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- Innocence – the pre-egoic, pre-self-conscious stage of the infant. the innocent is only doing what he or she must do. But an innocent does have a degree of will in the sense of a drive to fulfil needs
- Rebellion – The rebellious person wants freedom, but has as yet no full understanding of the responsibility that goes with it.
- Ordinary – the normal adult ego, learned responsibility, but find it too demanding, and so seek refuge in conformity and traditional values.
- Creative – the authentic adult, the existential stage, beyond ego and self-actualizing. This is the person who, accepting destiny, faces anxiety with courage!
These are not stages in the traditional sense. A child may certainly be innocent, ordinary or creative at times; An adult may be rebellious. The only attachments to certain ages is in terms of salience: Rebelliousness stands out in the two year old and the teenager!
His first book, The Meaning of Anxiety, was based on his doctoral dissertation, which in turn was based on his reading of Kierkegaard. His definition of anxiety is "the apprehension cued off by a threat to some value which the individual holds essential to his existence as a self" (1967, p. 72). He also he quotes Kierkegaard: "Anxiety is the dizziness of freedom". In 1958, he edited, with Ernest Angel and Henri Ellenberger, the book Existence, which helped introduce existential psychology to the US.
Quotes by Rollo May
"Hate is not the opposite of love. Apathy is."
"If we admit our depression openly and freely, those around us get from it an experience of freedom rather than the depression itself."
"Care is a state in which something does matter; it is the source of human tenderness. "
"Creativity is not merely the innocent spontaneity of our youth and childhood; it must also be married to the passion of the adult human being, which is a passion to live beyond one's death. "
"Depression is the inability to construct a future. "
"Freedom is man's capacity to take a hand in his own development. It is our capacity to mold ourselves. "
"If you do not express your own original ideas, if you do not listen to your own being, you will have betrayed yourself."
"It is an ironic habit of human beings to run faster when we have lost our way."
"It requires greater courage to preserve inner freedom, to move on in one's inward journey into new realms, than to stand defiantly for outer freedom. It is often easier to play the martyr, as it is to be rash in battle. "
"Joy, rather than happiness, is the goal of life, for joy is the emotion which accompanies our fulfilling our natures as human beings. It is based on the experience of one's identity as a being of worth and dignity."
"Life comes from physical survival; but the good life comes from what we care about." "The relationship between commitment and doubt is by no means an antagonistic one. Commitment is healthiest when it's not without doubt but in spite of doubt."
Taken from www.brainyquote.com Sept 2005
Bibliography
- The Meaning of Anxiety (1950)
- Man’s Search for Himself (1953)
- The Art of Counseling (1965)
- Psychology and the Human Dilemma (1967)
- Love and Will (1969)
- Power and Innocene (1972)
- The Courage to Create (1975)
- Freedom and Destiny (1981)
- The Discovery of Being (1983)
- My Quest for Beauty (1985)
- The Cry for Myth (1991)