57, 25 October 2024 (UTC)
::::: Stop bullying your edits out of the article. You and Gandydancer are very close affiliates on Misplaced Pages. Everyone knows this fact. The two of you always back each other up, without fail. Your opinions count as one opinion Flyer22reborn. You know that, especially given your experience and how you are "not a newbie" line you keep jamming down other editors throats. Whereas I don't know Shy1alize but agree with their logic. You're outnumbered and both mine and Shy1alize's logic are sound despite your opinion. Do whatever you want. But stop edit warring and respect other editors and respect WP:BRD.] (]) 07:49, 19 March 2016 (UTC)
:::So, you're against the very idea of crime rates:
:::https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/crime-rate-by-country
:::No one states that they are equal, ever. People know this. ] (]) 09:05, 26 October 2024 (UTC)
:::Are you going to mark https://en.wikipedia.org/List_of_United_States_cities_by_crime_rate for deletion for being stupid according to you? Because others find it handy and useful. ] (]) 09:06, 26 October 2024 (UTC)


::::All I'm saying is something very simple. Suppose, hypothetically, that the HOA of an apartment complex reported that "this month we had a very high incidence of domestic violence: 2 reports of men-on-women DV and 4 reports of women-on-men DV," to which people reacted with surprise that the women were twice as violent as the men. Suppose also that in the 4 women-on-men incidents she insulted him and slapped his face, and he was so angry at her that he reported it to the police as an assault; and suppose that the 2 men-on-women incidents were murders. Wouldn't you agree that people had been badly misled by the statistics? ] (]) 09:59, 26 October 2024 (UTC)
::::::There you again with the silliness: "Stop bullying." More silliness is you stating "The two of you always back each other up, without fail. Your opinions count as one opinion Flyer22rebon." And these two aspects are yet more reasons for why that sentence will not be staying. You do not grasp how Misplaced Pages is supposed to work. You never do. ] (]) 07:53, 19 March 2016 (UTC)
:::::> Wouldn't you agree that people had been badly misled by the statistics?
:::::We should add a warning/clarification, because I know and agree with you that some fraction of people people will misinterpret it. Would you agree then? ] (]) 16:46, 26 October 2024 (UTC)
::::::I'm sorry, no. The point is that the statistic is meaningless unless you know how either figure splits among different levels of violence, ranging from a slap on the face to murder, with many possibilities in between. There's no reason to think that the proportions will be the same in men-on-women violance as in women-on-men violence. If we have to put in an explanation to the readers of why the statistic is meaningless, then why have it (see )? ] (]) 17:24, 26 October 2024 (UTC)
:::::::> If we have to put in an explanation to the readers of why the statistic is meaningless
:::::::No! It is very far from meaningless! It might be meaningless to you, but not to others. The issue you have is that the source does not give you enough information, but more detailed sources exist. ] (]) 17:29, 26 October 2024 (UTC)
:::::::Are you going to say something or are you going to block this forever? ] (]) 17:25, 8 November 2024 (UTC)
::::::::Good - you say "{{tq|but more detailed sources exist}}". As I already said, a reliable source that gave detailed stats about partner violence disaggregated according to level of violence would be meaningful, because it could not be so easily misunderstood and misused. If you've found such sources, we could resolve this issue. ] (]) 09:05, 9 November 2024 (UTC)
:::::::::An objective "level of violence" does not exist afaik.e.g. how much more violent is a punch compared to a kick? Multiple people believe that an aggregated summary is beneficial to their understanding.
:::::::::If you want to we can add the FBI numbers next to it because they are extraordinarily contradictory IF you ignore reporting bias and sexism.
:::::::::If I quote the source about which we're talking:
:::::::::"Data gather from a variety of other sources stand in stark contradiction to this assertion; lead some to argue that crime surveys because of their context are likely to significantly underestimate the overal rate of domestic violence assault while excessively minimizing the rates of assaults that are perpetrated by women compared to men."
:::::::::Thus the type of source you wish for can sadly not be accurately used for disaggregation. ] (]) 19:29, 27 November 2024 (UTC)


== Changing the lead image ==
:::::::Stop it and let it go. You are wrong. Go and read policies on canvassing too. What I guarantee very soon though and as sure as the sun rises of a morn, is that your close affiliate Gandydancer, will come flying in soon after you have contacted them over this, and revert the edit, for you so you don't breach the revert rule. Without fail. Just watch. And this Flyer22reborn. will ultimately illustrate my point.] (]) 07:58, 19 March 2016 (UTC)


It seems to me that we should change the lead image, as a purple ribbon doesn't actually convey any information about the subject matter, explicitly or otherwise.
::::::::The sentence will be removed, per my arguments, and you will have to accept it. There was no ] violation; this is yet another guideline you have misinterpreted. ] (]) 08:00, 19 March 2016 (UTC)


It's a symbol, rather than a representation. A Misplaced Pages reader is accessing articles to learn about the subject matter. The image should tell them something about the subject matter. ] introduces the concept of lead images as follows: "It is common for an article's lead or infobox to carry a representative image—such as of a person or place, a book or album cover—to give readers visual confirmation that they've arrived at the right page." This is not a representative image and does not give readers visual confirmation that they've arrived at the right page.
Yes, I know. I just said your close affiliate with identical opinions and ordered by you, will come in soon, and delete it, like clock work, after you contact them outside of Misplaced Pages. Like clock work I say, and without even thinking, or considering the solid arguments put forth here on talk. My point Flyer22reborn, is that my argument and Shy1alize's separate argument both make a lot of sense. And we are are '''actually independent editors''' with separate minds of our own, and separate opinions I'm sure. That's the difference.] (]) 08:13, 19 March 2016 (UTC)


It's just an image of a ribbon that some people have decided to adopt as a symbol of solidarity for domestic abuse victims, though at least as many have used it to stand with the victims of pancreatic cancer, and still more have used to raise awareness of Alzheimer's. The article for ] lists eleven causes this shade of purple is used to raise awareness of, and another seven that use various other shades of purple. As such, I don't think it is a "natural and appropriate representation of the topic," and it does not "illustrate the topic specifically", which is the core requirement in ].
*Just for the record, I want to confirm that Flyer 22's block log is the result of a genuine "My brother did it" episode. I communicated with Flyer by email at the time (as did other admins), and I was convinced that she was not guilty of any abuse herself - and the block that I made was indeed to help her secure her account, as I noted in the log. In fact, none of the blocks is a result of any misbehaviour by Flyer 22. ] (]) 08:55, 17 March 2016 (UTC)


I am also concerned that someone may have made the call that any representation at all could be "triggering" and therefore "harmful" to survivors, and so made the lead image this euphemistic symbol that neither provides any information about the topic nor depicts it, instead signaling a vague "we stand with you." This is an inherently political statement and would violate ], both because the entire notion of harm from triggers is highly controversial and because, as unfortunate as it is, ] is non-negotiable and we should aim to avoid taking such anodyne and near-universal opinions as "domestic violence is bad" and "we should stand with survivors."
:::Charlotte135 has not changed a bit and is using the same tactics as she did that caused her to be blocked. She can wear us all down and get her way to bias this article or she can again be blocked. There are no other choices. ] (]) 15:21, 17 March 2016 (UTC)
::::Hi there Gandydancer. If you keep up the baseless personal attacks, I am going to report you straight to ANI. Period.] (]) 15:52, 17 March 2016 (UTC)


I'm taking such a strong stance here because I'm worried about the precedent it sets. If we start relaxing our editorial standards on issues 99.9% of editors agree with, like domestic violence being bad, what about issues at 95? 80? The second we start curbing Misplaced Pages's core mission of serving as a repository of knowledge to take a stance on a universally-popular issue or to avoid making domestic abuse victims feel bad, we open the door to doing the same to the pages for Palestine or Israel. Everyone is perfectly justified in his own head, so we can't use a subjective standard. And, unfortunately, pedantic and unpopular calls like getting rid of the ribbon are part of that.
== Verbal Violence ==


That the ribbon is an "internationally recognized symbol of solidarity with victims of domestic violence and a call to action to end this violence" is persuasive but not dispositive; in light of all the other issues presented I think the image should be moved down even if this is the case. And, again, a "call to action" runs contrary to ], so, while we can lead with an image constituting one if it provides visual information about the topic, the call to action cannot be coming from us as editors, and I'd be especially concerned if that was part of the case for it.
why is this section so small? Verbal abuse (gas lighting) is what causes learned helplessness, battered woman syndrome, and Stockholm syndrome. Did any one cut this section out. no i did not look in the history. but i feel that these phenomenon is a essential component to the pattern of violence. --] (]) 06:38, 17 March 2016 (UTC)


Again, this is an absurd, overpunctilious, legalistic point that's predicated on notions of objectivity rather than anything about the subject matter itself. (Domestic violence IS bad.) But I do think we should move the ribbon into the body, and replace it with a representation, but nothing too graphic or evocative as per ].
:I totally agree Shy1alize. I believe that it needs to be expanded too, as there is certainly a lot of reliable sources out there to support its inclusion to a larger degree than it currently is. There seems to be too much focus and weight being placed on physical violence and violence between partners in this broad article on family violence.] (]) 10:05, 17 March 2016 (UTC)
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Including numbers of male victimisation

Recently I added statistics from the CDC on male victimisation and it was reverted here, saying that "this is sufficient framing, nor that the statistic is necessarily WP:DUE". This was following a reversion here saying While decently sourced, this edit appears to introduce WP:FALSEBALANCE into the article, since the 1-in-3 statistic given for women's victimization in the lead is clearly using a different metric, but a casual reader may conclude that men's and women's victimization are equivalent, which is false. A much more nuanced presentation of this data would thus be required. I totally agree with this, which is why I added the clarification that women experience higher severity of violence later on.

Personally I believe that the most recent revision was sufficiently framed as it gives the context that women experience violence of higher severity, but I'm happy to help with adding more context. @Generalrelative: could you please explain your reasoning for the most recent revision? I mostly don't understand the WP:UNDUE part as the CDC is quite reliable being a government organisation.

I'm wanting to work collaboratively on this rather than the previous talk page edit war, and reminder that I have changed my mind about removing the "overwhelming" victimisation. —Panamitsu (talk) 23:03, 7 October 2023 (UTC)

Note: Since I believe this is slipping into a behavioral issue (see the WP:ARBGENDER warning above), and have not had success engaging with Panamitsu on their talk page, I've brought the matter to the fringe theories noticeboard. I'd prefer to let others weigh in on matters of content now if they find it necessary, and let my original edit summary speak for itself. Generalrelative (talk) 01:07, 8 October 2023 (UTC)
You aren't being cooperative here. I'm asking for an explanation on why you think it's WP:UNDUE when it's a perfectly reliable source. I've also asked you why you think including that women experience more severe forms of violence next to it isn't sufficient context. Please listen to my questions. As said, I agree with the first reversion that it creates a false balance, but you aren't cooperating with me to prevent it. —Panamitsu (talk) 01:47, 8 October 2023 (UTC)
The undue issue is not a question of reliability of the source, but rather a situation where inclusion gives a disproportionate emphasis to a minor aspect of the topic. What you added and Generalrelative reverted still (even with the qualifier about severity) would have implied a type of symmetry between male abuse of women and female abuse of men, and that's false balance. NightHeron (talk) 13:44, 8 October 2023 (UTC)
@NightHeron So do you think that it's possible to prevent a false balance, or is it unsolvable? —Panamitsu (talk) 21:30, 8 October 2023 (UTC)
I think it's definitely possible to prevent a false balance. If both studies include men and women, the obvious thing to do would be to give the numbers for both sexes for each study so each comparison is apples-to-apples. If they don't, at least include the full definition each time to avoid WP:SYNTH.
The issue with your edit is not using the CDC statistics (which I agree we should include somewhere), it's using the CDC statistics next to different statistics that were gathered using a much narrower definition. Loki (talk) 23:54, 8 October 2023 (UTC)
I understand now! Thank you very much! I had a hard time understanding and I've finally got it, thank you, it means a lot. —Panamitsu (talk) 00:15, 9 October 2023 (UTC)
If we're going to cite the CDC numbers, we should go with "About 41% of women and 26% of men" from here. Firefangledfeathers (talk / contribs) 15:15, 8 October 2023 (UTC)
@Firefangledfeathers That's a much better figure —Panamitsu (talk) 21:29, 8 October 2023 (UTC)
Agreed, and if we need to include this near the other study, we should also include the proportion of men experiencing DV from it as well if we can. (I haven't looked at it in detail yet and don't know if it includes that number.) That way each comparison is apples-to-apples. Loki (talk) 23:57, 8 October 2023 (UTC)
I think it does because it says About 41% of women and 26% of men experienced contact sexual violence, physical violence, and/or stalking by an intimate partner and reported an intimate partner violence-related impact during their lifetime.
It also says that About 1 in 3 women and 1 in 4 men report having experienced severe physical violence from an intimate partner in their lifetime which we can use to take account in differing severities. —Panamitsu (talk) 09:53, 30 December 2023 (UTC)
I've just noticed that the article does mention these numbers, just buried inside the same-sex section.
This same report states that 26% of gay men, 37% of bisexual men, and 29% of heterosexual men have experienced domestic violence in their lifetime.Panamitsu (talk) 22:05, 17 December 2023 (UTC)

Domestic violence of physical abuse

Domestic violence is the act 14.1.89.58 (talk) 02:18, 1 August 2024 (UTC)

More information needed for different forms of domestic violence based on relationships between perpetrators and the victim

Apart from child abuse committed by parents, there is little information about domestic violence in family relationships other than intimate/spousal relationships (e.g. sibling abuse, elder abuse by family members, etc). For example, honorary killings and dowry-related violence in South Asia are well-known examples of domestic violence committed as collective acts by the extended family, but these two topics are only briefly mentioned in the whole article and no more description of the relationship between perpetrators and the victim exists. There is a separate article for intimate partner violence. What is the purpose of this article if we don't add information about domestic violence under these settings?

Another problem is all examples I mentioned here (sibling abuse, elderly abuse at home, collective domestic abuse acts) are extensively researched with relatively high awareness in the public, yet they cannot make it to this article. Instead, a very controversial concept of minors abusing parents (the article for that one still has a "lack of secondary sources" tag six years after it was added) is here. I suspect that there is a Eurocentric bias here as well, as only abuse within the nuclear family and romantic & sexual relationships matter?

The part about minors abusing parents in this article also has its own problems with citations. The first citation that defines the term is under adoption and permanent placement settings, yet the text does not say anything about that. The last citation is about the effects of child abuse by parents on children. I understand that whoever added that wants to say that being a child abuse victim is a risk factor for violent behaviour during adolescence, but isn't a source more relevant to the topic better? Also, all but that irrelevant citation use sources from the UK, so we have a UK-centric bias now, not just a Eurocentric view. Kaileeslight (talk) 05:05, 11 August 2024 (UTC)

Partner Abuse State of Knowledge data about gendered violence

I think it would be an improvement to the "Gender differences" section to add the data provided by the Partner Abuse State of Knowledge, I added at the end of the paragraph

From 2010 to 2012, scholars of domestic violence from the U.S., Canada and the U.K. assembled The Partner Abuse State of Knowledge, a research database covering 1700 peer-reviewed studies, the largest of its kind. One of their findings is that 57.9% of IPV reported was bi-directional, 13.8% was unidirectional male to female and 28.3% was unidirectional female to male.

My edit got reverted with the reason "misleading way of presenting the study, since it doesn't address different degrees of violence between genders; it would be more informative, for example, to know the percent breakdown of men vs women murdered by their spouse/partner", I don't see how is this related to the topic and why this should be a valid reason to revert the edit instead of integrating it. Fab1can (talk) 14:16, 8 October 2024 (UTC)

The reason why the wording of your edit is very misleading is that it suggests an equivalence between women-on-men violence and men-on-women violence (or even that there's more of the former), whereas in reality the men-on-women violent incidents tend to be much more serious. NightHeron (talk) 14:28, 8 October 2024 (UTC)
The goal of the research was precisely to dismantle the false belief that domestic violence perpetrated by men is a more serious issue than that perpetrated by women. If you have data that can complement what the Partner Abuse State of Knowledge says to make it more clear we can integrate them into my edit. If you think the data I cited is false or misleading I ask you to explain why citing the sources. Fab1can (talk) 14:50, 8 October 2024 (UTC)
From the US National Institutes of Health
"According to the CDC, 1 in 4 women and 1 in 7 men will experience physical violence by their intimate partner at some point during their lifetimes. About 1 in 3 women and nearly 1 in 6 men experience some form of sexual violence during their lifetimes. Intimate partner violence, sexual violence, and stalking are high, with intimate partner violence occurring in over 10 million people each year.
"One in 6 women and 1 in 19 men have experienced stalking during their lifetimes. The majority are stalked by someone they know. An intimate partner stalks about 6 in 10 female victims and 4 in 10 male victims.
"At least 5 million acts of domestic violence occur annually to women aged 18 years and older, with over 3 million involving men. While most events are minor, for example grabbing, shoving, pushing, slapping, and hitting, serious and sometimes fatal injuries do occur. Approximately 1.5 million intimate partner female rapes and physical assaults are perpetrated annually, and approximately 800,000 male assaults occur. About 1 in 5 women have experienced completed or attempted rape at some point in their lives. About 1% to 2% of men have experienced completed or attempted rape."
Note that it's not clear (especially in the case of the 1 in 6 and 1% to 2% statistics) how many of the male victims were victimized by other men rather than women. NightHeron (talk) 16:11, 8 October 2024 (UTC)
Thank you for bringing the NIH data into the discussion. After reviewing the statistics I initially shared, I now realize that they may not align with the broader, well-established data from authoritative sources like the NIH. For example, the NIH data provides essential insights into the prevalence of intimate partner violence (IPV), such as the fact that 1 in 4 women and 1 in 7 men experience physical violence by an intimate partner at some point in their lives. These figures present a more significant gender disparity in victimization rates than the statistics I had previously cited.
However, I believe there's still an important aspect of IPV that is underrepresented in the NIH data: the directionality of violence. The research I referenced from the Partner Abuse State of Knowledge project, while potentially flawed in some respects, highlights a key finding that 57.9% of IPV is bidirectional—meaning both partners engage in violence. This is a critical dimension of domestic violence that is often overlooked and might be valuable to include in the Misplaced Pages page for a more comprehensive view of IPV dynamics.
Acknowledging bidirectional violence can contribute to a more balanced understanding of domestic violence and inform the development of more targeted interventions. While I fully agree that any changes to the Misplaced Pages page should be based on the most reliable and widely accepted data, I think it would also be worth exploring whether reputable sources offer data on this particular aspect, as it could enrich the overall discussion of intimate partner violence on the page. Fab1can (talk) 17:25, 8 October 2024 (UTC)
Upon further consideration, I realized that both sets of data can indeed be accurate, as they address different aspects of intimate partner violence (IPV). The NIH data provides statistics on the overall prevalence of IPV, showing how many men and women experience violence from an intimate partner over their lifetime—1 in 4 women and 1 in 7 men, for example. This looks at how widespread IPV is within the population.
The data from the Partner Abuse State of Knowledge project, on the other hand, examines the directionality of IPV—whether the violence is bidirectional (both partners engaging in violence) or unidirectional (one partner as the sole perpetrator). According to their findings, 57.9% of IPV cases are bidirectional, while the remaining 42.1% is unidirectional.
Mathematically, these two sets of data don't contradict each other because they are looking at different dimensions of the same issue. The NIH data is about how many people experience IPV, while the Partner Abuse data focuses on how often the violence is mutual within relationships where violence occurs. For instance, it's possible that the higher rates of IPV victimization among women reflect not only cases where women are the sole victims but also many of the bidirectional cases. Similarly, the lower rates for men may reflect fewer cases of sole victimization but could still include men in relationships where both partners are violent.
In other words, the NIH data and the Partner Abuse findings are not mutually exclusive. The prevalence data describes who experiences violence, while the directionality data provides insights into the nature of that violence within relationships. Together, these data sets offer a more complete understanding of IPV, both in terms of its reach and its dynamics. Fab1can (talk) 07:51, 9 October 2024 (UTC)
This seems to be WP:SYNTH, that is, a lot of speculative theorizing by an editor based on an unreliable source, and that cannot substitute for finding a reliable source that directly addresses the issues you're raising. NightHeron (talk) 11:50, 9 October 2024 (UTC)
No. It is not WP:SYNTH. You have provided no proof that the source is unreliable. You however do provide a claim which is difficult to prove reliably i.e. the effects between male and female violence, due to men being less likely to report crimes against them, and the existence of external weapons: broken bottles, knives, poison, ... 2A02:A03F:852E:2F01:5C93:31F2:D0F2:F257 (talk) 19:55, 19 October 2024 (UTC)
'Partner Abuse State of Knowledge' is a paper by John Hamel, sponsored by and published in a journal with a low impact factor (0.6) which is edited by John Hamel, and according to the citation databases I've checked, the vast majority of the few papers citing it are written by John Hamel. Are we sure this is WP:DUE in the first place? MrOllie (talk) 16:31, 8 October 2024 (UTC)

I again reverted the IP's edit, where their edit summary wrongly claimed that a consensus had been reached to add it. A really important issue is degree of violence. Did the studies deal with vastly different levels of "violence"? In a society that regards slapping the face of someone who insults one's wife as a serious case of violent assault (Chris Rock–Will Smith slapping incident), resulting in banning a famous actor from the Academy Awards for 10 years, we really have to distinguish between slap-on-the-face level violence and violence resulting in major injury or death. For example, it would be useful to have a gender breakdown of domestic murders. NightHeron (talk) 17:21, 23 October 2024 (UTC)

I am not Fab1can. While murder is certainly one aspect, there are plenty others like poisoning. Each of which would "favour" one party more than another. Having a simple unbiased "frequency" seems most apt. Don't you agree? 2A02:A03F:852E:2F01:B936:B3F:4EDC:3E37 (talk) 19:22, 24 October 2024 (UTC)
No, because it equates a slap on the face with a bullet from a gun. NightHeron (talk) 00:57, 25 October 2024 (UTC)
So, you're against the very idea of crime rates:
https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/crime-rate-by-country
No one states that they are equal, ever. People know this. 2A02:A03F:852E:2F01:E5A3:7E84:4BE5:4CB (talk) 09:05, 26 October 2024 (UTC)
Are you going to mark https://en.wikipedia.org/List_of_United_States_cities_by_crime_rate for deletion for being stupid according to you? Because others find it handy and useful. 2A02:A03F:852E:2F01:E5A3:7E84:4BE5:4CB (talk) 09:06, 26 October 2024 (UTC)
All I'm saying is something very simple. Suppose, hypothetically, that the HOA of an apartment complex reported that "this month we had a very high incidence of domestic violence: 2 reports of men-on-women DV and 4 reports of women-on-men DV," to which people reacted with surprise that the women were twice as violent as the men. Suppose also that in the 4 women-on-men incidents she insulted him and slapped his face, and he was so angry at her that he reported it to the police as an assault; and suppose that the 2 men-on-women incidents were murders. Wouldn't you agree that people had been badly misled by the statistics? NightHeron (talk) 09:59, 26 October 2024 (UTC)
> Wouldn't you agree that people had been badly misled by the statistics?
We should add a warning/clarification, because I know and agree with you that some fraction of people people will misinterpret it. Would you agree then? 2A02:A03F:852E:2F01:CD81:8D36:7967:2116 (talk) 16:46, 26 October 2024 (UTC)
I'm sorry, no. The point is that the statistic is meaningless unless you know how either figure splits among different levels of violence, ranging from a slap on the face to murder, with many possibilities in between. There's no reason to think that the proportions will be the same in men-on-women violance as in women-on-men violence. If we have to put in an explanation to the readers of why the statistic is meaningless, then why have it (see )? NightHeron (talk) 17:24, 26 October 2024 (UTC)
> If we have to put in an explanation to the readers of why the statistic is meaningless
No! It is very far from meaningless! It might be meaningless to you, but not to others. The issue you have is that the source does not give you enough information, but more detailed sources exist. 2A02:A03F:852E:2F01:CD81:8D36:7967:2116 (talk) 17:29, 26 October 2024 (UTC)
Are you going to say something or are you going to block this forever? 2A02:A03F:852E:2F01:7521:C823:6BF0:7F51 (talk) 17:25, 8 November 2024 (UTC)
Good - you say "but more detailed sources exist". As I already said, a reliable source that gave detailed stats about partner violence disaggregated according to level of violence would be meaningful, because it could not be so easily misunderstood and misused. If you've found such sources, we could resolve this issue. NightHeron (talk) 09:05, 9 November 2024 (UTC)
An objective "level of violence" does not exist afaik.e.g. how much more violent is a punch compared to a kick? Multiple people believe that an aggregated summary is beneficial to their understanding.
If you want to we can add the FBI numbers next to it because they are extraordinarily contradictory IF you ignore reporting bias and sexism.
If I quote the source about which we're talking:
"Data gather from a variety of other sources stand in stark contradiction to this assertion; lead some to argue that crime surveys because of their context are likely to significantly underestimate the overal rate of domestic violence assault while excessively minimizing the rates of assaults that are perpetrated by women compared to men."
Thus the type of source you wish for can sadly not be accurately used for disaggregation. 2A02:A03F:852E:2F01:D489:656:886F:1E93 (talk) 19:29, 27 November 2024 (UTC)

Changing the lead image

It seems to me that we should change the lead image, as a purple ribbon doesn't actually convey any information about the subject matter, explicitly or otherwise.

It's a symbol, rather than a representation. A Misplaced Pages reader is accessing articles to learn about the subject matter. The image should tell them something about the subject matter. MOS:LEADIMAGE introduces the concept of lead images as follows: "It is common for an article's lead or infobox to carry a representative image—such as of a person or place, a book or album cover—to give readers visual confirmation that they've arrived at the right page." This is not a representative image and does not give readers visual confirmation that they've arrived at the right page.

It's just an image of a ribbon that some people have decided to adopt as a symbol of solidarity for domestic abuse victims, though at least as many have used it to stand with the victims of pancreatic cancer, and still more have used to raise awareness of Alzheimer's. The article for purple ribbon lists eleven causes this shade of purple is used to raise awareness of, and another seven that use various other shades of purple. As such, I don't think it is a "natural and appropriate representation of the topic," and it does not "illustrate the topic specifically", which is the core requirement in MOS:LEADIMAGE.

I am also concerned that someone may have made the call that any representation at all could be "triggering" and therefore "harmful" to survivors, and so made the lead image this euphemistic symbol that neither provides any information about the topic nor depicts it, instead signaling a vague "we stand with you." This is an inherently political statement and would violate WP:NPOV, both because the entire notion of harm from triggers is highly controversial and because, as unfortunate as it is, WP:NPOV is non-negotiable and we should aim to avoid taking such anodyne and near-universal opinions as "domestic violence is bad" and "we should stand with survivors."

I'm taking such a strong stance here because I'm worried about the precedent it sets. If we start relaxing our editorial standards on issues 99.9% of editors agree with, like domestic violence being bad, what about issues at 95? 80? The second we start curbing Misplaced Pages's core mission of serving as a repository of knowledge to take a stance on a universally-popular issue or to avoid making domestic abuse victims feel bad, we open the door to doing the same to the pages for Palestine or Israel. Everyone is perfectly justified in his own head, so we can't use a subjective standard. And, unfortunately, pedantic and unpopular calls like getting rid of the ribbon are part of that.

That the ribbon is an "internationally recognized symbol of solidarity with victims of domestic violence and a call to action to end this violence" is persuasive but not dispositive; in light of all the other issues presented I think the image should be moved down even if this is the case. And, again, a "call to action" runs contrary to WP:NPOV, so, while we can lead with an image constituting one if it provides visual information about the topic, the call to action cannot be coming from us as editors, and I'd be especially concerned if that was part of the case for it.

Again, this is an absurd, overpunctilious, legalistic point that's predicated on notions of objectivity rather than anything about the subject matter itself. (Domestic violence IS bad.) But I do think we should move the ribbon into the body, and replace it with a representation, but nothing too graphic or evocative as per MOS:OMIMG. Bruhpedia (talk) 18:38, 14 December 2024 (UTC)

  1. Partner Abuse State of Knowledge Project Findings At-a-Glance Archived April 19, 2015, at the Wayback Machine, Sponsored by the Journal Partner Abuse, John Hamel, LCSW, Editor-in-Chief, www.springerpub.com/pa, November 2012
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