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Welcome

Welcome to my Talk page. Please feel free to leave me messages here. Al 02:31, 6 May 2006 (UTC)

Despite bumping heads with some people who had huge ideological axes to grind, I had a pretty clean record until I ran into Circumcision. Ever since, the three people I've been in conflict with over that article have been responsible for my last three blocks, which have all been controversial, questionable, and extended. I'm sure this is only a coincidence, not any sort of wikistalking or anything, but if Jakew, Nandesuka or Jayjg post anything here, in the interests of civility, I'm just going to delete it out of hand. Two of them are admins, but policy prevents them from having anything to do with me as admins, so this is perfectly reasonable. Anyhow, as it stands, I have an RFM open against them and they've got an RFC brewing against me, so I think we interact too much already. Al 05:38, 15 May 2006 (UTC)

Community Justice Newsletter

Community Justice Newsletter

Welcome Previously, various notices regarding Community Justice have gone out to our members; though this is the first actual newsletter. This issue will contain information regarding decisions made on the first meeting, our new council, and more...! If you wish to unsubscribe to future newsletters, please add your name to Misplaced Pages:Community Justice/Do Not Spam. New Council Following our first elections, a new council has been elected.Computerjoe and Ian13 remain as chairman and chief executive (respectively); while Eddieh, Wiki alf and Xchrisblackx are replaced as councillors by Ilyanep, Osbus and Covington. The Giant Puffin and Pureblade remain as councillors. Member Conduct In the last meeting, the conduct of 4 members were discussed. Ethnopunk will be put on probation, supervised by Ian13, if he/she is uncivil during this probation, he/she will be expelled from WP:CJ; the same was decided for Misza13 (voluntarily), and his probation will be supervised by Computerjoe. No action will be taken against Computerjoe. Barnstar The Civility Barnstar which our member's have designed has been sent to Barnstar and award proposals. We'd appreciate your feedback! Also, we are planning to make a Community Justice barnstar to give to hard-working CJ members. If you're a budding designer, consider trying to make it, then post your proposal to WT:CJ! Name and logo change There has been no consensus reached regarding changing our name and/or logo neither at WT:CJ nor at WT:CJ/M/1. While suggestions are still welcome, no action will be taken at this time. Programs We are going to try to create programs to more actively involve our members. If you have any ideas, please drop a line at WT:CJ. We will try to work with WP:ESP on one of these programs, at some point in the future. Thanks! Thank you for your time. If you need anything, feel free to comment at WT:CJ or come into our IRC channel . Computerjoe wishes to extend his thanks to User:Robchurch, a non-member who assisted in making {{tracker}} redundant, as well as Misza13 for his continued support and to the whole of this and the previous council. This newsletter was delivered by CJBot, written by Computerjoe, with technical help from Misza13. Computerjoe's talk 19:30, 14 May 2006 (UTC)

nathan's talk

When did he give you and the other person permission to change that? ILovePlankton 16:33, 15 May 2006 (UTC)

The first sentence of User talk:Nathanrdotcom's Wikibreak message reads " I don't care what you do to this page". My initial interpretation was that Nat was expressing disgust, not encouraging people to change his page and offering them permission. Having said that, I did notice that another editor chose to interpret it as permission, then went ahead and made a change that reversed the meaning of a sentence. I thought it might be better if the original text were allowed to remain unchanged, so I reverted it.

Have I explained my reasons sufficiently? Al 16:44, 15 May 2006 (UTC)

Yes, I wasn't questioning your intent. I just wondered if I had missed something. ILovePlankton 18:53, 15 May 2006 (UTC)

Sorry if I was initially unclear. Please let me know if I can do anything else to help. Al 19:25, 15 May 2006 (UTC)

sorry

I apologise. I have a bad cold and should have gone to bed. (My edit summary was badly worded too. Apologies for that. That's what comes from sneezing and coughing your way through WP stuff!) FearÉIREANN\ 02:40, 16 May 2006 (UTC)

I'm sure you didn't mean to be uncivil, so of course I accept your apology. I'm going to sit back and let others get involved, rather than get stuck in an edit war with you over this. Al 02:45, 16 May 2006 (UTC)

Rand/Objectivism/Homosexuality

Hi! Just wanted to say I weighed in on the debate over the page title at Talk:Ayn Rand's views on homosexuality. Cheers --Yossarian 11:37, 16 May 2006 (UTC)

Yes, I saw your comment, thanks. I'm going to hold off responding, though, until more people weigh in. Al 11:38, 16 May 2006 (UTC)

Christians and Sociologists and Jews, oh my!

You must be one of those, those, Dark Knights of Skeptism! 8-)

Good to see you drop by. I've been distracted lately from the Jesus article. One day, though, I'll be back! ;-) Bob --CTSWyneken 14:44, 16 May 2006 (UTC)

Good guess, but not quite. Whereas sociologists bombard with surveys that people lie in reply to and psychologists study how grad students behave when systematically lied to, my group listens politely, smiles, nods, then digs through your garbage until we get to the truth. I am therefore a proud member of the Anthropology Cabal; fear us!

Hi. Nice to see you as well, but I don't blame you for somehow not finding the time for Jesus. I've limited my partipation in some articles that seem to be intractable; and religious articles are among the worst. Al 14:49, 16 May 2006 (UTC)

I deal with it by moving on these days to odd articles. Know anything about 17th Century French Canadian Explorers? ;-) Re: the sociologists: I like to say: "Lies, Lies, STATISTICS and Lies!" Try the all teens have sex surveys. --CTSWyneken 15:49, 16 May 2006 (UTC)

The article you want is: Lies, Damn Lies, and Statistics. Al 18:41, 16 May 2006 (UTC)

Mediation

Hi, what I'm going to do first off is leave a message for all involved parties informing them that we're going ot try and get the mediation started a.s.a.p.. I'll suggest a Misplaced Pages format, much easier especially with such a large number of parties. The first step will be for you to answer some initial questions I've got, once we've done that we can start focusing in on the specific areas of concern and what steps can be taken to resolve the issue.

If you've got any questions or comments in the meantime please e-mail me or leave me a message. --Wisden17 14:59, 16 May 2006 (UTC)

Your revert

"Please get a consensus before making this change. Thank you." You do realize the version I reverted to was the original and it is you who reverted a modified version created without consensus, correct? —Aiden 04:55, 18 May 2006 (UTC)

Clearly, we disagree about which version is the consensus one. Al 04:56, 18 May 2006 (UTC)

Religion and abortion

Please see the talk page about the "Religious groups section first line" to contribute to a consensus. (I thought you'd be interested, since you reverted the last edit.) Cheers! MamaGeek Joy 16:18, 19 May 2006 (UTC)

Thanks, I will. Al 16:30, 19 May 2006 (UTC)

Mediation

Hi, I'm going to be mediating your case, regarding the Medical analysis of circumcision.

The mediation will take place here. If you are planning to take a wiki-break in the near-future or will be unable to partcipate in the mediation could you please let me know. --Wisden17 19:04, 19 May 2006 (UTC)

Danny and Eloquence

Saw your message. Essentially what that particular snippet on the talk page relates to is actions by the Wikimedia Foundation employee Danny over a protection of a couple of pages. When that protection was made it was done in apparent violation of Misplaced Pages standards for page protection. Eloquence reverted the protection and was promptly desysopped and banned from editing Misplaced Pages. It turned out that Danny's protections were a WP:OFFICE situation, ie protecting the pages because of a potential legal situation. However there was no indication of that when the protections were done, hence Eloquence's reverts. In the end it was actually me that applied the OFFICE template to the protected pages to make sure that the protections were not removed again.

The snippet itself is about my reaction upon seeing what had happened. I posted a very, very strongly worded piece on Danny's talk page deploring what had happened and demanding that it be reversed and never happen again. Tony objected and removed it from Danny's talk page. Things then bubbled along for a few days with a strong reaction against the banning and desysopping. I don't actually know what the final results of this were. David Newton 21:40, 19 May 2006 (UTC)

That's very interesting. Thanks for explaining the situation so far, and please feel free to keep me updated once it gets resolved somewhat. Al 23:29, 19 May 2006 (UTC)

Re: Wikidude54

Thanks for the note. I am trying to be patient with Wikidude54 because s/he seems to be genuinely trying, but if that particular addition continues to find its way into the Abortion in Canada article, I would completely support taking action. Thanks again, romarin 19:33, 21 May 2006 (UTC)

I think we all agree that the inserted text is unacceptable, but it does appear that Wikidude54 is a newbie, and we should avoid biting him. That's why I'm so glad you're able to take the more gentle approach that is probably most fair and effective. If gentleness fails, I suppose there's always room for blocks and such, but those really should be the last resort, not the first, particularly with people who don't know any better. Hope this works out. Al 21:19, 21 May 2006 (UTC)

Of interest.

Admin issues: Misplaced Pages:Requests_for_comment/Aaron_Brenneman#Dead-minn. Al 22:09, 21 May 2006 (UTC)

BI Article

I removed the comment on 'string implants'. They were banned a long time ago, and are NOT among the primary types of breast implants. They are unlikely to be reintroduced to the market anytime soon. Also banned were hydrogel implants in the UK, and those are not included in the BI article. That is one thing we all had agreed on. The string implants, however, have a certain 'appeal' to some because they are what adult entertainers used and create cartoonishly large breasts. However, they were also dangerous. There is still debate about the safety of silicone gel implants, but at least they are allowed on the market, so should be included.MollyBloom 17:58, 22 May 2006 (UTC)

Please see my response on Breast implants. Al 20:07, 22 May 2006 (UTC)

Jtdirl

Firstly I have not broken 3rr. Secondly, it is a bit rich to hear about consensus and discussion when you have offered not one iota of critique, discussed nothing, just blanket reverted an entire article to one which fails every criteria in article writing on WP, deleting international information, sources, footnotes, reading lists, etc. That is vandalism which if it continues will be reported to admins as vandalism and a block requested. I have explained my viewpoint. I have not deleted an article, just rewritten it. You continually delete an entire article. That is a blockable offence. FearÉIREANN\ 21:50, 22 May 2006 (UTC)

As I've explained on your talk page and the article's, you are simply mistaken. Your reversions go against consensus, and if they're not officially in violation of WP:3RR yet, it's only by a technicality. Requiring WP:NPOV is mandatory, not vandalism. Please take a hint from the fact that so many people have undone your work and demanded that you justify it. Perhaps you don't see just how biased your version is. Regardless, the end result is that you must go to the talk page and build a consensus or you will wind up being reverted again and again.

If you wish to report me for being one of the many people reverting your biased edits, you are free to do so. However, this will open you up to counter-reports of 3RR violation and your apparent threat to abuse your sysop bit to control content. With all due respect, I don't think it's a winning move for you. Thank you for understanding. Al 02:29, 23 May 2006 (UTC)

Fucking loved your comment

re:

Thank man. I am about to get booted by another admin regarding his misguided view on wikipedia.Travb (talk) 04:20, 23 May 2006 (UTC)

I've had my own run-ins with admins who don't exactly play by the rules, so you have my sympathy. Hang in there and don't give them any excuses to extend your block, because you know they'll take them. See you when you get back and hope my comment brought you some small amusement. Al 07:42, 23 May 2006 (UTC)

That's our Al - he knows how to win friends and influence people. Sophia 08:32, 23 May 2006 (UTC)

Yea, and I do just love his social skills.- Moshe Constantine Hassan Al-Silverburg | Talk 10:24, 23 May 2006 (UTC)

There's more than one way for social skills to manifest themselves, and there's a lot to be said for gaining a reputation for telling the truth, even when it offends people. Al 16:19, 23 May 2006 (UTC)

Yes that is true that there's a lot to be said about telling the truth, just like there is for a tendatious and combative attitude.- Moshe Constantine Hassan Al-Silverburg | Talk 19:43, 23 May 2006 (UTC)

In the interests of civility, I'd rather not discuss your attitude at this time. Al 04:14, 24 May 2006 (UTC)

Glad ...

Thanks, Ali, for your joking invitation. You know I objected to some of your posts on my talk page but you are always welcome to post light-hearted stuff like this. Yours in Christ, Str1977 10:54, 23 May 2006 (UTC)

I am deeply insulted that you think my new-found devotion for Zeus is a joke. I'm going to go cry in my corner now. Al 16:18, 23 May 2006 (UTC)

Your note

That page is for reporting 3RR violations. You were trolling. Jayg did not violate 3RR, so there was no need for you to wax lyrical. SlimVirgin 16:07, 23 May 2006 (UTC)

That page is for reporting 3RR violations and for commenting on the response to that particular violation, so I see my remarks as being entirely on topic. They were primarily concerned with the unjustified extension of a previously short block.

Frankly, I do not see anything about them that would constitute trolling. Perhaps you could do me the courtesy of directing me to the part of WP:TROLL that you think applies, so we can all see what your basis is.

Whatever your intent, there is now at least the appearance of admins censoring comments that they disapprove of, and that is itself harmful. We need our admins to act transparently and gain a reputation for fairness. This is currently not the case.

I encourage anyone reading this to follow the link above to the text she deleted, so you can see, and judge, for yourself. The judgement of any one person, even one with a sysop bit, is always suspect, which is where checks and balances fit in. Al 16:17, 23 May 2006 (UTC)

For the record, note that SlimVirgin never did respond so as to defend her censorship. I rest my case. Al 01:28, 28 May 2006 (UTC)

Mediation News

I've now added my initial questions and comments on this page. I would ask that you add this page to your watchlist, as this will be where the mediation will take place.

As I've said on the page, we must keep all debate Civil, and I will not tolerate any personal attacks. In order to resolve the issue all of you must be willing to listen to each other's view. It does appear that you have debated this issue qutie extensively already, and so if we are to achieve anything we must not keep repeating what has already been said, although reference may well be needed back to previous comments you have made.

If you have any questions or comments then please either e-mail me or leave a message on my talk page. Again if you are planning to take a Wikibreak, or know you will be unable to access Misplaced Pages for any length of time then please do infrom me.

I look forward to working with you. --Wisden17 20:23, 23 May 2006 (UTC)

allegations

"Alienus has allegedly raped five-year-old boys."

"Alienus has raped people alleged to be five-year-old boys."

You see the difference. The latter asserts guilt, rather than merely asserting that allegations were made. The same applies to you recent edit in Ayn Rand: you put the word "alleged" in the wrong place. I've fixed it.

On another matter, in view of the discussion at talk:list of philosophers, I think you should respectfully express yourself there before editing the article according your view that may be disputed there. Michael Hardy 22:31, 24 May 2006 (UTC)

Hey

Glad we could end the Ayn Rand dispute with a compromise. I know it got a bit heated, but I hope there's no bad blood. Thanks for all your input. Cheers --Yossarian 11:11, 26 May 2006 (UTC)

Likewise, I'm not taking any of this personally. We had a bit of trouble communicating, but we worked through it. Al 22:48, 26 May 2006 (UTC)

BI Article

Alienus, I object to your saying my POV is the problem. That is absurd. We all have POV. The writing is what should not be POV. When I first edited this article, it looked like an advertisement for breast implants. Rob Oliver wanted to simply say there was no controversy. That is flatly untrue. I was not the only one contributing to this, either. Will you please look at the history of this before you decide that I am POV? I am no more POV than Rob. Perhaps we need something in the middle, but it is not going to be done without discussion, and by Rob only. I am not the one who 'froze' the article, by the way. I really wish you would pay attention to what has gone on here, and not come in late and make judgments that are not accurate.MollyBloom 00:19, 27 May 2006 (UTC)

Yes, I do think we need something in the middle. Currently, though, the article seems to reflect your concerns about the procedure but does not reflect the mainstream medical support for its safety.

The fact is that it's very routine and lots of people do it. This means that, on the one hand, it's safe and easy, but on the other, you're bound to find examples where it's gone wrong, particularly when the practioner is a relative amateur. At the very least, there are plenty of cases where the results are aesthetically questionable, even when they are medically safe.

The bottom line is that I don't need to know the entire history of the article to see that the POV pendulum has swung too far into the "con" direction, so we need an infusion of "pro". Let's present the facts and let people decide for themselves, ok? Al 02:04, 27 May 2006 (UTC)

If you had bothered to read the history, you would see why there are off-line article, and a consensus agreement to first discuss changes on the talk page of the off-line article. So yes, you DO need to read the history before jumping to conclusions. That is all that I have been asking for. I have even emailed other plastic surgeons to ask them to contribute. We need to have someone (knowledgeable about implants) other than Rob to help with these edits. Rob has refused to discuss on the talk pages, but instead has gone against what the consensus had been. This is not in the Wiki spirit. His edits were reverted by another admin, because he refused to discuss them on the talk pages first. INstead he deleted well referenced work of other editors (and not just me).

So if you want to "present the facts", do so, in the manner agreed upon by administrators and other surgeons. By the way, what I have added IS the facts. There is NOTHING I have added that cannot be backed up by references. Should others be included? By all means, but only after discussion.

Secondly, why do you say this is very 'routine'? At least in the US, silicone implants are still banned, except under very controlled circumstances. MollyBloom 02:21, 27 May 2006 (UTC)

Saline implants are routine. If they leak, the harm is minimal. Silicone implants are, as you said, banned, precisely because of the harm that comes when they leak. Al 02:23, 27 May 2006 (UTC)

THe majority of what I had discussed was not saline implants. That has not been the issue here. The issue has been silicone implants. Although, I might add, that there is increasing controversy about saline implants. I had 'double lumen' which were saline and silicone (more common for reconstructive surgery), but I don't think the saline was the problem with me. It was the ruptured silicone that ended up causing such serious problems, as it has for many thousands of women. However, I do know that there have been batches of saline implants that had defective valves and made women very sick, because of fungus and mold that grew in the lumens. I still suspect they are safer than silicone, but others might disagree with me on that. Regardless, the issue that we have been discussing is silicone, not saline.MollyBloom 02:26, 27 May 2006 (UTC)

Oh, I think you'll have trouble finding knowledgable people who disagree with what we both said regarding saline being safer than silicone. Then again, I haven't seen a whole lot of mention of silicone in recent edits, so maybe this has died down. Al 02:30, 27 May 2006 (UTC)

I think you are right, generally, but there are some plastic surgeons now voicing concern about saline implants. The issue with saline seems to be the sterility of the saline - hence the fungus and mold problems. I haven't seen the severity of problems that I see with silicone (leakage & rupture). However, I have been shocked by the number of women who have called me with problems with saline. Still, I don't know how common that is, statistically. That is why there is only a mention that problems have been reported with saline, with fungus and mold. That's all one can say about that, as far as I know.MollyBloom 02:39, 27 May 2006 (UTC)

It's my understanding that, as cosmetic surgery goes, breast implants don't take a whole lot of skill and they're quite profitable, so there are some semi-competent butchers out there who can't seem to manage the basics (like sterile saline). Saline implants are, in essence, victims of their own popularity.

I'm told there are similar issues with liposuction, although the hazards are somewhat greater, particularly when the surgeon tries to maximize results. Of course, the problem with both are the practictioners, not the procedures. It is their very ease and safety that lend themselves to amateur use. They're also expensive and not covered by insurance, so people are especially tempted to skimp and go with someone who's not ideal, which can get ugly.

Anyhow, these are obviously complicated issues, and it's especially important for us not to oversimplify them. Let's get all the facts on the table. Al 04:22, 27 May 2006 (UTC)

Yes, I agree. Although we can't do it all in one article. There is another article on plastic surgery. I hope you realize now that 95% of discussion in the 'risk and controversy' section (which will be a separate article) is about silicone implants. The risks are simply greater, at least, from the implants themselves. One thing the FDA is trying to do now is to require board certification in plastic surgery to perform plastic surgery. That is not required now. A dentist can do breast augmentation. This whole experience that I have been through has made me much less trusting of doctors in general - trust but verify, I guess is my motto. As to the article on BI, I hope that other editors can and will contribute. Eventually it will be split. But we need others to help... and first discuss on the talk pages and get consensus, as I explained above. This may take awhile, but there is no harm in that.MollyBloom 01:22, 28 May 2006 (UTC)

For what it's worth, I fully support that. If I had ever wanted cosmetic surgery for some reason, I would not consider going to a surgeon who was not board-certified. But that's me: I'm not desperate, many are, which is why this is reasonable. The free market is many things, but it is clearly not a guarantee of medical safety.

Look, if the majority of the risk and controversy section is about silicone implants, which aren't even allowed anymore, perhaps it might make sense to break that section out into a fork. How does that sound? Al 01:26, 28 May 2006 (UTC)

No, because the silicone implants are hotly debated now, especially since the FDA is reconsidering putting them back on the market. The last two years, manufacturers have really pushed it, and a year ago a panel (comprised mostly of plastic surgeons) has recommended approval of Mentor silicone implants. A year ago, the FDA gave both Mentor and Inamed an approval letter, meaning the FDA will approve if certain conditions are met. That evidently has not happened yet. The argument is that the 'new' implants are safer, but the two manufacturers only provided 2 and 3 years of data on rupture. That isn't much. The problem is that there is so much money involved, and politics.... I and many other doctors and scientists would like to see proof of safety, which there isn't. Anyway, a separate article is warranted, because of this. But we have to get to that point. MollyBloom 01:36, 28 May 2006 (UTC)

I've worked on other articles that had sections grow so large that they were forked. I don't see why we would fork now. Al 01:43, 28 May 2006 (UTC)

Okay what is the difference between a fork and a separate article? It seems that this is worthy of a second article, which was the consensus of other editors.MollyBloom 03:43, 28 May 2006 (UTC)

For an example of a fork, take a look here. Note how a section of this article was broken out into a new one, which becomes the main article for that material. In short, a fork is a separate article that is an expansion of a section from a previous article, usually through specialization. On this basis, "Silicone breast implants" would be a good choice for a fork. Al 03:49, 28 May 2006 (UTC)

Alienus, I encourage you to look at the research on this topic for yourself. You'll see there is in fact little debate in the medical community on the lack of evidence for links to systemic illness or cancer. This is a almost uniquely American political & tort-related phenomena. Close to two dozen governments have done systemic reviews of this since 1990 and they've all come to this conclusion. Complications from the implants (as near as well can tell with current data) seem to limited to the breast & every indexed complication parameter in the FDA trials is better with silicone implants rather then saline (except for a 3% higher incidence of capsular contracture). You can follow the history of this article and witness the hundreds of changes Molly makes to this monthly spinning it like a political debate. Despite her protestations, I've laid out in detail a great deal of a roadmap for the article in the discussion pages. She just has no interest in starting with the consensus information on the controversial areas. Droliver 04:36, 28 May 2006 (UTC)

If so, then this is all the more reason to isolate the silicone debate into its own article, allowing BI to stabilize. Al 04:51, 28 May 2006 (UTC)

User:M0402220

What was the point in starting his user page? DGX 20:12, 27 May 2006 (UTC)

Huh? It's a matter of politeness. Al 20:24, 27 May 2006 (UTC)

Staying out

Actually, I'm planning to stay out of any further political discussions on Misplaced Pages for the moment (particularly Rand...she makes my eye bleed). Good luck to you. --Yossarian 04:08, 28 May 2006 (UTC)

You show great wisdom. There are many days when I've regretted ever getting involved with the Rand articles. My interactions have led to two blocks, which is one short of the ones I got for daring to get involved with circumcision articles. As for Laszlo's former partner, he left Misplaced Pages in a huff.

Anyhow, good luck with whatever you choose to edit. Al 04:12, 28 May 2006 (UTC)

Yes, I know what you mean. I've had many a debate on circumcision that could have lead to my own had my opponent had the tools to perform it. --Yossarian 04:45, 28 May 2006 (UTC)

Assuming they'd have stopped at just removing the foreskin. As for being a major philosopher, Rand has the little problem of being considered irrelevant in philosophical circles. Her fame is in libertarian politics. Al 04:51, 28 May 2006 (UTC)

Pro life

The word "fertilization" is clearly spelled with a "z," not an "s." Also fertilization is conception. They're the same thing. Referring to the unborn as "what" is just as biased as referring to them as "who." Also, putting quotes around the words "right to life" when explaining the view of pro-lifers shows sarcasm, as if you're mocking their belief. So I don't agree with the reverts from what I've seen at the beginning. Also, there's no need to use the words "emotive" and "scientific." This violates NPOV and is not needed anyway.Politician818 04:55, 28 May 2006 (UTC)

I generally reply to article-specific text on the article's talk page, not here. If you don't see a response and want to prompt me to look, then this is the place. Otherwise, it's not. Al 04:56, 28 May 2006 (UTC)

Pro-choice

Alienus, hi.

Could I get some feedback from you on my latest edits to Pro-choice? I'm eager to keep working on it, but I don't want to leave consensus behind. -GTBacchus 00:34, 29 May 2006 (UTC)

Help me understand

If you post to me... its not vandalism. But if I post to you, it is. How does that logic work?

64.178.145.150

That's kind of like asking why universities publish books by professors and experts in the field and not stuff by me. It's not the directionality of the posting but rather the content. If you vandalize, your posts are vandalism. See WP:VANDAL for more information. Isopropyl 04:04, 29 May 2006 (UTC)

I apologize! Ted showed me the "Vandalism". I promise, it was not me... at least not intentionally. I was trying to respond to you. As I recall, when I responded some error cropped up and I hit the back button and then resent the whole page. Evidently that messed things up. But I promise it was entirely unintentional. I had no idea it did that. I only wanted to reply to you. It was a glitch and perhaps it is my fault but I was not aware it happened. Again, I apologize.

64.178.145.150

Your attempts to leave me a message have been so clumsy that they damaged pre-existing contents of this page, and were identified by a third party as vandalism.

As for your various edits, they have shown an overwhelmingly strong bias towards the LDS church, which violates WP:NPOV. As a result, I have been forced to spend my time repairing some of the more obvious damage that you've caused to these articles.

My suggestion, once again, is that you get an account to log in under and then join the other editors on the respective Talk pages of these articles so as to participate in building as consensus, instead of unilaterally making harmful changes. Al 04:12, 29 May 2006 (UTC)

1) Yes, I see that my attempt to leave you a message did some damage. As I said, there was some sort of connection glitch. Not intentional. I have apologized to you. My apology was sincere. Do you bear a grudge nevertheless?

2) You are wrong to imagine I am so biased for the LDS, I am too cynical for that -- but I am not biased against them either. I could however, say that your bias is against the LDS Church -- or if not them, then against me. Wouldn't that violate WP:NPOV? Just my saying it does not make it so, even though I could probably make as good a case as you could make against me. I agree that I may not state things best all the time but your assumptions of great evil on my part are just wrong. You seem upset that I failed to add comments to justify the changes I made. OK - perhaps that was wrong -- but I did not know it. And that oversite does not make my on-topic, third party, unbiased and annoted comments the same thing as a biased point of view -- even if you think so. (Incidentally, I detect a sense of superiority from you comment about being "forced" to revert. You are NOT forced to go around reverting these things. Its a choice you make. You should not be upset and blame me for your use of time.)

3. I understand you desire for me to get an account. I believe I can participate on the talk pages without one. Is that not so? Having participated for more than a decade on the Internet, I suspect your desire is associated with a healthy suspicion that I am some sort of troll. I have seen trolls at work in other places and yes, they are annoying. Maybe I seem suspicious to you because I am -- to you -- unidentified. But that lack of identity is not particularly important -- it does not make me a troll. I could, I am sure, develop several names here and run around all day and do all sorts of mischief if that were my goal. But have some charity. I am not interested in that. But I do not want to get use an account just yet. Is that really so bad?

4. Finally, you talk of unilateral harmful changes. But that is what you do when you revert -- your reverts are unilateral (or do you claim you had a vote?) and they are harmful in that they retain a non-neutral point of view. The first instructions I got when I came here was:

Don't be afraid to edit—anyone can edit almost any page, and we encourage you to be bold (but please don't vandalize)! Find something that can be improved, either in content, grammar or formatting, and fix it. You can't break Misplaced Pages. Anything can be fixed or improved later. So go ahead, edit an article and help make Misplaced Pages the best information source on the Internet!

That was sincerely my only goal. I spent far more time in research on my edits than you took to revert. Hours of time to be sure that what I wrote was correct and accurate and hopefully unbiased. However, you took it as some sort of evil thing. If you are so interested in discussion, why not talk about it BEFORE you revert. Maybe I could correct your concerns.

Maybe you just had a bad day and felt unpleasant, but I do not think you treated me fairly.

64.178.145.150 05:41, 29 May 2006 (UTC)

Incidents board

Misplaced Pages:Administrators'_noticeboard/Incidents#Alienus.27_war.3F Thought you might be interested.

KV 05:08, 29 May 2006 (UTC)

And did you see my response to Chooserr? Probably not what they were expecting. CovenantD 05:22, 29 May 2006 (UTC)

Yes, I did. And I do realize that you are not the sort of person who would be all that helpful to his cause, but I guess that he did not realize this. From what I've seen, you're someone who sometimes disagrees with me, but isn't any sort of POV warrior. In short, you're the sort of editor my advertisements in main articles seek to pull in. Al 05:25, 29 May 2006 (UTC)

I have a feeling that my personal beliefs would tend to agree with yours more often his on these issues, but I try really hard not to let them become a part of the edits that I make. NPOV is my goal. CovenantD 05:41, 29 May 2006 (UTC)

We all have our own personal beliefs, and that's fine. They shouldn't take over our editing, though. When they do, the results are pretty ugly, as recent events demonstrate. Al 05:45, 29 May 2006 (UTC)

It looked to me as though you had. If that was in error, my apologies. It was not done in bad faith. CovenantD 00:21, 30 May 2006 (UTC)

I don't think you quite understand. Even if you were simply mistaken in counting my reversions, trying to get me blocked was a hostile action.

Now, I've gotten people blocked before, but it was always an action of last resort against an inveterate edit-warrior who could not be reasoned with and who would not stop reverting to their version against the consensus.

Even then, I've made a habit of alerting editors to the fact that they are close to violating 3RR, and then again once they have violated it, offering them the chance to just undo their last revert and walk away.

Your choice to post on ANI/3RR amounted to shooting first, asking questions never. That is completely incompatible with civility and the assumption of good faith, and I hold you accountable for your actions.

Once you've tried to get someone blocked, things do not typically go right back to normal. It was a bad move on your part, and the damage has already been done. Al 01:35, 30 May 2006 (UTC)

Re: Teenage pregnancy

A teen could become impregnated by many means, like in-vitro fertilization, or one of the myriad other fertility treatments available.--digital_me 01:40, 30 May 2006 (UTC)

I suppose that's physically possible. However, I don't know of any doctor who would impregnate a young, unmarried woman, nor any cases where this has occurred. In other words, it's not really relelvant to the issue because it pretty much doesn't happen.

The reason the article explicitly mentions that pregnancy comes from sexual intercourse is a counter-reaction to earlier attempts at whitewashing (which made it sound like it was all a matter of storks receiving mistaken directions). It is not intended to limit the possible medical sources of impregnation, or even things such as "splash pregnanancy", so the added parenthentical served mostly to confuse and distract. Al 01:43, 30 May 2006 (UTC)

Pay attention and don't make accusations

You recently changed the condom article, omitting one error message and misleading on the second (claiming to be reverting non-existent vandalism). This is unacceptable behavior. On top of your earlier attempt to get me blocked for making public service announcements, you have been acting in an unreasonable manner. Al 02:06, 30 May 2006 (UTC)

I never claimed to revert vandalism if I did my message would be something along the lines of "rvt - vandalism" not "rw" which is short for RW. So please keep a cool head, Chooserr 02:09, 30 May 2006 (UTC)

Please, let's be serious. With typical fonts, "rvv" is barely distinguishable from "rw". That's why we don't use "rw" (or was it "rvv"?). You made an edit comment that was misleading. Al 02:42, 30 May 2006 (UTC)

I am serious. I never use "rvv" because I always thought that it just meant Revert. Anyways if I mislead you I do assure you it was unintentional - that doesn't mean I'll stop using rw though (look at the center of the "w" and the size to tell the difference). Chooserr 02:50, 30 May 2006 (UTC)