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I like and respect all three of you, in different ways. And all three of you have histories that merit a degree of modesty and circumspection. Please shake cyberhands, mutually declare this thread closed, and demonstrate that good faith well placed by taking your concerns to a venue that's more likely to resolve the matter productively. With best wishes, <font face="Verdana">]</font><sup>'']''</sup> 22:40, 14 April 2009 (UTC) | I like and respect all three of you, in different ways. And all three of you have histories that merit a degree of modesty and circumspection. Please shake cyberhands, mutually declare this thread closed, and demonstrate that good faith well placed by taking your concerns to a venue that's more likely to resolve the matter productively. With best wishes, <font face="Verdana">]</font><sup>'']''</sup> 22:40, 14 April 2009 (UTC) | ||
:Agreed. Once it is clear that this thread is resolved today I will indeed go on a wikibreak to finish my dissertation as I intended to do. If anyone wants to discuss with me if/when I come back in good and constructive faith, I am happy to do so. I just want to be sure that if/when I come back I am not going to be followed around by anyone who has previously been sanctioned for harassment. In the meantime, I have set up ] and ] for feedback from good faith editors. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 22:45, 14 April 2009 (UTC) | :Agreed. Once it is clear that this thread is resolved today I will indeed go on a wikibreak to finish my dissertation as I intended to do. If anyone wants to discuss with me if/when I come back in good and constructive faith, I am happy to do so. I just want to be sure that if/when I come back I am not going to be followed around by anyone who has previously been sanctioned for harassment. In the meantime, I have set up ] and ] for feedback from good faith editors. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 22:45, 14 April 2009 (UTC) | ||
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In over two weeks time I have commented in only ''one'' AfD: ]. And so, what is the most recent edit to that article? See . | |||
*First off, you would think after ], that editor would not make it a point to go after me in the lone AfD I have commented in the past couple of weeks, especially since I made no argument in the numerous AfDs he commented in or started. | |||
*Now, as you can see at , I am fourth in number of edits to that AfD and those in first and second place have 10 or more edits each, whereas I have a mere 3 edits). So, somehow my reply to ONE delete "vote" gets labelled as badgering when others have replied to a few times as many others in that discussion as I have?! Why single someone who is fourth in number of edits and who hasn't replied to anywhere near as many others in the discussion as those with the most edits? And again, especially given the recent ANI debate? | |||
*On a second look, is even meant as a serious contribution? Aside from the use of ] and ] style of non-arguments, is using antagonistic phrasing like "this piece of shite article" really necessary? And what's with the "teh good reazons twoz delete; juz dooz-zit." Are we editing an encyclopedia as mature adults participating in a serious discussion or what? | |||
*Now, I know some don't like me and probably don't care if someone goes after me, but there have been more disruptive/pointed edits beyond the above and thus beyond me: | |||
**See ] (even A Man In Black, hardly an inclusionist told him to “knock it off”) | |||
**See (giving a suspected sock account a barnstar accomplishes what? Even if we aren't sympathetic towards sock accounts, how does mockingly giving one a barnstar improve the project? What is the point?) | |||
**See (is this even meant to be a serious argument…note edit summary in addition to the ] argument to avoid?) | |||
**Not sure if the edit summaries here are supposed to be funny or what: , , , | |||
**See (accusing those who defend fiction articles of merely "prattling on about whatever franchise has ensnared them as a means to vicariously participate in the story"--that's a great way to look at our ]!) | |||
I once again must appeal to point five at ]. I am absolutely baffled that after the recent ANI thread he would actually go after me in the one and only AfD I bother to comment in in the past couple of weeks. Unbelievable. I strongly urge the community to reconisder supporting at least ], if not ]. How much more of the above are we as a community really going to put up with? You would have thought that after that last and recent ANI thread, he would have either totally disengaged from me as I made sure not to comment in or rescue tag the AfDs he started, but instead not only comments in the same AfD as me, but to me in a bizarre manner and then uses a swear-worded stance that is hardly conducive to a civil discussion. And as indicated above, there are indeed other examples of less than productive or non-pointed editing since that ANI thread. I am at my wits end. I don't know what more to do here. I limited my replies in the AfD to only one editor's comment that I thought weak; I avoided rescue templating or arguing in the Honorverse AfDs JM started and we still get the above. I hate posting on ANI again, but I'm not interested in seeing if it's going to continue. None of us should have to keep putting up with this. Please help. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 08:13, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:5,531 bytes. I'll admit that I didn't read a word of it. But as someone who is entirely uninvolved in this drama, I'll offer a suggestion. Perhaps your time is better served improving these articles you continually vote to keep rather than posting here? Just my two cents. --] (]) 08:33, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::Which is ... Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 08:37, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:Good God, do you have to bring every single case where Jack even playfully slights you to ANI? If you can't deal with that of all things, grow a skin. It's not harassment of any kind, and is even insulting to the spirit of the term harassment and the serious connotations it carries. If we're to have any proposal, is to ban both of you from reporting to ANI and restrict all complaints to Jack's mentors, whom I trust a lot more than you to know when to make a post to ANI when the situation is serious and needs outside comment. On top of all that, saying something is "not notable" in an AfD '''is not a bad thing no matter how much you think it is''' and certainly is not an offense of any sort. — <font face="Segoe Script">]</font> <font face="Verdana"><sup>'''(])'''</sup></font> 08:35, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:::If he is unwilling to leave me alone and to contribute constructively, the community should take action. I am not interested in just sitting passively by while someone who was unblocked under a strict condition to make NO disruptive edits sees fits to go after me in the only AfD I commented in two weeks time, to come at me in an accusatory manner when if anything at least two other editors replied to way more editors in the discussion, and to test the community's patience by making other unconstructive posts. Point 5 of the ArbCom either has meat and meaning or it doesn't. No, I don't want to just watch this go on and on. The community should have either endorsed the mutual avoidance last time or the reban proposal, because it is plainly obvious that things are not otherwise getting better. And I would hope you could look past any dislike of me of shooting the messenger as it were. I am here to contribute to what should be mature and academic discussions, not writing in "lulz", not calling our volunteers "prattlers", not calling their contributions "shite". It's not about me, but about adding to a needlessly antagonistic and unpleasant environment for our community as a whole. And we should do something now rather than just let things get worse. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 08:44, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::::Except that you're so caught up in this perceived conflict that you can't differentiate between an innocuous and trivial comment and one that was genuinely harassment or disruptive. None of these are, although I'd like it if he didn't completely butcher the English language in the process. One would think that you'd learn what constitutes a proper ANI post at this point; you would have a lot more success in getting what you want if you were able to make a concise post that concentrated on significant disruption and not trivial stuff like this. — <font face="Segoe Script">]</font> <font face="Verdana"><sup>'''(])'''</sup></font> 08:54, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:::::He was unblocked on the agreement to make NO disruptive edits, not even what you perceive as "trivial" disruptive edits. Ergo he has violated, once again, the arbcom unblock agreement. Seriously, if you were subject of a dispute thread, wouldn't you make it a point if you saw your opponent comment in only one AfD in a couple of weeks time after that ANI thread to say err on the side of avoiding that one discussion? Who wouldn't?! And again, do you really think his giving a sock account a barnstar, even for "humourous" purposes actually adds something to Misplaced Pages? I don't mind good faith editors calling me out and challenging me to be a better editor. I obviously disagree with Sgereuka in that AfD, but he made a comprehensive nomination and did try a redirect first per ]. Thus, I can engage with him as an academic. How can any of us have a serious discussion with a "article is shite", those who defend it are "prattlers"? A number of editors have this misconception that I simply dislike deletion based arguments when more so than anything else, it's ''how'' one argues. And writing in this strange manner as what I cited above, does not allow for the advancement of a productive, academic discussion. And making it a point to go after someone after a divisive ANI thread is just mind-boggling. Could you imagine if after that ANI thread, I made it a point to say mock him specifically in the various AfDs he started and commented in since? Are you sure no one would see that as problematic? Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 09:02, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::::::Uh, you didn't address anything in my post. I don't know why I bother any more. Also, are you really rehashing your old JNN/PERNOM arguments for AfDs as Verbal notes below? Do you really have a stalker problem? I mean, your userpage is now the same, all your old behavior is back, and whatnot. I'm strongly feeling that there's no need to honor anything you say about this anymore if you don't care about your own safety. — <font face="Segoe Script">]</font> <font face="Verdana"><sup>'''(])'''</sup></font> 09:09, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:::::::Sephiroth, please stop trying to derail these discussions. We want this dispute resolved, right? It is clear and undeniable that 1) we recently had a rather divisive ANI thread about my and his interactions and in that discussion many suggested we avoid each other; as such, I commented in one AfD since and didn't comment in the many he commented in and certainly not to him; why then would he comment to me in the lone AfD I commented in since? 2) he agreed to be unblocked and to make NO disruptive edits, so then why have to be told by A Man In Black to "knock it off" in a discussion? Why see fit to give a sock account a barnstar? Why accuse good faith contributors of essentially arguings so that they can be part of fantasies? Why make an argument needlessly antagonistic by calling the article "shite"? Again, please look past whatever your opinion is of me, because I don't want this resolved just for my sake, but for the commmunity's sake. I wouldn't risk continuing to edit here, if I didn't seriously think Misplaced Pages was worth it. I believe in this project; I think it has a real potential to contribute to humanity's catalogging of human knowledge and it pains me to see the community being played in the above described manner. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 09:16, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::::::::You're still not bothering to address my post, so I don't see it as necessary to address your points either. I haven't seen anything on why this is non-trivial and why this is suddenly a blockable offense or something violating his ArbCom restrictions. — <font face="Segoe Script">]</font> <font face="Verdana"><sup>'''(])'''</sup></font> 09:29, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:::::::::The arbcom agreement says "no disruptive edits." It does not say, "okay, well, so long as some people think they are trivial disruptive edits." Making a point of going after someone fresh off of a big ANI thread that resulted in even a spinout ANI thread is NOT a way to resolve tensions, but rather an attempt at escalation. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 09:56, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:::: As the target of the comment from a nobody, I would appreciate it if he (and others) stopped this inane badgering at AfDs. The lack of good faith and civility is poisoning the atmosphere. ] <small>]</small> 08:50, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::::: I forgot: Sincerely, ] <small>]</small> | |||
::::::Afds are discussions and not votes. People interact in discussions. People's stances are challenged in discussions. But in any event, if you think they shouldn't be discussions, but rather votes, then that is a discussion for ] as here we are discussing an ongoing and long unresolved dispute and it is best that we not side track it. Best, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 08:55, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::::::: "Discussions"is correct, but your haranguing, lack of good faith, incivility, and self-rigtiousness do you more harm than good. I have changed my mind on AfDs (in both directions) following improvements or arguments on the AfD, but when you badger someone with your soundbites that are only tangentially relevant you make it harder for me to agree with your view, as I have to overcome the intense dislike you're fostering with your behaviour. Make your point in your own !vote, and ask people to clarify or bring up a point if they are egregiously wrong, but to badger as your edits do is counter-productive and irritating. If anything comments like Jack's in response help to defuse and calm the situation - I know it calmed my initial reaction to your poorly thought through comment on my !vote. Interactions should be collegial. Stick to discussions, not dogma. ] <small>]</small> 09:02, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:::::::::If you think my one reply to your one comment in one discussion is badgering then you do not know what badgering is. And if you think by contrast, his replying to me after an ANI thread in which many editors supported neither of us comment to each other at all in AfDs is helpful then I don't know what to tell you. And yes, when one such as I makes efforts to improve an article, it is indeed frustrating to see ] style comments that say nothing about the changes made since nomination, especially when they follow , i.e. you support a block for canvassing when as far as we can tell, no one actually commented in the AfD from the three pages where Ikip mentioned it, where by contrast it is likely that you and perhaps a couple others came across the AfD because of the ANi thread concerning that now undone block. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 09:10, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:::::::::: Note: AfDs, plural. This is one example. I also didn't say canvassing, my understanding was that gaming was part of the problem; but this isn't related. It ceases to amaze me that people who file ANI notices of this kind are often the guilty party. ] <small>]</small> 10:16, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
*'''Comment''': I with much displeasure have started this thread now knowing some will likely jump on me raher than see the message, because it is clear that the previous ANI thread resolved nothing and as such, not for my sake, but for the community's sake, it is far better we definitively resolve this dispute now rather than let it escalate any further. I appeal to the three arbcom mentors to determine whther or not this should continue here for community resolution or if rather it should be discussed on arbitration enforcement. As my self-deprecating username suggests, I am not editing here for myself, but because I believe Misplaced Pages potentially serves humanity in general. As such, I am even willing to pledge to take a real break from this site for a time so as to help deescalate things and when/if I come back to focus on DYKs and the like as I've pretty much had my fill of AfDs, partially why I've only commented in one in two weeks' time and only rescued that one article. People should be able to edit this site without having their good faith contributions called a "", having their motivations for editing be described as "," etc. or for someone who has been to somehow see it a worthwhile use of time here to give a suspected sock account a . It is unfortunate that I have my own perception by many of me here that I fear clouds the validity of my request. Please, don't put up with this stuff, because it's an opportunity to go against me, but because the diffs I cite above actually do create a poisonous and unwelcoming atmoshphere for others beyond me and because given the agreement to make NO (without exceptions) disruptive edits, that there would be even questionable disruptive edits makes a mockery of that good faith unblock request and those who supported it. You don't need to care if I feel insulted. I'm a nobody. But it's not just me who is being insulted by the above cited diffs. And it's not me who is effectively being slapped in the face by having them made. And I implore anyone who is neutral to sift beyond whatever partisanship comes up here. Surely, some impartial arbcom members can do that. Please resolve this dispute now. Please do not allow it to get derailed again. Thank you for your time and help. Respectfully, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 09:56, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
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:I have posted about a half dozen diffs of disruptive/unconstructive/escalatory edits in various places above and I am confident that no neutral editor with no past involvement with me will see the totality of them as anything but a collective violation of point 5 of the arbcom agreement. This time, even more so than the last time, it is fortunately obvious, and as such I am much more confident that neutral parties and/or the three arbcom appointed mentors will indeed do something to prevent this dispute from needlessly escalating any further. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 10:06, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::Well bringing here as disruption, harassment or both is certainly what I would call "escalating". <span style="border-left: 1px solid #c30; padding: 3px;">]</span><sub style="background-color: #ffc; color: #c30;">].</sub> 10:09, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:::I don't want play games and wait and see to what degree this stuff is going to continue. I would much rather we put a stop to this dispute right here and now than just allow for swipes to continue and build over time. We can minimize the disruption by accomplishing what the first ANI thread failed to do. I have commented in one AFD since that last ANI thread and naturally he sees fit to comment to me in that lone AfD thread while in his delete "vote" saying the article is "shite" and saying it exists for the sake of "fans of a hottie prattling-online," which patently insults the various editors who worked in good faith on the article and who defended it in the AfD. Making a blanket assertion about our contributors is insulting. Seeing fit to go after me in first and only AfD I comment in since the last ANI thread is an ominous sign. We already had one ANI thread that was pretty massive and so, why allow things to build again? Why not just deal with it not, before it gets any further out of hand elsewhere? Let's iron it out here on ANI, rather then see AfDs or anywhere else be disrupted by a totally unnecessary dispute. He has three arbcom appointed mentors. He has an agreement not to make any disruptive edits. Doesn't that agreement have some teeth? And I don't want the precedent to be set that it's okay if I get bullied, because if we allow that, then it sets the stage the same happening to others. Regards, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 10:28, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::You've posted a half dozen...and just like last time, only one is relevant. What are we supposed to make of the 3-4 "is this edit summary supposed to be humorous?" diffs? What are we supposed to do with ? That's not him harassing you or him being disruptive. Remember our conversation last time? That you will gain more from honestly presenting a small number of issues than inflating them into something they are not? ] (]) 10:13, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:::If even one you think is relevant, then it is still a violation of point 5. Sincerley, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 10:28, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::::That's not my point. Multiple people have asked you not to come to AN/I with posts that are essentially throwing everything you have at a wall and seeing what sticks. I'm not particularly concerned about the diff you mentioned. I can't for the life of me see how it is the end of the world for you to be told that JNN/PERNOM copy/paste responses are badgering. People have been trying to tell you that for YEARS (literally). And don't respond with "but JNN/PERNOM votes are..." I don't want to get into that discussion. In my opinion, your one cited diff was fairly benign. So no, I don't agree that it was a violation of point 5. ] (]) 10:32, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:::::You would think after such a discussion as ], in the only AFD I commented in since that thread, he would not in that discussion, while saying say nothing to anyone else there. Seriously now. How many editors commented in that AfD? Why would someone who earlier this month many editors supported he and I avoid each other or if we comment in the same AfDs not comment to each other see fit to of all the participants in the AfD to only comment to me? Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 10:37, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::::::I can only note that Jack refused to agree to that compromise mutual topic ban so it doesn't have any bearing on the subject. I have an alternative view. Jack is being impish. He intends to needle you up to the point of frustration, which unfortunately for you seems to be a relatively low threshold. What he's not doing is harassing you or disrupting the project. Making an offhand comment designed to rile you up isn't harassment (as you have noted in the past when people have accused YOU of harassment). Relentlessly following your contributions, stalking you (or whatever we call it now), reverting your edits, refactoring your comments, etc. THOSE are signs of harassment. Again, taking a comment like his and making a production out of it isn't going to win converts. Eventually, the list of people who will diligently read through each diff and judge it on its merits will dwindle and people will have heard you cry wolf enough. I'm not "neutral", so I can't say that definitively, but that's what it looks like from here. ] (]) 10:47, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::::::::Well, why antagonize someone by "needling them up to the point of frustration"? And as far as relentlessly following my contributions goes, as you can easily see, I haven't edited as much since that ANI blowout. There are a few days I didn't edit at all. Indeed, I only edited in one AfD since then and so, there really wasn't much to follow around since then, but the one thing that I did focus on, i.e. rescuing that one article, is where he did indeed see fit to comment to me and only to me and no one else. I would much rather this not be an ongoing trend when I by contrast didn't see fit to even rescue template all those Honorverse articles he AfDed. But again, I'm not sure why you don't see the other evidence above problematic. To take the Socratic approach... What is the point of giving a suspected sock a barnstar? How does that improve Misplaced Pages? What is the point of calling the article "a piece of shite" rather than criticizing it in a more articulate and less inflammatory way? What is the point of in two AfDs calling those who write/defend these articles "prattlers"? How does such a designation reach out to those volunteer contributors? How are these edits not unproductive? What do they actually do to improve Misplaced Pages? Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 10:54, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::::::::::Who knows why? But it is a stretch to go from one diff to say that he's stalking your contributions. The fact that you have editing little since the last AN/I would make it easier for us to make that claim but it can't possibly make it so easy that one response is sufficient. As for your litany of questions--I DONT CARE. I suspect few others do as well. I can't imagine a smaller thing to get worked up about then whether or not Jack has given a barnstar to a sock or not. I also note AGAIN that you are bringing up tangential issues and presenting them as core problems. It is most certainly not harassment for Jack to have an intemperate opinion of an article which is at variance to yours. Likewise I should hope that you would be the '''first''' to defend someone's views of content being separated from their conduct, right? Either the sole new diff you provided was sufficient to present an incident requiring administrator action or it wasn't. Rehashing old issues or conflating non-issues with issues won't hold water. 11:03, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:::::::::::It shows that even after that ANI thread and even with me not commenting to him, he will indeed be sure that even if I comment in but one AfD, he too will not only comment in it, but to me, and only to me and as such, it is clear that barring an admin tells him to avoid me, he won't, but here's the fun part, an admin did , and he didn't. In fact, even after the last ANI thread, I reduce my editing, only try rescuing one article and commenting in one AfD, but still there he is to go after me and in the process call the article I worked to rescue "a piece of shite" and those who defend it, which means not just me, "prattlers." And yes, I think the good faith editors who worked on the article and who argued to keep it don't much appreciate having the work and motivations dismissed in such a manner. You may not care, but perhaps they do. Perhaps our volunteers aren't going be encouraged to contribute if their just dismissed and insulted. So, if he's alreeady ignoring Casliber's warning to leave me alone, and further doing so after the previous ANI thread and with me not replying to him anywhere, I don't know what more it's going to take? Is he going to comment to me in every AfD I comment in? Does he not care if admins warn him about anything? And really, you can probably imagine, I certainly would have liked to say more in that AfD, but thought, no, you know what, this time, I will only reply to those who reply to me and maybe make one other reply to someone else. From here on out, I will reisist, as I did, replying to everyone of an opposing viewpoint. I try to change my approach and even then, I get singled out. Who would want to put up with that? Who would want to just ignore it and watch as it continues as Casliber's warning is just essentially laughed off and yeah, I would say accusing those who defend fiction articles as being mere "prattlers" is hardly tangential, because I defend such articles, and so it is indeed an insult to me as well as the other keeps in those AfDs. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 11:17, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::::::::::::I'm not convinced that his view of an article is somehow a special slight to you. Most of what you said directly above has been said before and is so intertwined with the inclusion/deletion mess that I don't think a neutral person could reliably judge its relevance. And I've said in the past thread that I think he should avoid you. I'll go further. If he persists in antagonizing you, he should be blocked. '''However''' I still think you are misrepresenting the scope of the problem and in doing so damage your own case. Multiple people, in this thread, have asked you to stop conflating views on content with harassment and yet you persist. YOU have escaped sanction in past AN/I threads by the skin of your teeth because people have been willing to grant you a great deal of leeway in order to avoid punishing you for your views. You ''specifically'' should avoid characterizing his comments about articles as harassment directed at you or if not harassment something worthy of umbrage. All that was required here was 1-2 sentences noting that diff and asking for some relief. ] (]) 11:37, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:::::::::::::I am pretty sure that in this ANI thread I did not use the word "harassment." As no, I am certainly not alleging he is doing anything off wiki against me. And as far as views goes, this is not merely inclusionism/deletionist. I don't think deletionists are "prattlers" and I wouldn't label them as much. I disagree with a deletionist philosophy, sure, but I see no need to comment on the ''editors'' in the AfD. Arguments, sure, but my umbrage is not with his believing the article should be deleted, but that those who worked on it or who think it should be kept are some kind of non-worthwhile entities which he labelled as "prattlers" in at least two different AfDs. And yeah, I am frustrated because an admin, Casliber, has already warned him to leave me alone and he didn't. So, I started one ANI thread and it devolved into I don't even know what to call it. And after that, I made no on wiki comments to him (nor on Misplaced Pages Review or anything). Yet, I comment in one AfD and sure enough he comments to no on else in it but only to me. And yes, after having already been warned by an admin to leave me alone. So, if someone has been warned by an admin to leave someone else alone and doesn't, then what the heck? If someone disregards an admin's warning, especially an arbcom appointed mentor admin, I don't if a firmer warning should be given or what, but in any event, as I propose below, after this thread is archived, hopefully, a much more sterner community agreement will be made that precludes him from hounding me any further and discourages me on the reverse from starting these threads. I hope that after two ANI threads now, you and everyone else will indeed look at any future antagonism by either party very sternly. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 11:49, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::::::::::::::We shant review all of your pleasant commentary about deletionists. But if the heart of the matter is his refusal to abide by Casilber's warning, then ask Casilber to put some force behind it. I'm not willing to read a sentence with the word "please" in it as a dictum, so I won't interpret it and block accordingly. Only Casilber knows exactly what he wrote there. If he wants to block or propose blocking JM based on this issue, then ask him and have him propose it. ] (]) 11:55, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
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; tl;dr: A Nobody really needs to take ] up on his <span class="plainlinks"></span> to start an email dialogue; I did and we're waiting for his input. Seems that he's only interested in kicking-up more drama, which needs to stop. At this point I'd be on solid ground making a harassment case against him. And where's my ani notice about this? Cheers, ] 10:15, 27 April 2009 (UTC)<br />See also: ] — A Nobody's 'rules' for whom is welcome to offer suggestions and, more to the point, who is not. Seems he has about a half dozen allusions to me as someone unwelcome. Obviously I, and a hoard of others, will oppose any RfA. Duh. It seems to me that his rules amount to a series of digs at me and an offer of bait for a round of ani drama such as this one. I've focused on content since the last dust-up. Sure I took a few of the unworthy to the block, but I've also created new articles (and the pic) such as the water temple. I've been ] building ] for rivers. I also have done some <span class="plainlinks"></span> to the non-notable 'Honorverese' dreck. Cheers, ] 11:46, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
While A Nobody has brought one diff to the table, in the last 10 days Jack Merridew has , mostly in the Fiction AFDs. When viewed from that perspective, 1% doesnt seem like grounds for complaint. If it was on an AFD topic that Jack Merridew doesnt often go to, I might see your point, but Jack does seem rather fond of voting delete on most Fiction related AFDs. I've tried to convincing him that he should vote keep on them, and maybe even clean them up, but he has yet to see the light. Has there been other diffs where the paths have crossed in that timeframe? <span style="font-variant:small-caps">] <sup>'''(])'''</sup></span> 10:20, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:: <span class="plainlinks">I did ] the other day and if anyone ever AfDs that, I'll be sure to work to ] it. This isn't about 'fiction', it's about inappropriate articles and my new ].<sup>]</sup></span> — Cheers, ] 10:59, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:I have avoided commenting in and obviously to him in the various AfDs he has started or commented in since the previous ANI thread. I comment in one thread and he not only comments in it, but to me as well and again, this follows on a thread in which a proposal that we avoid each other had more supports than not. You would think just as I refrained from commenting in the AfDs he commented in, he would not see fit to make it a point to comment to me in the one that I commented in. And again, I am not simply concerned here about this interest in me, but also in this bad faith accusing of editors who work on fiction articles. Look, all I want is for it to be clear that if I am not going to be going after him in AfDs, there is absolutely no need for him to go after me. And moreover, if there is an agreement that he should make no disruptive edits, then, he shouldn't be giving blocked socks barnstars, calling people's good faith contributions "shite" or calling those he disagrees with "prattlers". Why is it necessary to comment to NO ONE else in an AfD but me? Why say I am badgering when I replied to ONE other editor, yet the nominator and someone else replied to 10 editors a piece? Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 10:28, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:: Outside question. Since you keep pointing to the ] proposal, what do you think about point 3, "''Starting any AN, AN/I, AN3, WQA, RFC, RFARB cases or threads about each other without the blessing and approval, onwiki, of a neutral admin''"? Have you done that here or is it just Jack's conduct at issue? I know none were passed, but even under the particular language of point 4, "''Commenting on AFDs or article-rescues started by the other''", Jack hasn't violated that. Are we supposed to punish him for violating a requirement nobody suggested (under a proposal he wouldn't agree to) when you went against an explicit proposed requirement you supported? -- ] (]) 10:57, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:::My concern is that I have largely laid low since that ANI thread. There's a few days since that I even made no edits. So, in the time, I did rescue one article and defend it in an AfD. And I made sure to avoid any articles or AfDs he was in. Yet, of the dozen or so editors who commented in the one AfD I participated in since that ANI thread, he only sees fit to comment to me in that discussion and then makes a "vote" where he calls the article that I and others worked on a "piece of shite" and those who defended it are dismissed as "prattlers," a condescending term he used in another AfD as well. If in the only one article I tried to rescue since and the one AfD I comment in since the previous ANI thread, he sees me as the only person in that AFD worth commenting to, my concern is that it is a sign of things to come, i.e. even if I don't comment to him or even in the same AfDs as him, he will nevertheless still go after me and only me for that matter while making "votes" that essentially insult our contributors and their contributions. On as big a place as Misplaced Pages is and if I can resist commenting to him in AfDs or even slapping rescue templates on AfDs he nominates, then there's just no valid reason why of all the participants in the sole AfD I comment in in two weeks, I am the only one he must respond to. I don't want this to continue in any manner beyond this ANI thread and I'd rather not just sit back and watch the replies pile up in AfDs even if it would give me some kind of stronger case in the future, I'd rather it be nipped in the bud now and given the additional element of calling those who defend fiction articles mere "prattlers", that is something that should be addressed sooner rather than later. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 11:06, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
I'm sorry, A Nobody, but I honestly can't see you have a case either for harassment or disruption, and the spatter of irrelevant diffs just weaken your position further. I think you are disposed to see any interaction with Jack as harassment. Have you e-mailed SBJohnny as suggested at the previous ANI? <span style="border-left: 1px solid #c30; padding: 3px;">]</span><sub style="background-color: #ffc; color: #c30;">].</sub> 11:20, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:Enough was going on earlier this year that culminated in by his arbcom appointed mentor who is also an admin. Following that comment by his arbcom mentor to "leave me alone", he continued to see fit to not do so in various places (for example, , --and no, I was not talking about him, , etc.), which resulted in the first unresolved ANI thread after which I greatly reduced my editing and only defended one article from deletion. In that lone AFD I comment in since, he but me, bearing in mind that enough was going on pre-April that he had already been advised to leave me alone. And then given, the first ANI thread and my avoiding saying anything after him in any AfDs, you'd think there'd be nothing else. Thus, I believe the below solution is the best way to avoid any further tensions. No playing games trading emails, no need for extensive mediation. Just plain and simple on a site with 2 million articles, we avoid each other. AfDs and RfAs thus will not be marred by any animosity between us that distracts from the article or candidate under discussion. No need for additional ANI, etc. And my concern is largely given what he did to White Cat that resulted in his sanctioning, there are signs of it starting with me. I do not want to take on that role. I can leave him alone, he should be able to do the same. Let's move on. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 12:17, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
A quick note, since I was mentioned. If I thought JM merited a block for his post at ], I would have made that block. If someone feels that that comment crossed a line and feels that JM should be blocked for it, that's their business, but I don't want to see my comments misused further, thanks. Please do not involve me or my comments in this nonsense. - ] <small>(] - ])</small> 08:32, 28 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
===Proposal=== | |||
I am not sure if we can just do this here or if it requires arbitration, but to make it clear that this dispute ends in this thread, I propose and obviously endorse the following for the good of the community: | |||
*1. ] and ] agree to completely avoid each other on Misplaced Pages English pages. No confrontational editing the same pages (not a big deal if we happen uppon the same article without noticing the edit history and say make a lone grammar improvement), no comments about each other by name or innuendo. No harassment of each other in other venues. This restriction will be interpreted in the broadest way with no allowance for any attempt to skirt the restriction in any manner. | |||
*2. A Nobody and Jack Merridew are hereby completely forbidden from: | |||
**2a. Commenting to each other anywhere onwiki, including each others' talkpages, with the sole exception of formulaic community-mandated notifications; | |||
**2b. Commenting about each other anywhere onwiki, with the sole exception of responding to AN, AN/I, AN3, WQA, RFC, RFARB cases brought by the other; | |||
**2c. Starting any AN, AN/I, AN3, WQA, RFC, RFARB cases or threads about each other. )This time around, enough eyes should be on us, that I trust someone will take notice if either party goes after the other beyond this thread and as such let someone familiar with react accordingly). | |||
**2d. Commenting on AFDs or article-rescues started by the other--e.g., A.Nobody tags an article for rescue, Jack Merridew must stay away from both the article and the AFD discussion. Likewise, Jack starts an AFD, A.Nobody must stay away from both the article and the AFD discussion. It should be emphasised that in light of the other above points, any attempt by either of these two to game the proposed restrictions via baiting, veiled references, or any other type of wikilawyering end-run should be viewed extremely dimly by admins. Infractions to be met by the usual series of escalating blocks. ADDED: To put it in a much simpler way, the two of them be told to stay away from each other, permanently. | |||
**2e. Neither editor nominate articles for deletion for which the other editor created or significantly worked on. | |||
Let's put a stop to this dispute here and now. No more antagonism in AfDs, no more ANI threads. Misplaced Pages has over 2 million articles. I avoided commenting in and trying to rescue his Honorverse AfDed articles, there's no urgent need for him to have to go after any ones I work on either. There is no real reason why any two editors on such a big project cannot agree to avoid each other. Clearly, the community is not interested in AfD antagnoism, and clearly it is not interested in any further ANI threads between us. Let's put a stop to all of this and get back to improving the project. And the above is far and away the best way forward. No need to play games trading emails, no need to discuss fine points. I tried reaching out to him in the past, was rebuffed. We tried with Casliber firmly saying to stay away. That didn't work either. So, let's just make it a clear and umabgiguous avoidance per the above and that's that. No more escalation, accusations, or anything else. The community will be far better for it. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 11:33, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
: Since 2c was proposed at ] last time, and you supported it then while ignoring it just now, how am I supposed to believe you'll do anything but support it again and ignore it again next time? -- ] (]) 11:44, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:: I'd generally support it but if you won't follow suggestions by others and won't follow promises you made before (let's not even get into the whole RTV thing about promises and allegations you've made before), the community is supposed to trust that ''this time'', you are being serious and not just flailing accusations at everyone who disagrees with you until they leave? The last character doing that stuff I saw ended up with a one-year community ban. -- ] (]) 11:47, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:::As you said above, the previous proposal was not marked as "resolved", "approved," etc. So, even though I wanted them supported, I was hardly bound by them. By contrast, Jack did have a separate talk page warning from Casliber (arbcom mentor) to leave me alone, which was actually ignored and as such, that's why I am here, i.e. he was warned to leave me alone and isn't. Now, this time around, if all the points above are closed as "passed" by the community, whether any one party really wants to keep after the other for whatever unjustifiable reason, well, obviously both parties will have to abide by them or face being blocked. I am hoping that this time, with two ANI threads, enough editors will have seen them that if a pattern of going after me persists, there wouldn't be any need for me to ask for help as enough editors will be aware to take action themselves. Surely after this thread and when the above proposal is passed, someone will take notice if in AfDs they start seeing antagonistic replies to me. As I said previously, there is no legitimate reason why anyone would be so fixated on someone else on Misplaced Pages that they could not totally disengage from them. So, yeah, if the above is actually passed this time, you will not see any ANI threads from me, because I trust someone else will notice or keep an eye on our edits for any violations and will do something accordingly. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 11:59, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
* Or we could focus in the relentless drama-seeking and disruption on your part. Cheers, ] 11:55, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
*: ...and that comment helped to resolve the issue how? (]<span style="border:1px solid black;">''' ] '''</span>]) 12:05, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
*:: It puts the proper issue forward. The whole bit above is a rehash of ]. A Nobody is focused on extending my editing restrictions. I expect that this go-round, the concerns that many have about him will result in a rather stiffer proposal that adheres to him alone. Cheers, ] 12:12, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
===Proposal 2=== | |||
*Jack Merridew, leave A Nobody alone, don't comment on him, reply to him, or try to needle him otherwise. With your past, you don't get to behave like any other editor, you have to be a much better editor than most, with special attention to your interactions with other editors, to counterbalance your history. | |||
*A Nobody, ignore Jack and his comments, spare the community the drama of making a molehill out of a single reply to an AfD post you made, and don't repeat proposals which were not agreed upon two weeks before and which you don't follow either. And stop posting essay links in AfD discussions as if they are policy, even when they are hardly relevant. ] (]) 12:17, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::I can agree to that if it is clear that anyone paying attention will take action if the above is ignored, i.e. yeah, okay, I won't start threads here, if after this thread is archived I'm not hounded any further by him and if I am anyone who notices, whether it's you, Protonk, Casliber, etc. does something about it. And I'd rather it be clear as well that not just me, but anyone who does defend these fiction articles are not denigrated as "" and "." I think none of our contributors need be dismissed or insulted in such fashion. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 12:25, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
*'''Support''' --] (]) 12:26, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
*'''Comment''' by slipping in that "hounded any further" clause you are claiming that it is self-evident you have been hounded. There is no evidence for this. As far as shite, prattling, doe-eyed hotties etc goes - this is certainly robust language and some may see it as uncivil but I don't think it harasses anyone nor is it particularly disruptive. <span style="border-left: 1px solid #c30; padding: 3px;">]</span><sub style="background-color: #ffc; color: #c30;">].</sub> 12:30, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
**He did enough earlier this year to be told by his arbcom appointed mentor to leave me alone. Yet, he continued to make digs at me and only me in RfAs, AfDs, etc. In the only AfD I commented in since the last ANI, I am the ONLY editor he commented directly to. Why only comment to me and no one else? Why if told in March by Casliber to leave me alone, not do that? The bottom line is clear that if the community asserts we must avoid each other, the community will be better for it, because it precludes any room for the dispute to escalate beyond this thread. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 12:36, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
*'''Comment''' As needed as the last sentence of A Nobody's half of the bargain is, I feel compelled to point out that it isn't terribly germane to the matter at hand. I should also note that apart from that last sentence, this proposal and the last one are identical (if you strip the faux legal jargon from the last proposal). Just figured I would point that out. ] (]) 12:38, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
**I just wanted to indicate that the less you needlessly annoy people (by being uncivil like Jack Merridew in some cases, or by responding with the same irrelevant essays as if they are policy like A Nobody in some cases), the less other people will feel the need to reply accordingly, and the more chance you have of a sympathetic ear when you are complaining about these replies. ] (]) 12:45, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
***Fair enough. ] (]) 12:49, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
*Fram's proposal makes a lot of sense. ] (]) 13:00, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
*'''Oppose''' Not very enforceable on A Nobody's end. A mutual topic ban is tricky to enforce, but compare that to coming to AN/I and being asked to block A Nobody for violating the last sentence of this little agreement. That will go down like a lead balloon, regardless of who agrees to it today. Though I will reverse my opinion if this proposal garners enough support to simply apply it to JM and not merely suggest it. ] (]) 15:02, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
*'''Support''' - Fram hit the nail on the head. ] (]) 15:08, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
*'''Support''' as proposed by Fram, as an interim measure while they are working things out for the longer term via e-mail, mediated by ]<small> (assuming he's still up for it)</small> as recommended at the last AN/I. <span style="border-left: 1px solid #c30; padding: 3px;">]</span><sub style="background-color: #ffc; color: #c30;">].</sub> 15:23, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
*: I'll certainly agree to this sort of thing as an interim measure if it will get A Nobody to the table. That's been understood all along. Cheers, ] 15:38, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
=== Proposal 3 :Lock the doors, walk away === | |||
Reinstate Jack's ban, enforce A Nobody's vanishment, and be done with it. This is a dispute between two editors that don't enjoy the normal rights and privileges of a typical editor. Jack Merridew is here after being reinstated from a ban, where one of the primary reasons was the constant taunting of White Cat. I can sympathize with the argument that his treatment of A Nobody looks like that pattern could be starting again. A Nobody vanished ... he invoked his right to vanish, a process which entails actually leaving. A Nobody voluntarily abandoned his ability to edit Misplaced Pages when he did so. He edits only under the tolerance of others. The simplest and most effective way to keep the rest of us from having to deal with disruption caused by these enormous scattershot ANI reports generated by A Nobody over complaints about juvenile taunting by Jack Merridew is to indefinitely block both accounts and walk away.—](]) 16:38, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:I appreciate that your post above is largely fair. I only have two quick notes...1) aside from items that were oversighted, I was essentially unvanished (my talk page history still exists, I have the same block log, etc.). 2) So long as the community makes it clear that neither of us are able to do anything whatsoever to each other that could possible enflame things beyond this ANI thread, really that should be enough to prevent anything further as if either party goes against that, enough eyes have been on this thread that surely someone would do something accordingly. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 16:51, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
*Given Nobody's unwillingness to abide by the editing restrictions he wants enforced, and his refusal to curtail the verbal diarrhea, I would support enforcement of his alleged vanishing. No comment on Jack. //] ] 18:00, 27 April 2009 (UTC)</small> | |||
**I absolutely agree to the proposal you suggested last time so long as it is clear that I will not be fixated on by this editor any further. Remember, I didn't comment to or about him since the previous ANI thread until he saw fit to reply to me and only me in the lone AfD I commented in since. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 18:05, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
**''Reinstate Jack's ban, enforce A Nobody's vanishment, and be done with it.'' Agreed. Both sides seem to want drama. Both have been in trouble before. They're fighting over a spinoff article about a minor TV mini-series. Just block both of them for a few months, so we can do something else. --] (]) 05:53, 28 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
=== 55 kilobytes, and counting === | |||
* One edit warrants all this? Right. This is disruption. It's all of a piece; A Nobody, E&C/E&C 2, Pixelface, Ikip, ARS, fancruft. In the E&C 2 case folks were told to not inflame the situation, and I feel that the defend-at-all-costs crowd has done an awful lot of flame-fanning. This is blowing up every few days now. | |||
* I commented that A Nobody was, yet again, ] folk at AFD. See the <span class="plainlinks"></span> from the badgered editor. No wonder Cas calls AfD the trenches; some are ]. | |||
* It is time for the disruption, the bad faith, the off-topic TL;DRs from A Nobody to end. He had the chance to hash this out with SB_Johnny; still does, I expect. I'll talk. But he doesn't want that; he wants to rally the villagers, and their pitchforks and torches, and burn down the windmill. And he claims to be a 'mature adult<del>s</del> participating in a serious discussion.' These little dramas on ANI are called 'clubbings'. Don't get too caught-up in the ]. | |||
* I'm at UTC+8, which is pretty much day/night inverted from most here; close, at least. It gives one a different perspective. I'm off for the night soon, but many will pick at this ]. Tomorrow, I'll read through all the noise, reverts, collapsing and uncollapsing. Don't have too much fun, ok? And don't reward disruption. | |||
* Cheers, ] 14:37, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
*:Jack Merridew, stop commenting on A Nobody, just leave him completely and utterly alone. There are more than enough editors around who will comment on him or his actions when he goes too far. But you are definitely not the one to be doing this. Drop the comments, drop the attitude, or risk a lengthy block for disruption. A Nobody needs a thicker skin, but there's no need for you to put needles in it anyway. ] (]) 14:42, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
*:Good advice in general, but Jack Merridew '''has''' to be allowed to comment freely here, if nowhere else, surely? This "incident" is after all, ostensibly about him. <span style="border-left: 1px solid #c30; padding: 3px;">]</span><sub style="background-color: #ffc; color: #c30;">].</sub> 14:50, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
*:: I'm off for the night <span class="plainlinks"></span>. Cheers, ] 14:55, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
*::(ec)He is free to comment here, and has done so a number of times. But how is his last comment helping in any way? It is obvious that noone is going to take any direct action against Jack Merridew for this last incident alone, but that most people are quite fed up with the disruption both cause through their actions or their responses to actions of the other. To drag in other editors and projects is not helpful in any way and will only serve to create more drama (and linking drama to Rwandan Genocide is not really helpful either, of course). If both editors back off, here and in general (from one another), then this may get resolved. If they don't, then both editors are risking lengthy blocks for just wasting everbodys time with their actions. And Jack's comment above was a step in the opposite direction, expanding this section into a larger dramafest instead of seeking a resolutionor quietly stepping away. ] (]) 14:59, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
*::: I see the way forward as w/SB_Johnny. I've a dozen emails with him seeking a resolution here. That's what came out of the last attempted lynching. G'night, ] 15:03, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
=== Cutting the Gordian knot === | |||
These threads are coming up too frequently, aren't going anywhere, and are taking up too much administrative time. Although I like and respect both A Nobody and Jack Merridew, we have a shortage of administrators at this site and have to solve this some other way. So proposing a 1-2-3 solution: | |||
# Encourage both Jack and A Nobody to enter mediation. | |||
# Offer to certify a conduct RfC on either of them. | |||
# If another thread like the current one appears on an admin board within two months (long and unactionable) and no other formal dispute resolution has been undertaken, I will open a formal mediation request for the two of them. If that works, wonderful. If it doesn't, the next stop will be RFAR. | |||
Any objections? <font face="Verdana">]</font><sup>'']''</sup> 16:50, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:: Thanks for chipping-in, Durova. | |||
::# I've said I'll talk this through; said so last time, too. I don't see any comment from SB_Johnny re this thread and feel that's the place to start. If that doesn't work out, or A Nobody won't agree to talk,<sup class="plainlinks" style="white-space: nowrap;">but </sup> I'm not opposed to formal mediation. I've never done that; it seems a step often skipped. | |||
::# I've said a number of times the A Nobody needs an RFC/U, as have others, including yourself. As he's said something to the effect that he wouldn't honor or respect one started by the likes of me, I've not gone there. If someone gets it rolling, I'll offer a view. If one is opened re myself, I'll listen, reply, and take the reasonable bits aboard. | |||
::# Your point three could be moot, given my two comments above. I see a problem with your terms which basically invite stonewalling on A Nobody's part followed by another round of ANI Drama. A pity that shortcut was hijacked; it still applies. If he does not agree to any of this, you have my blessing to move sooner than two months. | |||
:: Cheers, ] 08:33, 28 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:It seems relatively simple here that he and I should be able to just avoid each other. We have over two million articles. There's absolutely no reason why any two editors on such a large site must come into contact with each other. If I can refrain from replying to him in the multiple AfDs he started since the last ANI thread, why the need to reply to me and to no one else in the lone AfD I do comment in since? We don't need to go into mediation. The simplest thing would just be for this thread to be marked as resolved under the passage of either of the first two proposals above, i.e. "Both are editors are warned to avoid each other. Administrators familiar with this thread will block ''any'' attempt to escalate tensions again." We shouldn't need anything beyond that. Casliber has already basically said we should leave each other alone. Roux strongly proposed as much last time. Fram proposes as much here as well. There's no need for us to have to iron things out beyond that. We should be able to walk away from each other and work on some of the millions of articles the other isn't working on. And there's no reason why either of us must mention or reply to each other in any RfA or AfD. If after all this, when I want and am willing to not do anything further with regards to him, he still persists in having an interest in me, then I don't know what else to call that. And hopefully after this thread, the community will absolute not see me replying to or commenting to him and by contrast if he does to me, I hope those who participated in this discussion will do something. I don't have a need to start ANI threads if warnings that he leave me alone are followed up on. My hope is that this ANI thread is enough to resolve this here and now. Not take us anywhere else. Here and now the community says, "Enough you two! No more commenting to or about each other. Period." Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 17:00, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::You both should be able to, but obviously are not. More to the point, the community is getting repeated requests for administrative assistance that it cannot really provide--so the groping attempts to provide it are taking up substantial time that would otherwise go into useful endeavors. There are three books on my desk atm about Latin American art and as soon as this post is done I intend to ''include'' content from them in article space <small>hint hint</small>. Can you believe the Peruvian muralist ] is a one sentence substub? He's the subject of a whole chapter in one of these books. Now there has to be a limit to how long the José Sabogals of the world remain underdeveloped in article space. This is more about time management than anything else. The lines need to be drawn somewhere and this seems like the most reasonable way. <font face="Verdana">]</font><sup>'']''</sup> 17:10, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:::Well, not only did I not comment in any of the AFDs he started since the last ANI, I didn't even rescue template them. Why then the need to not only comment in the only AfD I posted in since that thread but to me and only to me? If he didn't do that, and listened to Casliber's talk page plea to "leave me alone", then there would be no ANI thread and I would continue avoiding him. As Kww hints at above, yeah, some may say, "Well, he it's just one AfD comment...", but we're talking about someone who was sanctioned for long-term going after another eidtor (White Cat). Given that, you would think once an admin tells him to leave me alone and he doesn't do so resulting in one ANI thread, why test the waters? My concern here is to stop this now before it goes any further. And all we need is as I say above whatever admin closes this thread to unambiguously state that we are to have nothing to do with each other and violating as much is blockable. I cannot imagine any legitimate reason why anyone could not under such circumstances indeed just walk away from his perceived opponent. We shouldn't need anything more and yes, I would much rather help work on articles than post here, but when someone who was sanctioned for fixating on an editor totally ignores an admin's call that he leaves me alone is incredibly disconcerting and hopefully not the start of a fixation on me. I am willing to take flak and scrutiny from many editors. I am willing to come to terms with many editors, but there is something unsettling with trying that with someone who had to be sanctioned to leave someone else alone. I want to help improve Misplaced Pages, not have to get into these discussions and I want to be sure that given that editors' history there is no chance that I am starting to become the latest target. I want to stop things now before they get any worse. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 17:23, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::::ANI lends itself to cut and dried situations, which this isn't. You can demonstrate that you have good faith by attempting dispute resolution. Maybe that'll work. If it doesn't, and if you've walked the straight and narrow, then you have nothing to fear from arbitration (which is designed to handle the situations that aren't cut and dried). <small>] has three whole sentences now. Pretty soon I'll have time to mention that he was a muralist. ;)</small> <font face="Verdana">]</font><sup>'']''</sup> 17:35, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:::::Durova, I do not see any value or need in dispute resolution beyond this thread. I don't want someone who has a history of long-term fixation on another editor seeing a need to have to interact with me. There's nothing he and I need to work out, just to avoid each other. I would much rather spend time editing articles and not going back and forth in some dispute resolution thread when all we need is for us to leave each other be and for it to be clear that if either party doesn't indeed do that on-wiki then a neutral admin will indeed take action and I think enough neutral admins have seen this discussion that there should be no need for me to have to start any future ANI threads. It's stuff like this that actually does make me question how safe/good of an idea it is to edit here and what kind of environment it actually is. I am distressed that calling those who defend fiction articles as mere "prattlers" is being glossed over for one thing, but look, we know this editor had to be sanctioned by arbcom to leave one editor alone, he was told by one of his arbcom mentors to leave me alone, and yet continued to comment to/about me. We shouldn't put up that at all. And I shouldn't be expected to wait until things get really bad before seeking admin intervention. The seeds are clearly planted. I do not want this plant to grow. The community gains nothing from any further mediation, which realistically will devolve as that previous ANI thread into some kind of partisan wiki-philosophy debate. The simplest and best thing here is a clear admin warning that we have no further interaction beyond this thread and it be made clear that any breach of it be dealt with. Again, I wouldn't expect him to have to check the edit history to see if I edited an article just to make some grammar fix or to not comment in an RfA because I commented there. But there is absolutely no need for either of us to comment to or about each other in any edit summary, talk page, etc. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 17:51, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::::::For God's sake, just ''shut up'' already. Consensus is against your claims, so drop the stick and back away from the by-now fully decomposed remains of what was once a merely dead horse. //] ] 17:55, 27 April 2009 (UTC)</small> | |||
:::::::Consensus is clear that this dispute should end and as such I expect any further comments to or about me by him will be dealt with by any admin so as to prevent further escalation. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 18:04, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
(outdent) Note that if neither party initiates dispute resolution, I can attempt to initiate it. Thus if they refuse it this can trot over to RFAR without their cooperation. Either way, the admin community won't continue to be burdened with a dilemma it can't solve. <font face="Verdana">]</font><sup>'']''</sup> 18:06, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:Per and now , i.e. two admin warnings for him to leave me alone with the latter including a warning of a block, I consider my concerns addressed by admins and I hope that these warnings will be heeded and if ignored acted upon. I have nothing further to say and thank Fram for her fairness in this situation. I will not be the one to escalate this any further and hope that this is the end of the matter. Durova, I am starting to help you on that artist article instead. Sincerely, --]<sup>'']''</sup> 18:18, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
'''Note''' that steps toward dispute resolution but there is, thus far, a vacant chair at the table. <span style="border-left: 1px solid #c30; padding: 3px;">]</span><sub style="background-color: #ffc; color: #c30;">].</sub> 19:05, 27 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
:I'm sorry, you must not realize the history of this dispute. | |||
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::Two weeks ago, roux suggested and a SB_Johnny, was willing to arbitrate the two editors and came up with a solution that the majority of the community supported. But Jack refused to support this solution. Whereas A nobody immediately supported the solution. | |||
::Since Jack refused to support this proposal, the community discussed it, and the consensus was that we should follow this proposal. | |||
::Fram is a very involved editor in this dispute. His proposal requires four comprimises from A nobody, and a vague comprimise from Jack. | |||
:I don't see Jack rushing to support Durova's proposal either. | |||
:I suggest a neutral admin look over this past proposal, and make this binding on both parties, a proposal which has the overwhelming support of the community. ] (]) 02:31, 28 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::Good luck finding one, given that every single Wikipedian, including admins, can be so easily pigeonholed and compartmentalized. ] 05:48, 28 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::Ikip, Jack Merridew has no real problems with my proposal ("I'll certainly agree to this sort of thing as an interim measure"), A Nobody considers his "concerns adressed by admins" (including me), but you start labelling me as "a very involved editor in this dispute"? Can you show me where I have previously acted in this dispute or taking sides with one against the other? And I don't see how "Jack Merridew, leave A Nobody alone, don't comment on him, reply to him, or try to needle him otherwise." is "a vague compromise". Please don't stir up more drama just for the sake of it. ] (]) 07:29, 28 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
::: <span class="plainlinks">nb: you did my unban and my offer to talk, so I'd consider you involved re myself. That said, I do see you as trying sort this issue, and offer my thanks.</span> Cheers, ] 08:45, 28 April 2009 (UTC)<br />@Ikip; I was asleep; UTC+8. ] 08:45, 28 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
===This is Nonsense - Archive Now=== | |||
This is self-indulgent nonsense that brings Misplaced Pages into disrepute, reducing our "encyclopedia" to a Junior High Prom dispute. I vote this be archived at once and both parties blocked if they do this kind of crap again. I mean, honestly, *&^*&^ enough already. ] (]) 00:43, 28 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
*As an aside, how does 'badgering' work? Deletion discussions are exactly that -- discussions, not straight votes. <font face="Trebuchet MS"><b>— ]</b><sup><i>]</i></sup></font> 01:59, 28 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
** It's effective primarily because there's a psychological effect on other editors through seeing masses an masses of support for a position and relatively little against, much like people instinctively treat longer rationales as more thoughtful than shorter ones. This makes them more inclined to favour the position, which skews the debate. Furthermore, editors who aren't used to be endlessly pressured on their rationales might choose simply not to comment as they don't have the time to stick around for ten rounds of further questioning on their positions. ] - ] 12:01, 28 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
Given Merridew's extraordinary history of harassing, i do not really know why he is still allowed to edit. However it seems he came back from being banned here - ] - | |||
and is now clearly being a silly bugger, despite that being a last last chance. Casliber, Jayvdb and Moreschi were assigned to deal with him, so perhaps concerns should be brought to them directly. Given the general nature of the response here i must be missing something. I recall mcdevit's comment "I think part of the problem here is that this troll is so persistent he has outlived most of our institutional memory." ] (]) 02:37, 28 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
'''Yes, please''' – I really don't care what happens, but just end it, already. Or at the very least get this crap off here and reserve this space for stuff that requires ''immediate'' admin attention, which is what ANI is meant for in the first place. Go to RFC, RFAR, whatever; don't bring this stuff here again. I'm tired of it, and I'm sure many others are tired of it. ] 05:48, 28 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
'''Concur''' – this is ridiculous and needs to stop. ANI isn't the right place for it, especially if neither party is capable of bringing forth a concise post that actually requires admin attention. Close this now. File a case for RFAR for all I care: all of these ANI threads aren't going anywhere. — <font face="Segoe Script">]</font> <font face="Verdana"><sup>'''(])'''</sup></font> 05:55, 28 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
===Enforcement of mutual topic ban=== | |||
Can an uninvolved administrator look over: | |||
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And determine whether their is community consensus to put this mutual topicban proposal in effect? ] (]) 02:53, 28 April 2009 (UTC) | |||
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Wikistalking and harassment by User:Jack Merridew
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For background, Pixelface and I were among the few editors convinced by White Cat’s evidence that Merridew was indeed a sock and had to contend with the usual hyperbole about us assuming bad faith until it was confirmed and Merridew was blocked as a sock of Davenbelle who had several socks with which he used to harass various inclusionist editors FOR YEARS. And now, after arbcom unblocked him under strong conditions that he not antagonize anyone or cause any disruption of any kind, he is making a joke out of his being a sock account: , , , , , etc. The "lulz" is also consistent with the attack site Encyclopedia Dramatica. Given that he was blocked for long term use of socks as harassment, it is hardly "funny" about his being a sock and given what’s on ED about various editors, why use that site’s catchphrases? Would you think it would be a big slap in the face and insult if say I did the same thing? There is also this pointed use of the rescue template: . I am increasingly seeing it as a bad idea having allowed him back as he has numerous instances of pointed or bad taste edits with limited good edits to boot, whether it's the above or other instances where he referred to me by my old username mockingly. Casliber has recently reverted an edit Merridew made to my talk page and then told him to leave me alone: , but… I comment in one AFD on one day and argue to delete and notice the post immediately after mine... . That AfD is not an April Fools prank for one thing... Now see this. If you check, his so called apology is , i.e. a post by Pixelface. This has been going on for quite sometime. Even a few months back, I and another user have cautioned him for making unproductive comments as seen at User_talk:Jack_Merridew/Archive_3#Less_than_civility. Instead of responding to this good faith feedback from myself and User:Randomran in a civil manner, he instead has an edit summary in this edit that links to an account other than to my or Randomran’s accounts, which is deliberately antagonistic. You would think someone coming off an indefinite block would not say or do anything overly hostile. Neither Randomran nor I linked to any of his previous accounts or said anything else to be sarcastic to him. Moreover, he seems to be making Encyclopedia Dramatica allusions in various posts as well (see , for example) as well as other odd or unconstructive/non-serious posts as seen with such edits as this. I am therefore concerned that he is 1) needlessly escalating tensions; and 2) uninterested in good faith cautions (after all, Randomran is pretty neutral in all of this and as seen above, Casliber is even his arbcom agreed mentor even if one thinks I am not). The bottom line is that many are all trying really hard to come to a compromise concerning WP:FICTION and anyone mocking editors and dismissing even those who reached out to him (for better or worse, I even said I supported him being mentored when he requested being unblocked back in December…) is remarkably discouraging if not detrimental to the attempt to compromise. Please notice item 5 at Misplaced Pages:Requests for arbitration/Jack Merridew ban review motion#Indefinite block lifted with editing restrictions. Even after that, I have had to endure his insults, while he makes swear-word laden joke "votes", or attempts at humor rather than approaching these things seriously and with policy/guideline based reasons. I tried to welcome this user back, I tried to help him work on an article that became a DYK, and I have even tried avoiding replying to him given Casliber's warning. So, efforts to reconcile have apparently failed. And my efforts to ignore him and an admin's warning that he avoid me is not succeeding either. I want this user to leave me alone already. He harassed White Cat for years and I don't want to be his new target. As can be seen in several recent threads, I am avoiding responding to him. Given that after ArbCom allowed for a mentor who has outright told him to leave me alone and given that arbcom has told him not to do anything disruptive, this is entirely unacceptable. Once someone is told by an admin mentor to leave someone else alone and I am doing my best to avoid him and even reiterated as much at 17:14, 11 April 2009, it did not stop him from making no less than five times afterwards on the 12th still commenting to or about me in a confrontational manner. I am not asking for a request for comment on him or even for him to be blocked; just to not become the new White Cat for him. I don't know if this is revenge because I was right back in Episodes and characters 2 when I accurately believed White Cat or what, but Sincerely, --A Nobody 07:06, 12 April 2009 (UTC)
I agree generally with User:Sephiroth BCR. Folks reviewing this thread to determine the merits of the complaint are invited to look hard at the accusations and ascertain whatever meat they may have. It is my opinion that JM takes some measure of pride in being prickly when the inclusion/deletion debate comes up and that he is much less civil than I would like. However A Nobody is not blameless, most of the complaints made here are, in my opinion, without a strong basis in fact, and it would be improper to treat this as an "one the one hand" sort of dispute. I'm 'involved' as it were, so I won't fully express my opinions here, but admins and editors are asked to please avoid taking claims made here at face value. Protonk (talk) 22:36, 12 April 2009 (UTC)
Mutual topicban proposalProposed: A.Nobody and Jack Merridew are hereby completely forbidden for six months from:
It should be emphasised that in light of points 1 and 2, any attempt by either of these two to game the proposed restrictions via baiting, veiled references, or any other type of wikilawyering end-run should be viewed extremely dimly by admins. Infractions to be met by the usual series of escalating blocks. ADDED: To put it in a much simpler way, I propose the two of them be told to stay the hell away from each other, permanently. Thoughts? //roux 17:46, 12 April 2009 (UTC)
If both of them are comfortable with it, I wouldn't mind being the contact for #3. So long as they understand that I'm usually only available for short periods twice a day. --SB_Johnny | 18:26, 12 April 2009 (UTC)
I don't like the suggestion (#1) that they can only communicate with each other via templates. We don't need to be encouraging formletterspeak, especially not for users between whom personal relations are already strained. I also object to the last suggestion (#4) on the basis that improving articles and preventing bad deletions should supersede any kind of wiki-restraining order, at least in my mind. However, the others (#2) and (#3) are trivial things to sacrifice. — CharlotteWebb 01:45, 13 April 2009 (UTC)
I don't think this appropriate; it isn't dispute resolution, it's fatigue. This is the sort of thing A Nobody and Pixelface have been seeking; to gag a critic and the removal of me from AfDs on less than stellar articles. I've commented on a fairly small number of AfDs in the last some months and have only ever started about 4. I comment on their actions because I believe their actions need commenting on and I'm far from the only editor with critical opinions of them. I've suggested a RFC/U re A Nobody several times, as have others; indeed it was being spoken of in Sept/Oct as a requirement for his return from faux-vanished status, but it was not followed up on. I have not started this myself because he has said several times that he would 'ignore' and/or 'not respect' an RFC/U started by myself or any of his opponents (sorry, no diffs handy, but it's out there; mebbe he'll clarify). His attitude re an RFC/U is itself of concern and while I could initiate this step in DR regardless of his stated stance, it would be best if someone else took the lead. See WP:DR; I'm going to review it, again. Cheers, Jack Merridew 05:24, 13 April 2009 (UTC) Comment: It is apparent that he is unwilling to leave me alone per his ArbCom appointed mentor's advice. That someone would not be willing to leave someone alone when told by an admin to do so and when strongly requested on AN/I to do so demonstrates an unhealthy and inapproriate fixation. There is no reason why under such circumstances anyone would not be able to comply. It is clear that if he comments any further to or about me anywhere beyond this AN/I thread that it will indeed be ongoing harassment. I have tried being nice to him, I have tried avoiding him, he has been told by an admin to leave me alone. Rather than trying to build articles, he is devoting his efforts to hounding myself and Pixelface as the new White Cats in his sights. I am stating this outright and essentially reiterating Casliber's instructions, it is unacceptable for this editor to follow me around any further. There is absolutely no legitimate reason on a site with 2 million articles why he would have a need to cross paths with me. I have even avoided participating further in the WP:FICT discussions because I do not want to be harangued by this editor any further. Anything he does beyond this thread will be clear retaliation and clear refusal to leave an editor alone after being instructed by an admin/mentor to do just that. The only appropriate/acceptable solution is total and complete avoidance. There is no real valid reason why anyone could not agree to that unless if his intentions are indeed to maliciously go after someone and given this editor's history of harassment, I absolutely hope that community would not tolerate such a thing. I plan to go on break for a while to finish my dissertation, but please, please admins do not allow someone who has been restricted due to long-term harassment to be able to find new editors to pick on. Sincerely, --A Nobody 05:34, 13 April 2009 (UTC) Every edit is sacred,
Mutual topicban proposal community !vote
Question:If Jack Merridew was indef-blocked as a sock of a banned user, but the account was subsequently unblocked with specific ArbCom admonishments, but has now returned to habits that led to the original scrutiny and blocking, then what is this discussion about? What were the admonishments that allowed the return of an banned user? Have they been violated? And if so, why not simply reinstate the block? Schmidt, 19:24, 12 April 2009 (UTC)
← Way too-long. I've just made a first pass through this thread and would like to comment on this edit; I had proded that page after commenting to Cas and A Nobody about it. Rather than post to A Nobody's talk page about it (
I advise readers of this thread to go over the original post and observe how little of the "evidence" actually relates to the purported stalking and harassment, and how flimsy it is, and how much of it is just complaining about stuff that has nothing to do with Jack's dealings with A Nobody. I mean, what do the "lulz" have to do with A Nobody? It looks to me that A Nobody feels that, if he throws enough mud, some of it might stick. Reyk YO! 12:15, 13 April 2009 (UTC)
To Jack: The trouble is that you have probably exhausted reserves of good faith that might cause us to believe that you 'rescue' edit was innocuous. I would suggest that you tread very lightly around the whole deletion issue, given the explicit admonitions laid out in the unbanning. further, I would strongly suggest that you agree to and adhere to the spirit of Roux's compromise: stay the hell away from 'A Nobody'. Depending on how you look at it, I'm either a neutral party here or horribly biased, but I can say that the two of us don't have any unique dealings which might predispose me to be unfair to you. Whatever your opinion of 'A Nobody', I can assure you that you (specifically) attempting to "police" him will end poorly for you. Protonk (talk) 19:10, 13 April 2009 (UTC)
Proposal: Community ban of Jack MerridewHis comments here show that he can't even see his behaviour as wrong. He was let back in, essentially, under the agreement that he not cause trouble again. He's causing trouble again. Ergo, I suggest that we just cut the knot and get rid of him. Saves us all a lot of trouble and time months down the road if this picks up again. Jtrainor (talk) 08:12, 14 April 2009 (UTC)
Proposal: Community ban of A NobodyThe following discussion is closed. Please do not modify it. Subsequent comments should be made on the appropriate discussion page. No further edits should be made to this discussion. Resolved – This pointless drama is not productive. -Chunky Rice (talk) 23:14, 14 April 2009 (UTC) Resolved – Stop it please. Not constructive.--Patton 22:40, 14 April 2009 (UTC) It's no secret that A Nobody previously exercised his right to vanish several months ago. It's also no secret he was on thin ice just before he did so. RTV explicitly does not mean "you can come back under a new name". He seems to be using the relatively clean slate to antagonise people (although it may take two to tango). If he can't stay vanished under his old account, he should either disclose his old identity, or be forced to stay vanished. Sceptre 20:36, 14 April 2009 (UTC)
Black Kite, this is a serious proposal. A Nobody: RTV means RTV, not RTCBUANNASTA. Your account was renamed per RTV. Sceptre 22:20, 14 April 2009 (UTC)
Proposal: Community ban of SceptreThe following discussion is closed. Please do not modify it. Subsequent comments should be made on the appropriate discussion page. No further edits should be made to this discussion. Resolved – Stop it please. Not constructive. Black Kite 20:55, 14 April 2009 (UTC) Previously blocked for harassment. Seems only interested in escalating tensions. Sincerley, --A Nobody 20:40, 14 April 2009 (UTC)
SuggestionMisplaced Pages:Dispute resolution. Mediation if possible, otherwise conduct RfC on any of the three parties here. Two things are apparent:
I like and respect all three of you, in different ways. And all three of you have histories that merit a degree of modesty and circumspection. Please shake cyberhands, mutually declare this thread closed, and demonstrate that good faith well placed by taking your concerns to a venue that's more likely to resolve the matter productively. With best wishes, Durova 22:40, 14 April 2009 (UTC)
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I once again must appeal to point five at Misplaced Pages:Requests_for_arbitration/Jack_Merridew_ban_review_motion#Indefinite_block_lifted_with_editing_restrictions. I am absolutely baffled that after the recent ANI thread he would actually go after me in the one and only AfD I bother to comment in in the past couple of weeks. Unbelievable. I strongly urge the community to reconisder supporting at least Misplaced Pages:Administrators'_noticeboard/Incidents/Jack_Merridew-A_Nobody#Mutual_topicban_proposal_community_.21vote, if not Misplaced Pages:Administrators'_noticeboard/Incidents/Jack_Merridew-A_Nobody#Proposal:_Community_ban_of_Jack_Merridew. How much more of the above are we as a community really going to put up with? You would have thought that after that last and recent ANI thread, he would have either totally disengaged from me as I made sure not to comment in or rescue tag the AfDs he started, but instead not only comments in the same AfD as me, but to me in a bizarre manner and then uses a swear-worded stance that is hardly conducive to a civil discussion. And as indicated above, there are indeed other examples of less than productive or non-pointed editing since that ANI thread. I am at my wits end. I don't know what more to do here. I limited my replies in the AfD to only one editor's comment that I thought weak; I avoided rescue templating or arguing in the Honorverse AfDs JM started and we still get the above. I hate posting on ANI again, but I'm not interested in seeing if it's going to continue. None of us should have to keep putting up with this. Please help. Sincerely, --A Nobody 08:13, 27 April 2009 (UTC)
Is this the diff we are meant to see as harassment/disruption? Protonk (talk) 10:01, 27 April 2009 (UTC)
While A Nobody has brought one diff to the table, in the last 10 days Jack Merridew has 100 edits in the Misplaced Pages: namespace, mostly in the Fiction AFDs. When viewed from that perspective, 1% doesnt seem like grounds for complaint. If it was on an AFD topic that Jack Merridew doesnt often go to, I might see your point, but Jack does seem rather fond of voting delete on most Fiction related AFDs. I've tried to convincing him that he should vote keep on them, and maybe even clean them up, but he has yet to see the light. Has there been other diffs where the paths have crossed in that timeframe? John Vandenberg 10:20, 27 April 2009 (UTC)
I'm sorry, A Nobody, but I honestly can't see you have a case either for harassment or disruption, and the spatter of irrelevant diffs just weaken your position further. I think you are disposed to see any interaction with Jack as harassment. Have you e-mailed SBJohnny as suggested at the previous ANI? pablohablo. 11:20, 27 April 2009 (UTC)
A quick note, since I was mentioned. If I thought JM merited a block for his post at WP:ARS, I would have made that block. If someone feels that that comment crossed a line and feels that JM should be blocked for it, that's their business, but I don't want to see my comments misused further, thanks. Please do not involve me or my comments in this nonsense. - A Man In Bl♟ck (conspire - past ops) 08:32, 28 April 2009 (UTC) ProposalI am not sure if we can just do this here or if it requires arbitration, but to make it clear that this dispute ends in this thread, I propose and obviously endorse the following for the good of the community:
Let's put a stop to this dispute here and now. No more antagonism in AfDs, no more ANI threads. Misplaced Pages has over 2 million articles. I avoided commenting in and trying to rescue his Honorverse AfDed articles, there's no urgent need for him to have to go after any ones I work on either. There is no real reason why any two editors on such a big project cannot agree to avoid each other. Clearly, the community is not interested in AfD antagnoism, and clearly it is not interested in any further ANI threads between us. Let's put a stop to all of this and get back to improving the project. And the above is far and away the best way forward. No need to play games trading emails, no need to discuss fine points. I tried reaching out to him in the past, was rebuffed. We tried with Casliber firmly saying to stay away. That didn't work either. So, let's just make it a clear and umabgiguous avoidance per the above and that's that. No more escalation, accusations, or anything else. The community will be far better for it. Sincerely, --A Nobody 11:33, 27 April 2009 (UTC)
Proposal 2
Proposal 3 :Lock the doors, walk awayReinstate Jack's ban, enforce A Nobody's vanishment, and be done with it. This is a dispute between two editors that don't enjoy the normal rights and privileges of a typical editor. Jack Merridew is here after being reinstated from a ban, where one of the primary reasons was the constant taunting of White Cat. I can sympathize with the argument that his treatment of A Nobody looks like that pattern could be starting again. A Nobody vanished ... he invoked his right to vanish, a process which entails actually leaving. A Nobody voluntarily abandoned his ability to edit Misplaced Pages when he did so. He edits only under the tolerance of others. The simplest and most effective way to keep the rest of us from having to deal with disruption caused by these enormous scattershot ANI reports generated by A Nobody over complaints about juvenile taunting by Jack Merridew is to indefinitely block both accounts and walk away.—Kww(talk) 16:38, 27 April 2009 (UTC)
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Cutting the Gordian knotThese threads are coming up too frequently, aren't going anywhere, and are taking up too much administrative time. Although I like and respect both A Nobody and Jack Merridew, we have a shortage of administrators at this site and have to solve this some other way. So proposing a 1-2-3 solution:
Any objections? Durova 16:50, 27 April 2009 (UTC)
(outdent) Note that if neither party initiates dispute resolution, I can attempt to initiate it. Thus if they refuse it this can trot over to RFAR without their cooperation. Either way, the admin community won't continue to be burdened with a dilemma it can't solve. Durova 18:06, 27 April 2009 (UTC)
Note that steps toward dispute resolution have been taken but there is, thus far, a vacant chair at the table. pablohablo. 19:05, 27 April 2009 (UTC)
This is Nonsense - Archive NowThis is self-indulgent nonsense that brings Misplaced Pages into disrepute, reducing our "encyclopedia" to a Junior High Prom dispute. I vote this be archived at once and both parties blocked if they do this kind of crap again. I mean, honestly, *&^*&^ enough already. Eusebeus (talk) 00:43, 28 April 2009 (UTC)
Given Merridew's extraordinary history of harassing, i do not really know why he is still allowed to edit. However it seems he came back from being banned here - Misplaced Pages:Requests_for_arbitration/Jack_Merridew_ban_review_motion - and is now clearly being a silly bugger, despite that being a last last chance. Casliber, Jayvdb and Moreschi were assigned to deal with him, so perhaps concerns should be brought to them directly. Given the general nature of the response here i must be missing something. I recall mcdevit's comment "I think part of the problem here is that this troll is so persistent he has outlived most of our institutional memory." 86.44.29.76 (talk) 02:37, 28 April 2009 (UTC) Yes, please – I really don't care what happens, but just end it, already. Or at the very least get this crap off here and reserve this space for stuff that requires immediate admin attention, which is what ANI is meant for in the first place. Go to RFC, RFAR, whatever; don't bring this stuff here again. I'm tired of it, and I'm sure many others are tired of it. MuZemike 05:48, 28 April 2009 (UTC) Concur – this is ridiculous and needs to stop. ANI isn't the right place for it, especially if neither party is capable of bringing forth a concise post that actually requires admin attention. Close this now. File a case for RFAR for all I care: all of these ANI threads aren't going anywhere. — sephiroth bcr 05:55, 28 April 2009 (UTC) Enforcement of mutual topic banCan an uninvolved administrator look over: And determine whether their is community consensus to put this mutual topicban proposal in effect? Ikip (talk) 02:53, 28 April 2009 (UTC) |