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== Links ==

Quick note. It just occurred to me that this section could be construed, by a malevolent entity, as an invitation to edit on my behalf, a violation WP:CANVASS.

In fact, it is a to do list of things to look at on my return to editing. ]the ] 16:03, 2 July 2024 (UTC)


<s>]</s>, ], ], ] ]the ] 15:22, 27 September 2023 (UTC)


] ]the ] 13:03, 15 October 2023 (UTC)
==Polyester not a fabric==
Re: removing Polyester from the List of Fabrics list: Why? It is a fabric, is it not? ] (]) 15:43, 19 September 2018 (UTC) ] ]the ] 07:53, 24 October 2023 (UTC)
:No. -] ] 16:10, 19 September 2018 (UTC) ]]the ] 11:19, 26 October 2023 (UTC)
::I think I'll keep this for another month, it makes me laugh. -] ] 07:58, 17 October 2018 (UTC)


:] ]the ] 13:38, 19 November 2023 (UTC) ] ]the ] 23:55, 21 November 2023 (UTC)
== something... ==
::] ]the ] 21:07, 29 December 2023 (UTC)
:::] ]the ] 01:00, 1 January 2024 (UTC)
::::] (two thingies, indeed) ]the ] 19:06, 11 January 2024 (UTC)
:::::] ]the ] 09:31, 16 January 2024 (UTC)
::::::] ]the ] 14:48, 26 January 2024 (UTC)
:::::::] (Namechange incorrect?) ]the ] 18:07, 27 January 2024 (UTC)
::::::::] ]the ] 20:50, 4 February 2024 (UTC)
:::::::::] lead ]the ] 15:59, 9 February 2024 (UTC)
::::::::::] "melt blowing is not main article" ]the ] 11:14, 23 February 2024 (UTC)
:::::::::::] (Opening para of lead) Teesdale is not tees valley ]the ] 15:54, 5 March 2024 (UTC)
::::::::::::] English. ] <s>men dont lactate!!</s> ]the ] 08:54, 8 March 2024 (UTC)
edits by Jcaptieux. ]the ] 09:52, 11 March 2024 (UTC)


:] ]the ] 06:52, 13 March 2024 (UTC)
I thought about saying "Angry white male-ness?" Then I remembered that I'm an angry (mostly) white male. So then I thought about saying "Good-ole 'Murikan muleheadedness?" But then I realized I'm muleheaded, 'Murikan good-ole boy.
:: ]the ] 08:10, 18 March 2024 (UTC)
::: on cashmere wool. Also TNT unsourced filler. ]the ] 12:16, 20 March 2024 (UTC)
::::]. Ist pic is not velvet. ]. ]the ] 11:20, 22 March 2024 (UTC)
:::::] ]. ]the ] 20:21, 23 March 2024 (UTC)
::::::Edits by ]the ] 18:21, 27 March 2024 (UTC)
:::::::] Natural fibres section baloney. ]the ] 08:03, 5 April 2024 (UTC)
::::::::]. ]the ] 12:42, 21 April 2024 (UTC)
::::::::: ]the ] 15:01, 22 May 2024 (UTC)
:::::::::: Tapas acupressure technique handwaving ]the ] 09:44, 2 June 2024 (UTC)
:::::::::::. ]the ] 16:28, 1 July 2024 (UTC)
::::::::::::Reverted & warned. ] (]) 16:47, 1 July 2024 (UTC) ;) ]the ] 15:56, 2 July 2024 (UTC)
:::::::::::::] needs rewrite or TNT. ]the ] 15:57, 2 July 2024 (UTC)
:::::::::::::: ]the ] 14:32, 11 July 2024 (UTC)
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::::::::::::::::::<s> ]the ] 13:08, 6 October 2024 (UTC)</s> -]the ] 04:35, 15 October 2024 (UTC)
:::::::::::::::::::] full of innaccuracy. ]the ] 08:06, 22 October 2024 (UTC)
:::::::::::::::::::: ]the ] 12:00, 24 October 2024 (UTC)
:::::::::::::::::::::] first sentence spelling!!! - ]the ] 16:30, 10 November 2024 (UTC)


== Follow up ==
As you can imagine, I was starting to feel pretty confused at that point. But then I settled on "a fact-proof, self-centered POV" and realized that I don't have that. <small>At least I hope I don't...</small> <span style="text-shadow:grey 0.118em 0.118em 0.118em;">] ]</span> 13:17, 28 September 2018 (UTC)
:I actually cannot remember if I took part in forming that consensus. I think not, as it doesn't enter into my life at all. It seems reasonable to me. -] ] 16:43, 28 September 2018 (UTC)


Following El C's suggestion, your offer on the eponymous ANI thread, and your further comments on this page, a return to editing would not be possible unless I took up your offer. A surprising offer, given our interaction history.
== Notice of Arbitration Committee Clarification Request ==


What say you ]? ]the ] 10:18, 9 November 2023 (UTC)
You are involved in a recently-filed request for clarification or amendment from the Arbitration Committee. Please review the request at ] and, if you wish to do so, enter your statement and any other material you wish to submit to the Arbitration Committee. Additionally, the ] may be of use.


:{{tps}} Roxy, to fix the ping, you need to link ] in a wholly new post, beginning on a new line and signed. (This post of mine has pinged them now.) ] &#124; ] 11:21, 9 November 2023 (UTC).
Thanks,<!-- Template:Arbitration CA notice --> --] (]) 03:58, 17 October 2018 (UTC)
: It would be good to see you return to constructive editing and good standing with this community, Roxy. You have a beautiful Song. I hope you are well. --]] 11:52, 9 November 2023 (UTC)
::Thanks Bish. Rosie? Wolfie? ;) My health issues are on the back burner atm, and I'm feeling better than the first half of the year, since my last episode in hospital. Health indicaters are all good. ]the ] 12:44, 9 November 2023 (UTC)
:::That's great! Bishzilla and the fly you <s>stole</s> <u>borrowed</u> from me are both delighted to hear it! ] &#124; ] 13:51, 9 November 2023 (UTC).
:::: I echo the Bish's sentiments. I'm so thrilled you are doing better. Let's keep playing that tune, okay? Rosie, Wolfie, and myself all agree. Ha! --]] 14:00, 9 November 2023 (UTC)
:Hey. The offer is still good, though I will be a bit slow to reply for a while. There's a medication shortage that's affecting me right now, and it's been making focusing and ordering my thoughts difficult (yay unmanaged ADHD!). I'm happy to "push" through it for you, there's no date right now for the meds being restocked unfortunately, but it will slow down my response time while I'm unmedicated. ] (]) 19:19, 9 November 2023 (UTC)
::I'm glad to hear that Roxy is feeling better, and I wish good things for Sideswipe – I hope ''you'' feel better as soon as possible. I, too, would welcome Roxy coming back, but I also think that this is possible '''only''' with a very substantive engagement with Sideswipe's very generous efforts. --] (]) 23:35, 9 November 2023 (UTC)
:::I think that a very suitable wikiadage to use here is that ''there is no deadline.'' SS, I am grateful for your efforts to help/advise/discuss, but your priorites must be for your own well being, not for me, a stranger on the internetz. ]the ] 08:20, 10 November 2023 (UTC)
::::I'm mostly OK, primarily just tired, easily distractable, and having to use more conscious effort at ordering my thoughts at the moment. Unmedicated ADHD is...not fun. Alas my specialist isn't returning any phone calls, my pharmacist has no idea when the meds will be back in stock, and information from the medication's sole manufacturer distributed via support groups is that it won't be fully back in stock until at least April next year. Though whether or not that date will slip remains to be seen (has slipped once already). ] (]) 16:56, 10 November 2023 (UTC)
:::::{{re|Sideswipe9th}} I'm so sorry to hear that. Is there a doctor you can talk to about possible alternative medications? I'm dealing with something where I have to take pain medications pending surgery, and I know from my own recent experience that it can be horrific getting prescriptions refilled when I need them. For what little it's worth, you have my best wishes. --] (]) 20:48, 16 November 2023 (UTC)
::::::{{re|Tryptofish}} Yes and no. I have a specialist, who is responsible for the prescription and monitoring of the medication, but they've been utterly unresponsive since my last contact with them at the start of October, shortly after the medication shortage alert was issued by the NHS. I've been trying to get in contact with them for weeks now, and have had no response other than "we'll call you as soon as we can" from a receptionist.
::::::There are a few alternative meds I could be prescribed, one of which has shortages in a few specific brand name variants but is otherwise generally available. Unfortunately only the specialist can prescribe it, as all of the common ADHD meds in the UK are controlled substances. While my GP is happy to issue my repeat scripts as usual, and accommodate alternate dose requests of the same med (eg, if I was on 40mg of it, they'd be happy to prescribe 2x20mg if it was available) there's nothing else they can do. So I'm stuck here in limbo until either the specialist contacts me, or the meds are restocked at my pharmacist's distributors. And even if the later happens, there's no guarantee that I won't have the same issue 28 days later when I need to get the following month's prescription, at least until the sole manufacturer is able to get their production issues sorted. ] (]) 21:04, 16 November 2023 (UTC)
:::::::Forgive me for yet another ping ], but you've got mail, a few days ago. I used the wikipedia email thingy, then disabled my wiki email again. ]the ] 13:24, 6 April 2024 (UTC)
::::::::(Just noted that SS hasn't edited for a few days) ]the ] 11:46, 8 April 2024 (UTC)
:::::::::I hope that's not because of their health problems, Roxy. Possibly a ygm notice on their page might help, so I've added one. ] &#124; ] 12:24, 8 April 2024 (UTC).
::::::::::Thanks Bish. ]the ] 12:46, 8 April 2024 (UTC)
::::::::Hey Roxy,
::::::::Sorry I've been on holiday with my family for Easter for the last week and haven't been near a computer (too busy winding up my nephew with Mario Kart). Still not fully back yet, I'll respond to your email towards the end of the week if that's OK? ] (]) 15:01, 8 April 2024 (UTC)
:::::::::No worries SS, we have no deadline. I prefer GT6 on PS4 myself. ]the ] 15:38, 8 April 2024 (UTC)
::::::::::Hey Roxy,
::::::::::Sorry, something urgent came up (non health related, but does affect my safety) yesterday evening that means I won't be able to respond to your email for a while. I don't have any timescales for when I'll be able to respond right now I'm afraid. ] (]) 15:35, 13 April 2024 (UTC)
:::::::::::No worries SS, Thanks. ]the ] 16:08, 13 April 2024 (UTC)


== I'm sorry to see you're gone ==
:The clarification request has been archived at ]. For the Arbitration Committee, ]] 19:37, 23 October 2018 (UTC)


I saw a talk page discussion you'd been in and I followed it here to see you'd been blocked. I don't think we've ever interacted but I've seen your username many times in pseudoscience related articles, often improving them greatly. I just wanted to say it was always good to see you in talk page discussions arguing for neutrality, actual reality-based neutrality that is, over POV-pushing. I'm sorry you're no longer able to edit, at least for now, but I wanted to thank you for all the fantastic edits you have made. I also hope you're doing well if you're still in the hospital and that you recover soon. ] (]) 23:16, 15 March 2024 (UTC)
== Holiday, (Vacation, for Merkian speakers) ==


:Oh dear after reading further into it I now have to distance myself very slightly, everything I said in my first message fully applies but I don't mean to weigh in on any of the drama that resulted in your block. Other than to say that I hope if you are unblocked you're able to continue improving articles about pseudoscience and other topics like you always did. :) ] (]) 23:40, 15 March 2024 (UTC)
I’m afk same as last year.
::Me too!!! ]the ] 08:11, 18 March 2024 (UTC)


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==Editing comments==
The way was formatted makes mine look like it's in reply to yours when it's actually in reply Blue Raspberry's. My formatting change to make it clear that I'm replying to Blue Raspberry. The way our comments are formatted differently gives the appearance that my comment is directed at someone it isn't actually directed at.—] (] • ]) 10:15, 28 October 2018 (UTC)
:I noticed that. Fix your own comment, do not change mine. -] ] 10:16, 28 October 2018 (UTC)
::The formatting change was to make it absolutely clear that my comment was also in reply to Blue Rasberry and doesn't alter yours in any way. I added the bullet point because the way your comment is formatted affects the way mine is presented. Even if I change the formatting on my comment (I've already tested this out by removing the bullet point or removing the colon without saving the page), mine still doesn't convey that it's in reply to Blue Raspberry. Everyone else is using the bullet point before the colon. Please restore the bullet point because your formatting only makes things confusing.—] (] • ]) 10:38, 28 October 2018 (UTC)
:::No. (add extra colons and remove the * to make your comment appear as you would prefer.) -] ] 10:44, 28 October 2018 (UTC)
::::Actually, having had my second cup of coffee, I will fix it for you if you allow me to alter the formatting only of your post, if that would be OK with you? -] ] 10:51, 28 October 2018 (UTC)
:::::As long as it shows that we're both replying to Blue Raspberry, fine by me :)—] (] • ]) 11:05, 28 October 2018 (UTC)
::::::I ought to apologise for being snarky to you. I've altered my own comment too, adding a colon. I hope that this does the trick. I feel a need to comment again, but I wont until you are happy with my alterations. -] ] 11:16, 28 October 2018 (UTC)
::::::: but I think we're good now.—] (] • ]) 11:21, 28 October 2018 (UTC)
:::::::As an aside, I should've discussed this with you and requested you make the change instead of making the change myself (by asking and ''not'' just assuming that you was also replying to Blueraspberry). Although ] does mention something about formatting, I should've discussed things with you from the start by asking if you meant to directly reply to Blueraspberry, so I also apologize for my own lack of prior communication and prior discussion (by shooting first and asking questions later) before modifying your comment.—] (] • ]) 14:13, 28 October 2018 (UTC)
:::::::::This was very rude of me. -] ] 17:00, 28 October 2018 (UTC)


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== Regarding the North Africa Wiki ==


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I just wanted to thank you for your reply on the talk page. I think I might have misspoke when titled what I had to say as defining. I responded to your comment. Also, since I am new, how can I tell when I have sufficient support from Wiki users on the talk page to revert the article back to my changes or leave it alone? The user who disputes my edit has threatened to block my IP address if I make any more changes to the article, calling my contributions vandalism. I don't want to chance getting blocked! Thanks.] (]) 07:31, 3 November 2018 (UTC)
:Thanks for getting in touch. You can safely ignore the templated warnings placed on your Talk page. That editor has exactly the same rights here on wikipedia as you or I. Only Admins have any power to sanction ordinary editors like us.
:With regard to the page concerned, I wont make any suggestions in that area (the attempt to define) as I can't see how the situation can be resolved as there is no defining authority that we can point to. Nobody is being collegiate and trying to solve, just to bludgeon their own ideas in. Be assured that Ryanoo has no more power to block you than I do, or you do to block them.
:Feel free to ask me any further questions you may have. -] ] 10:21, 3 November 2018 (UTC)
::I'm incredibly grateful for your intervention and input! I have never found myself in a more unpleasant situation contributing before. The article was also generally untouched by onlookers for sometime until Ryanoo came along, which leads me to believe my additions were not "vandalism" and were in fact relevant to the article which they dispute. Anyway, Ryanoo and I have talked a bit on the "talk" page and I am still being attacked for sticking by my verifiable sources and being accused of all sorts of things. I wish I knew more about Wiki formatting to pose a case to the Admins myself but my knowledge with code on Wiki is severely lacking. ] (]) 17:11, 3 November 2018 (UTC)
:::I will not comment further until the sockpuppet investigation has been completed, there is no point, though clearly I have been (]) assuming good faith in this regard, I have formed no opinion.. My attention has been elsewhere in any case, and will be taken away further by health issues for 24 hours at least. -] ] 02:22, 6 November 2018 (UTC)


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I am here because I saw a recent ] edit in the Horn of Africa page and as usual he scraped the words Northeast Africa from it. This person also targeted me and harassed me because I requested Misplaced Pages upholds its integrity to proven facts and not be biased toward a specific racial group but this user objected to it because he wanted to push is racial views. The racist comments he spewed in the talk page of North Africa lead me to believe that this person is a white nationalist and I am baffled Misplaced Pages lets this user run amok. I have requested that the Northeast Africa region be created but the Misplaced Pages editors who work with ] objected to it. Anthropology, archaeology and dna have shown that in the past there was constant migration in the Northeast Africa corridor representing Egypt, Sudan and the Horn of Africa through the ] but the words ''Northeast Africa'' can't be used anywhere in Misplaced Pages because ] and his friends would censure it. This level of censorship rivals china and I am convinced Misplaced Pages condones it, so I request that as an Admin you look into this issue too because they are denying Horn Africans their history.
] (]) 18:38, 6 November 2018 (UTC)


] 23:10, 2 May 2024 (UTC)
@ ] ] I think that this is clear evidence of what I was talking about Mr. Roxy. I and other users have reported this user {{noping|Arboleh}} before for sock puppetry and now he is trying to attack me and do the same thing as the suspected sock Itaren which is another unmistakable behavioral evidence that he is sock of Midddayexpress, This Arboleh also had disruptively edited some Misplaced Pages pages, attacked me, editwarred me, reported me asking for administrator intervention and now he is asking for your help exactly same as what Itaren did!!!. The Somali user Middayexpress ( has the Canadian Nationality ) is a very persistent sock puppeteer who has been using many fake accounts in order to promote his racist Afrocentric agenda and vandalize Misplaced Pages, this user is trying to whitewash Horn Africans and link them to Middle Easterners and North Africans while distancing Horn Africans from their other fellow East Africans brothers which is very racist. At the same time, He is trying to black-wash Middle Easterners and North Africans and linking them to horn Africans:), this guy got really no life, he has been using hundreds of sock puppet accounts in order to vandalize Misplaced Pages and promote his Afrocentric agenda, for example, he is trying to deattach modern Egyptians from their ancient Egyptians origins and link the Egyptian civilization to Sub Saharan Africans who have nothing at all to do with Egypt or Egyptians which is extremely racist and ridiculous!!!. I have already filed a sock puppeting report against him but It was reverted because some other user before filed a sock puppeting report against the same user and the result was inconclusive because he is using proxy. You can check his IP history and you will find that he uses only proxies and that he never logged in through a legit IP address which means that he is trying to hide something, also this account was created shortly after the block of confirmed sock puppets Middayexpress, Soupforone, Geneticanthro, ....etc and he has been making the same edits on the same pages with almost identical edit summaries. You can also check the behaviors of these accounts and Middayexpress/Soupforone, you will find that the behavioral evidence is very clear and unmistakable. I wonder how can such person get blocked and then make a new account on Misplaced Pages and continue vandalizing it while remains unchallenged and me who is battling such vandals and puppeteers is blamed and warned!!!! How come?!!!!Unfortunately, users like this, are why Misplaced Pages occasionally gets a bad name. Those Afro-centrists are 24/7 insulting us Egyptians everywhere and are doing their best to to dattach us from our ancient Egyptian origins and appropriate our heritage and culture and all our mistake is that we are Egyptians!!! which is very racist and offensive, Enough is Enough!!!!! I didn't think that I will encounter such racist people on a main source of knowledge like Misplaced Pages. Thank you. ] (]) 19:16, 6 November 2018 (UTC)
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== Not yet, unfortunately ==
@ ] Bring a map and look where your country Somalia is located, you will find It is located in East Africa in Sub-Saharan Africa which have nothing at all to do with Egypt which is a Mediterranean transcontinental country located in North Africa and West Asia. Love yourself and stop trying to lump yourself with Egyptians, Middle Easterners and North Africans because you guys are simply not from the MENA area. Also please stop deattaching modern Egyptians from their ancient Egyptian origins like what you did on the Page of DNA history of Egypt because it is very racist. I am an Egyptian and you know and I know that Somalis are totally different racially, genetically, racially, culturally and in every aspect from Egyptians and other MENAs. Your history is in Somalia which is an East African country in Sub-Saharan Africa, not in North Africa. ] (]) 19:16, 6 November 2018 (UTC)


Just wanted to note that it is my intention to appeal my CBAN soon, after more or less twelve months. I have not as yet had any meaningful discussion with SS, the outcome of which I would like to post here prior to appealing. -]the ] 17:44, 16 June 2024 (UTC)
@ ], racists like you are what is wrong with Misplaced Pages and why people don't trust it, I hope unbiased Admins deal with you but I don't have a high expectation, however know this, I will continue to fight for an unbiased Misplaced Pages where people like you don't spread racist views or censure facts.
:Be sure, first, to give serious thought to how you will approach the issue of not making trans editors and their friends uncomfortable. --] (]) 21:07, 16 June 2024 (UTC)
] (]) 20:44, 6 November 2018 (UTC)
::I have, believe me. - ]the ] 22:58, 16 June 2024 (UTC)
:I said some insensitive and goading things to you in the aftermath of your block and I’m genuinely sorry. That said, I absolutely stand by supporting that block based on how you acted ''at the time''. I think you are a good and passionate editor but you cannot let your passion turn into extremism. There’s no need to verbally lacerate people over disputes on an online encyclopedia, no matter how important you think they are. I’d love to see you editing constructively again, but ''only'' if you respect ] and ] and don’t say anything marginalizing, disrespectful or tasteless about trans people. I also hope your medical issues have cleared up, even a little. ] (]) 10:40, 28 July 2024 (UTC)
::Thank you for this, I appreciate it. Apology aside, I think you are quite correct in the rest of your advice. thanks again, ]the ] 15:24, 30 July 2024 (UTC)


== Pending CBAN appeal ==
**Does anybody expect me to read today's contributions to this page? I wont be reading them. see ] -] ] 21:00, 6 November 2018 (UTC)
***Would you like a summary? 'Modern Eqyptians (historically quite legitimately) do not consider themselves of the same background as much of sub-saharan Africa and do not like it when same try to muscle in on what they consider their heritage, despite conveniently forgetting Egypt kept both slaves and military units made up of sub-saharan African background'. Think Greece and FYROM for a similar ethno-geographical conflict. ] (]) 21:14, 6 November 2018 (UTC)
****@] Thank you for your input and by the way I am an archaeogeneticist. I can tell you that we don't consider ourselves of the same background of ALL Sub-Saharan Africa because we simply aren't and our country definitely isn't located in Sub-Saharan Africa. Egypt is a Mediterranean Middle Eastern transcontinental country located in North Africa and West Asia which has nothing at all to do with Sub-Saharan Africans. And regarding the salves and military units, well Romans and others also have Black slaves and military units, so?. I don't think this example of conflict is right, because simply Greece and FYROM are to great extent related racially as well as geographically, which isn't the case at all for the racist Afrocentrists who are trying to appropriate our culture and history ( as well as others history such as Phoenicians, Hebrews, Greeks, Romans, Germans, Chinese and almost every ancient culture on this planet and probably other planets! ). Egypt is a Mediterranean, North African and Middle Eastern, so are the Egyptians!. Thank you.] (]) 21:49, 6 November 2018 (UTC)
****Thank you. I thought there was a subtext going on from the Talk page, which, behaviourally, is a shambles, and the personal attacks, going in every direction, despicable. -] ] 21:21, 6 November 2018 (UTC)
*****Keep in mind that is an extremely watered down summary. It doesnt touch on (for example) Cleopatra wasnt remotely 'African' (she was from a Med dynasty - there are on-wiki disputes about this in oddly of all places, about Liz Taylor being an example of white-washing in film casting - how can you whitewash someone who wasnt black being the response), the various points Eqypt was conquered from the outside (Hyksos and so on). Egypt (like Greece etc) has a rich and extensive history that many can only envy. The two sides of the coin being they want to protect it, and others want to associate with it. ] (]) 21:30, 6 November 2018 (UTC)
****** Thank you again for your input!! By the way neither Cleoparta nor the Egyptians were even remotely Africa, both were Mediterranean, Cleopatra was Northern Mediterranean while Egyptians were Eastern Mediterraneans.] (]) 21:47, 6 November 2018 (UTC)
******I knew the Liz Taylor thing, but probably from reading found here, as My knowledge of this stuff is next to zero. -] ] 21:35, 6 November 2018 (UTC)


I cannot believe it has been about eighteen months, a time I think is punishment enough for my uncivil behaviour.
Hi Roxy, I read your comments where you said you’ll withhold your input until the SPI investigation is complete. Fair enough! Hope your health improves soon, health comes first! ] (]) 23:51, 6 November 2018 (UTC)
], forgive the ping but I wondered if you would comment here about your (appreciated) suggestion to accept Sideswipes offer to discuss my "almost apology" with me. I have waited some time, but they are at the moment absent from the project. (I hope their meds situation improves asap). I appreciate this was just a suggestion on your part. I note that during that time my apologies were profuse. I also appreciate your closing the eponymous ANI thread that decided my punishment early, as you were correct imho, it would only have become worse for me.


Any other suggestions or comments from anybody lurking would be appreciated.
== wwoof wwoof ==
you have email ] 10:18, 3 November 2018 (UTC)
:Ah. That explains a lot, thanks -] ] 10:24, 3 November 2018 (UTC)


]the ] 13:03, 4 January 2025 (UTC)
== Side Note ==


:Hello. I'm afraid that don't see any such suggestion here by myself to even be reminded what it might have consisted of. But even irrespective of that, I am not around for the next little while to assist with much of anything. And even if I were, I can't lift a community ban single-handedly. Relatedly, as the admin who closed the discussion about the community ban—which again, I do not have a firm recollection of at the time of writing—I'm unlikely to be the one to do the same with any appeals. Sorry, I'm writing in haste. Best wishes, ] 19:04, 4 January 2025 (UTC)
Hello Mr. Roxy, I am a 35 years old aracheogenetist and academic lecturer in the University, I am not a teenager, so please use more decent language while talking with me like what I am doing with you, I am not a vandal or sock puppet, I am just a scientific person who hates scientific dishonesty and misleading others, I might react harsh with scientific dishonest people, but that's because I respect science and myself. I am here for editing as a volunteer, you are n't my manager or something. I really think that registering on Misplaced Pages should be by using Identification card to avoid vandalism and sock puppeting which will save the community here a great deal of time wasted in fighting sock puppeting and vandalism and will also give more credibility. Moreover, I don't mind at all leaving Misplaced Pages if they don't want good users, it is OK :). Anyway, I plan with other scientists from around the globe to create an encyclopedia in the future and who knows it could be more famous than Misplaced Pages one day, it is crazy but there is nothing impossible. Regards. ] (]) 00:27, 7 November 2018 (UTC)
:Please note that I will delete any further posts you make to this page for the time being. Not too long I hope, but that would depend. Thank you. -] ] 00:58, 7 November 2018 (UTC) ::It was a helpful suggestion you made when closing the ANI thread, and Cbanning me. I appreciate that this will go to ANI for a community decision, so will do so without said discussion. I have been waiting for some months. Thanks. ]the ] 23:59, 4 January 2025 (UTC)
:::It should go to ], not ]. --] (]) 00:25, 6 January 2025 (UTC)


:Hi, Roxy. Before this gets underway, I want to preemptively ask you a question. During the time of the ban (not quite a year ago), you made this edit, here on your talk page: , saying {{tq|men dont lactate!!}}. Obviously, that's biologically true for cis men (outside of ]), but the comment could be seen as insensitive to trans men. Can you provide some context for what you meant when you posted that, or perhaps, do you have different feelings about the post now? --] (]) 23:12, 4 January 2025 (UTC)
* Hi Roxy, this racist user Ryanoo is deliberately vandalizing a ] I edited to make it less racist and less biased can you do something about him. Thanks. ] (]) 02:51, 7 November 2018 (UTC)
::I confess I didn't look at your link, guessed, and made a response that you would have thought was really stupid.
::Actually, it was regarding diff. I probably wont do anything looking at it now. ]the ] 23:55, 4 January 2025 (UTC)
:::So another editor added a small amount of content, using the terminology "pregnant people". In case you are not aware, there has been a trend in the past year or two to use such language, out of sensitivity to the fact that, on rare occasion, trans men (people who were classified as female at birth, but who live and identify as male) can become pregnant, too. It's biologically possible for trans men to get pregnant, as well as to lactate. If you didn't know about that, that's OK, but now you do know. Obviously, such language use has come with some controversy. Some conservatives object to it, and it was a campaign issue in the recent US election. And even people who are not at all socially conservative, especially older people like me, have a bit of a learning curve to get used to it, because, let's face it, the language construction is unfamiliar.
:::That said, however, I personally am sympathetic to people who use that language, and I'm likewise sympathetic to editors who use that language in our content. I think it's quite understandable if an editor who is trans feels that such language should be used as a matter of inclusiveness, and feels unwelcome if they encounter other editors who oppose such language. Personally, I am in favor of Misplaced Pages being inclusive in this way.
:::So I think that, as you approach your appeal, you should consider this perspective. I would expect that some number of editors would strongly oppose your appeal if they see you saying things like "men don't lactate", and would interpret that as you having failed to learn what the community asked you to learn, as a condition of getting the ban lifted. Indeed, I might even oppose the appeal if I felt that you were failing in that regard. Better you hear that from me now, before things get underway, than for you to be caught unaware after your appeal is filed. --] (]) 00:23, 6 January 2025 (UTC)
::::I'm at a loss. It feels like you have gone entirely out of your way to find fault with what I have said! Do you think I would have deliberately found a way to demean in these circumstances? Your interpretation of a post designed to remind me of something come the time in some future where I would be ''able to do something about it'' is grossly unfair. Look at all those posts in that section of this page - they are responses to things I saw on my watchlist that after a brief look, I feel might require some attention. '''If I didn't know any better,''' It would feel like an assumption of Bad Faith on your part. Aromatherapy is safely outside of GENSEX, and your interpretation never occurred to me. I had no idea that the phrase "pregnant people" was designed to avoid causing offence, and am entirely in favour of inclusivity.
::::Given that, and the fact that I have always valued your opinion, should I delete the post? This thread? Before I appeal? ]the ] 14:31, 6 January 2025 (UTC)
:::::Roxy, it may not sound that way, but I want you to have a successful appeal, and I want you to be back with full editing permissions. What I pointed out is unquestionably something that would be raised against you if you were to file the appeal. Editors are going to look over what you posted during the ban, and they will see it, and there are some who would not hesitate to use it against you. In my opinion, it's a good thing that you were shocked by what I said, because that tells me that it had never occurred to you that what you posted would have appeared to have been in bad faith – and that's the person I know you to be. But I'm 100% certain that there are editors who would hold this against you. That's why I said that I wanted you to hear it from me, ahead of time, instead of being blindsided by it during the appeal.
:::::So here are the things that I'd suggest you consider doing. First, take on board that what you posted, no matter how well-intentioned, can be taken to mean something bad-faith by editors, and be alert to that going forward. (Yes, aromatherapy is not in GENSEX, but gender-based descriptions of people are, and that was in the edit that you noted.) You did not know about that particular language when you posted that note to yourself, but now you do. Some people are sensitive about it, and they have legitimate reasons for that concern. As for what to leave here on your talk page, you might consider striking through that post, instead of deleting it. That's up to you. I would suggest leaving this discussion here, because you will be able to cite it as evidence that you have already engaged with the issue, and (as of the time of the appeal) will be ready to go forward, having already learned what the community wanted you to learn. --] (]) 23:40, 6 January 2025 (UTC)
::::::As always, I'm grateful for your thoughts. I shall draft a statement here in the next couple of days. ]the ] 23:41, 8 January 2025 (UTC)

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Quick note. It just occurred to me that this section could be construed, by a malevolent entity, as an invitation to edit on my behalf, a violation WP:CANVASS.

In fact, it is a to do list of things to look at on my return to editing. Roxy the dog 16:03, 2 July 2024 (UTC)


Field hockey, diff Field lacrosse, Faggot (food), List of fabrics Roxy the dog 15:22, 27 September 2023 (UTC)

Yoga nidra Roxy the dog 13:03, 15 October 2023 (UTC) Organic wool Roxy the dog 07:53, 24 October 2023 (UTC) Screen printingRoxy the dog 11:19, 26 October 2023 (UTC)

lllt Roxy the dog 13:38, 19 November 2023 (UTC) Polar fleece Roxy the dog 23:55, 21 November 2023 (UTC)
International Down and Feather Testing Laboratory Roxy the dog 21:07, 29 December 2023 (UTC)
Tufting Roxy the dog 01:00, 1 January 2024 (UTC)
Peter Collins (racing driver) (two thingies, indeed) Roxy the dog 19:06, 11 January 2024 (UTC)
Talk:Cotton duck Roxy the dog 09:31, 16 January 2024 (UTC)
Suzanne A. Rogers Roxy the dog 14:48, 26 January 2024 (UTC)
Talk:Myalgic encephalomyelitis/chronic fatigue syndrome (Namechange incorrect?) Roxy the dog 18:07, 27 January 2024 (UTC)
Pease pudding Roxy the dog 20:50, 4 February 2024 (UTC)
Bea Alonzo lead Roxy the dog 15:59, 9 February 2024 (UTC)
Nonwoven fabric "melt blowing is not main article" Roxy the dog 11:14, 23 February 2024 (UTC)
Tees Valley (Opening para of lead) Teesdale is not tees valley Roxy the dog 15:54, 5 March 2024 (UTC)
Ysgol David Hughes English. Aromatherapy men dont lactate!! Roxy the dog 08:54, 8 March 2024 (UTC)

edits by Jcaptieux. Roxy the dog 09:52, 11 March 2024 (UTC)

Jersey (fabric) Roxy the dog 06:52, 13 March 2024 (UTC)
yarn Roxy the dog 08:10, 18 March 2024 (UTC)
this diff on cashmere wool. Also TNT unsourced filler. Roxy the dog 12:16, 20 March 2024 (UTC)
Velvet. Ist pic is not velvet. Synthetic fiber. Roxy the dog 11:20, 22 March 2024 (UTC)
Velour Acrylic fiber. Roxy the dog 20:21, 23 March 2024 (UTC)
Edits by Roxy the dog 18:21, 27 March 2024 (UTC)
Textile industry‎ Natural fibres section baloney. Roxy the dog 08:03, 5 April 2024 (UTC)
Complementary and Natural Healthcare Council. Roxy the dog 12:42, 21 April 2024 (UTC)
metamerism Roxy the dog 15:01, 22 May 2024 (UTC)
diff Tapas acupressure technique handwaving Roxy the dog 09:44, 2 June 2024 (UTC)
spammer. Roxy the dog 16:28, 1 July 2024 (UTC)
Reverted & warned. Peaceray (talk) 16:47, 1 July 2024 (UTC) ;) Roxy the dog 15:56, 2 July 2024 (UTC)
Gallbladder flush needs rewrite or TNT. Roxy the dog 15:57, 2 July 2024 (UTC)
clue needed Roxy the dog 14:32, 11 July 2024 (UTC)
diff Roxy the dog 04:05, 21 July 2024 (UTC)
diff Roxy the dog 21:03, 15 August 2024 (UTC)
how many times? Roxy the dog 15:39, 7 September 2024 (UTC)
citogenisis Roxy the dog 13:08, 6 October 2024 (UTC) -Roxy the dog 04:35, 15 October 2024 (UTC)
Cellulose fiber full of innaccuracy. Roxy the dog 08:06, 22 October 2024 (UTC)
Commas. Good grief Roxy the dog 12:00, 24 October 2024 (UTC)
Taboo first sentence spelling!!! - Roxy the dog 16:30, 10 November 2024 (UTC)

Follow up

Following El C's suggestion, your offer on the eponymous ANI thread, and your further comments on this page, a return to editing would not be possible unless I took up your offer. A surprising offer, given our interaction history.

What say you User:Sideswipe9th? Roxy the dog 10:18, 9 November 2023 (UTC)

(talk page stalker) Roxy, to fix the ping, you need to link User:Sideswipe9th in a wholly new post, beginning on a new line and signed. (This post of mine has pinged them now.) Bishonen | tålk 11:21, 9 November 2023 (UTC).
It would be good to see you return to constructive editing and good standing with this community, Roxy. You have a beautiful Song. I hope you are well. --ARoseWolf 11:52, 9 November 2023 (UTC)
Thanks Bish. Rosie? Wolfie? ;) My health issues are on the back burner atm, and I'm feeling better than the first half of the year, since my last episode in hospital. Health indicaters are all good. Roxy the dog 12:44, 9 November 2023 (UTC)
That's great! Bishzilla and the fly you stole borrowed from me are both delighted to hear it! Bishonen | tålk 13:51, 9 November 2023 (UTC).
I echo the Bish's sentiments. I'm so thrilled you are doing better. Let's keep playing that tune, okay? Rosie, Wolfie, and myself all agree. Ha! --ARoseWolf 14:00, 9 November 2023 (UTC)
Hey. The offer is still good, though I will be a bit slow to reply for a while. There's a medication shortage that's affecting me right now, and it's been making focusing and ordering my thoughts difficult (yay unmanaged ADHD!). I'm happy to "push" through it for you, there's no date right now for the meds being restocked unfortunately, but it will slow down my response time while I'm unmedicated. Sideswipe9th (talk) 19:19, 9 November 2023 (UTC)
I'm glad to hear that Roxy is feeling better, and I wish good things for Sideswipe – I hope you feel better as soon as possible. I, too, would welcome Roxy coming back, but I also think that this is possible only with a very substantive engagement with Sideswipe's very generous efforts. --Tryptofish (talk) 23:35, 9 November 2023 (UTC)
I think that a very suitable wikiadage to use here is that there is no deadline. SS, I am grateful for your efforts to help/advise/discuss, but your priorites must be for your own well being, not for me, a stranger on the internetz. Roxy the dog 08:20, 10 November 2023 (UTC)
I'm mostly OK, primarily just tired, easily distractable, and having to use more conscious effort at ordering my thoughts at the moment. Unmedicated ADHD is...not fun. Alas my specialist isn't returning any phone calls, my pharmacist has no idea when the meds will be back in stock, and information from the medication's sole manufacturer distributed via support groups is that it won't be fully back in stock until at least April next year. Though whether or not that date will slip remains to be seen (has slipped once already). Sideswipe9th (talk) 16:56, 10 November 2023 (UTC)
@Sideswipe9th: I'm so sorry to hear that. Is there a doctor you can talk to about possible alternative medications? I'm dealing with something where I have to take pain medications pending surgery, and I know from my own recent experience that it can be horrific getting prescriptions refilled when I need them. For what little it's worth, you have my best wishes. --Tryptofish (talk) 20:48, 16 November 2023 (UTC)
@Tryptofish: Yes and no. I have a specialist, who is responsible for the prescription and monitoring of the medication, but they've been utterly unresponsive since my last contact with them at the start of October, shortly after the medication shortage alert was issued by the NHS. I've been trying to get in contact with them for weeks now, and have had no response other than "we'll call you as soon as we can" from a receptionist.
There are a few alternative meds I could be prescribed, one of which has shortages in a few specific brand name variants but is otherwise generally available. Unfortunately only the specialist can prescribe it, as all of the common ADHD meds in the UK are controlled substances. While my GP is happy to issue my repeat scripts as usual, and accommodate alternate dose requests of the same med (eg, if I was on 40mg of it, they'd be happy to prescribe 2x20mg if it was available) there's nothing else they can do. So I'm stuck here in limbo until either the specialist contacts me, or the meds are restocked at my pharmacist's distributors. And even if the later happens, there's no guarantee that I won't have the same issue 28 days later when I need to get the following month's prescription, at least until the sole manufacturer is able to get their production issues sorted. Sideswipe9th (talk) 21:04, 16 November 2023 (UTC)
Forgive me for yet another ping User:Sideswipe9th, but you've got mail, a few days ago. I used the wikipedia email thingy, then disabled my wiki email again. Roxy the dog 13:24, 6 April 2024 (UTC)
(Just noted that SS hasn't edited for a few days) Roxy the dog 11:46, 8 April 2024 (UTC)
I hope that's not because of their health problems, Roxy. Possibly a ygm notice on their page might help, so I've added one. Bishonen | tålk 12:24, 8 April 2024 (UTC).
Thanks Bish. Roxy the dog 12:46, 8 April 2024 (UTC)
Hey Roxy,
Sorry I've been on holiday with my family for Easter for the last week and haven't been near a computer (too busy winding up my nephew with Mario Kart). Still not fully back yet, I'll respond to your email towards the end of the week if that's OK? Sideswipe9th (talk) 15:01, 8 April 2024 (UTC)
No worries SS, we have no deadline. I prefer GT6 on PS4 myself. Roxy the dog 15:38, 8 April 2024 (UTC)
Hey Roxy,
Sorry, something urgent came up (non health related, but does affect my safety) yesterday evening that means I won't be able to respond to your email for a while. I don't have any timescales for when I'll be able to respond right now I'm afraid. Sideswipe9th (talk) 15:35, 13 April 2024 (UTC)
No worries SS, Thanks. Roxy the dog 16:08, 13 April 2024 (UTC)

I'm sorry to see you're gone

I saw a talk page discussion you'd been in and I followed it here to see you'd been blocked. I don't think we've ever interacted but I've seen your username many times in pseudoscience related articles, often improving them greatly. I just wanted to say it was always good to see you in talk page discussions arguing for neutrality, actual reality-based neutrality that is, over POV-pushing. I'm sorry you're no longer able to edit, at least for now, but I wanted to thank you for all the fantastic edits you have made. I also hope you're doing well if you're still in the hospital and that you recover soon. XeCyranium (talk) 23:16, 15 March 2024 (UTC)

Oh dear after reading further into it I now have to distance myself very slightly, everything I said in my first message fully applies but I don't mean to weigh in on any of the drama that resulted in your block. Other than to say that I hope if you are unblocked you're able to continue improving articles about pseudoscience and other topics like you always did. :) XeCyranium (talk) 23:40, 15 March 2024 (UTC)
Me too!!! Roxy the dog 08:11, 18 March 2024 (UTC)

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Not yet, unfortunately

Just wanted to note that it is my intention to appeal my CBAN soon, after more or less twelve months. I have not as yet had any meaningful discussion with SS, the outcome of which I would like to post here prior to appealing. -Roxy the dog 17:44, 16 June 2024 (UTC)

Be sure, first, to give serious thought to how you will approach the issue of not making trans editors and their friends uncomfortable. --Tryptofish (talk) 21:07, 16 June 2024 (UTC)
I have, believe me. - Roxy the dog 22:58, 16 June 2024 (UTC)
I said some insensitive and goading things to you in the aftermath of your block and I’m genuinely sorry. That said, I absolutely stand by supporting that block based on how you acted at the time. I think you are a good and passionate editor but you cannot let your passion turn into extremism. There’s no need to verbally lacerate people over disputes on an online encyclopedia, no matter how important you think they are. I’d love to see you editing constructively again, but only if you respect WP:AGF and WP:CIVIL and don’t say anything marginalizing, disrespectful or tasteless about trans people. I also hope your medical issues have cleared up, even a little. Dronebogus (talk) 10:40, 28 July 2024 (UTC)
Thank you for this, I appreciate it. Apology aside, I think you are quite correct in the rest of your advice. thanks again, Roxy the dog 15:24, 30 July 2024 (UTC)

Pending CBAN appeal

I cannot believe it has been about eighteen months, a time I think is punishment enough for my uncivil behaviour.

User:El C, forgive the ping but I wondered if you would comment here about your (appreciated) suggestion to accept Sideswipes offer to discuss my "almost apology" with me. I have waited some time, but they are at the moment absent from the project. (I hope their meds situation improves asap). I appreciate this was just a suggestion on your part. I note that during that time my apologies were profuse. I also appreciate your closing the eponymous ANI thread that decided my punishment early, as you were correct imho, it would only have become worse for me.

Any other suggestions or comments from anybody lurking would be appreciated.

Roxy the dog 13:03, 4 January 2025 (UTC)

Hello. I'm afraid that don't see any such suggestion here by myself to even be reminded what it might have consisted of. But even irrespective of that, I am not around for the next little while to assist with much of anything. And even if I were, I can't lift a community ban single-handedly. Relatedly, as the admin who closed the discussion about the community ban—which again, I do not have a firm recollection of at the time of writing—I'm unlikely to be the one to do the same with any appeals. Sorry, I'm writing in haste. Best wishes, El_C 19:04, 4 January 2025 (UTC)
It was a helpful suggestion you made when closing the ANI thread, and Cbanning me. I appreciate that this will go to ANI for a community decision, so will do so without said discussion. I have been waiting for some months. Thanks. Roxy the dog 23:59, 4 January 2025 (UTC)
It should go to WP:AN, not WP:ANI. --Tryptofish (talk) 00:25, 6 January 2025 (UTC)
Hi, Roxy. Before this gets underway, I want to preemptively ask you a question. During the time of the ban (not quite a year ago), you made this edit, here on your talk page: , saying men dont lactate!!. Obviously, that's biologically true for cis men (outside of some medical conditions), but the comment could be seen as insensitive to trans men. Can you provide some context for what you meant when you posted that, or perhaps, do you have different feelings about the post now? --Tryptofish (talk) 23:12, 4 January 2025 (UTC)
I confess I didn't look at your link, guessed, and made a response that you would have thought was really stupid.
Actually, it was regarding this diff. I probably wont do anything looking at it now. Roxy the dog 23:55, 4 January 2025 (UTC)
So another editor added a small amount of content, using the terminology "pregnant people". In case you are not aware, there has been a trend in the past year or two to use such language, out of sensitivity to the fact that, on rare occasion, trans men (people who were classified as female at birth, but who live and identify as male) can become pregnant, too. It's biologically possible for trans men to get pregnant, as well as to lactate. If you didn't know about that, that's OK, but now you do know. Obviously, such language use has come with some controversy. Some conservatives object to it, and it was a campaign issue in the recent US election. And even people who are not at all socially conservative, especially older people like me, have a bit of a learning curve to get used to it, because, let's face it, the language construction is unfamiliar.
That said, however, I personally am sympathetic to people who use that language, and I'm likewise sympathetic to editors who use that language in our content. I think it's quite understandable if an editor who is trans feels that such language should be used as a matter of inclusiveness, and feels unwelcome if they encounter other editors who oppose such language. Personally, I am in favor of Misplaced Pages being inclusive in this way.
So I think that, as you approach your appeal, you should consider this perspective. I would expect that some number of editors would strongly oppose your appeal if they see you saying things like "men don't lactate", and would interpret that as you having failed to learn what the community asked you to learn, as a condition of getting the ban lifted. Indeed, I might even oppose the appeal if I felt that you were failing in that regard. Better you hear that from me now, before things get underway, than for you to be caught unaware after your appeal is filed. --Tryptofish (talk) 00:23, 6 January 2025 (UTC)
I'm at a loss. It feels like you have gone entirely out of your way to find fault with what I have said! Do you think I would have deliberately found a way to demean in these circumstances? Your interpretation of a post designed to remind me of something come the time in some future where I would be able to do something about it is grossly unfair. Look at all those posts in that section of this page - they are responses to things I saw on my watchlist that after a brief look, I feel might require some attention. If I didn't know any better, It would feel like an assumption of Bad Faith on your part. Aromatherapy is safely outside of GENSEX, and your interpretation never occurred to me. I had no idea that the phrase "pregnant people" was designed to avoid causing offence, and am entirely in favour of inclusivity.
Given that, and the fact that I have always valued your opinion, should I delete the post? This thread? Before I appeal? Roxy the dog 14:31, 6 January 2025 (UTC)
Roxy, it may not sound that way, but I want you to have a successful appeal, and I want you to be back with full editing permissions. What I pointed out is unquestionably something that would be raised against you if you were to file the appeal. Editors are going to look over what you posted during the ban, and they will see it, and there are some who would not hesitate to use it against you. In my opinion, it's a good thing that you were shocked by what I said, because that tells me that it had never occurred to you that what you posted would have appeared to have been in bad faith – and that's the person I know you to be. But I'm 100% certain that there are editors who would hold this against you. That's why I said that I wanted you to hear it from me, ahead of time, instead of being blindsided by it during the appeal.
So here are the things that I'd suggest you consider doing. First, take on board that what you posted, no matter how well-intentioned, can be taken to mean something bad-faith by editors, and be alert to that going forward. (Yes, aromatherapy is not in GENSEX, but gender-based descriptions of people are, and that was in the edit that you noted.) You did not know about that particular language when you posted that note to yourself, but now you do. Some people are sensitive about it, and they have legitimate reasons for that concern. As for what to leave here on your talk page, you might consider striking through that post, instead of deleting it. That's up to you. I would suggest leaving this discussion here, because you will be able to cite it as evidence that you have already engaged with the issue, and (as of the time of the appeal) will be ready to go forward, having already learned what the community wanted you to learn. --Tryptofish (talk) 23:40, 6 January 2025 (UTC)
As always, I'm grateful for your thoughts. I shall draft a statement here in the next couple of days. Roxy the dog 23:41, 8 January 2025 (UTC)